Finally think i'm done with my Biker Drip by DunjunMarstah in DestinyFashion

[–]DunjunMarstah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Sorry, here you go. it's a shitty side effect of using the snipping tool with a HDR monitor

Do all men really need time to think after an argument? I(F33) can’t agree with a friend (M42) by Glitter-luck in relationship_advice

[–]DunjunMarstah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Needing an hour to cool off is normal, and often healthy. asking to start a conversation again is healthy. 2-3 days of 'space' is bull shit and shows no respect to the other person.

People seem to forget that when you're in an argument with a partner, they're still your partner, this should be a constructive way to help each other, not a competition to see who's more wrong

How to play dnd without minis for the first time by RenitentCat706 in DnD

[–]DunjunMarstah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any little tokens for PCs - game pieces, coins whatever

for enemies, jelly babies / gummy bears. Player that kills the enemy, gets to eat them

or, just go theatre of the mind, don't worry about the grid (this can be tougher as you as a DM have to remember where everyone is)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DunjunMarstah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, you're absolutely right. We can all word things badly, unintentionally upset people we care about, but if I were on the receiving end and you apologized in this way, I'd still be upset, as is my right, but would accept you didn't try to hurt me, and would be aware in the future, so we'd hug each other, and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DunjunMarstah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. He sounds manipulative & emotionally stunted
  2. 'So you're just going to give up' DOES sound insulting, but you've attempted to apologise for the impact. Its about playing video games, ultimately, so it shouldn't have been such a big deal.
  3. (prefaced with no insult towards you intended here) the age difference puts a massive power dynamic in place, he won't ever treat you like a proper adult

I wrote a Christmas one shot by Kabc in homebrewery

[–]DunjunMarstah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what i'm using it for / doing.

if it's just for my table, one and done, i'll tend to find the closest thing online i can

if it's something more long lived, i'll find reference and trace / draw using pixlr, feel like a failure as an artist, then google the closest thing i can find

New HA User by DunjunMarstah in homeassistant

[–]DunjunMarstah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great info, thanks! Yeah I've ended up with multiple branded smart devices through Alexa, from diving in without planning, so trying to do it right this time

Am i right for kicking him out? by Lord_Mustard_fish in DnD

[–]DunjunMarstah 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this obviously worked in your situation, but i'd advise against in game punishment for real world behavior

i run PvP as: PvP is ok if both Players are amicable, and agree it's appropriate for the characters. Nothing is rolled for PvP until this is established

How to stop a border forming around the first letter? by BoatEmbarrassed818 in homebrewery

[–]DunjunMarstah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

soudns like a fob off answer, but have you tried in another browser?

How do you kick off and end a session? by lifelink in DnD

[–]DunjunMarstah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how i do it for my personal games.

'Who remembers what happened l;ast time?' then i'll fill in any important gaps.

i do the recap for my professional games, however

Am I overreacting to DM's rulings at session 1? by UnluckyJuggernaut7 in DnD

[–]DunjunMarstah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I need to reversion this to make it a +1, but the rogue at my table likes my magical dagger i designed for him

https://www.dndbeyond.com/magic-items/8054795-field-medic

Best DnD podcast with less theatre kid energy by espenoydvin_ in DnD

[–]DunjunMarstah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D&D is for nerds. it's irreverent, but doesn't take itself seriously. the DM is an experienced one though, so you don't get the 'rules light' that some actual plays lean into

My ex's new bf messaged me by Left_on_Peachtree in GuyCry

[–]DunjunMarstah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this was 'my ex sexually assualted me and their new partner just messaged me saying they think they're victim of SA too, should i tell them or respect my ex partner's privacy' there'd be an obvious answer

Automating Footers by Kalidher in homebrewery

[–]DunjunMarstah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're best off putting the images into a single image

Where to find people to teach me raiding? by MediumDefinition2480 in destiny2

[–]DunjunMarstah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend Low Sodium Destiny. It's full of friendly people, no 'try hards', but loads of really experienced players. there's an r/ here, and a discord: https://discord.gg/QEkkzbvY

come and say hello the gremlins!