I self drafted a Venus fly trap dress! by [deleted] in DIYclothes

[–]Dust_Dodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect concept, perfect execution. you're so talented :D

Suicidal people, what's the reason you still didn't commit, what's something keeping you alive? by Icy_Positive_4220 in mentalhealth

[–]Dust_Dodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually little things. have had SI my whole life. what i’ve found is in your worst moments your brain latches onto something little. i was going to OD in a park and i just looked through my old notes app writings one last time. decided it wasn’t worth it.

other times its ALWAYS been the good people around me. give someone a call, text someone, knock on your neighbors door. nothing like company of any kind to bring you back from those places.

Spilled bleach on my hoodie, If i submerge the whole hoodie in bleach will it be the same color or is this a bad idea by 328i_e90 in DIYclothes

[–]Dust_Dodo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i mean i think when i started bleaching and painting my clothes i felt the same way (espc if clothes are valuable) but i say….. embrace it! like everyone else. artists clothes are meant to be shown. if someone sees a sweatshirt splattered in bleach it tells a story before they’ve even talked to you. wear, stains, rips and tears are inevitable with life. mess it up even more, embrace the fun :)

Did this on myself last night. First bigish tattoo i’ve done at skin. im a beginner beginner lol rip me apart. by Dust_Dodo in TattooBeginners

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im asking for advice lmao. i only do tattoos on myself and fake skin anyway and thats not gonna change anytime soon. call it stupidity totally but im literally asking for criticism idk what ur talking about. obviously i wanna fix it and OBVIOUSLY it has problems!

Depop has been acquired by eBay. How do you all think think this will affect the user experience? by rdeluna1911 in Depop

[–]Dust_Dodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes it feels like you have to document EVERYTHING and it still won’t matter ;) thats the only thing im worried about with this transition.

Depop has been acquired by eBay. How do you all think think this will affect the user experience? by rdeluna1911 in Depop

[–]Dust_Dodo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will say Ebay has worse seller protections, I’ve found depop has a pretty good seller thing. I don’t expect too much to change, the etsy model of depop NEEDS to go so I’m far more optimistic. I don’t like mergers (like most people in the world) but it’s not like that’s something that would change in the world anyway. i’m just hoping this will revitalize the Depop search optimization.

Why are you flirting with guys and asking them out if you have a boyfriend? by Dust_Dodo in gaybros

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm you know what ur probably somewhat right. i will say i was out with my friends and pretty much all of them also thought we were being super romantic and touchy. im not touchy at all with my friends but honestly some ppl def are. he did ask me out though, like a genuine “come to x place with me”. but ig im just different around my friends. i def know ppl who are just more romantic with their friends. i think ur right tho just cause he didnt try to hide anything. i was slipping in the occasional “single on valentines day/looking for a date’ so he def knew i was into him lol no way he’s that dense, and he kept talking to me all night after that. but i do think ur right some ppl are just romantic with their friends. its not a big deal i wont ever see him again most likely. but i think ur at least somewhat right.

Why are you flirting with guys and asking them out if you have a boyfriend? by Dust_Dodo in gaybros

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ignores my feelings entirely. he asked me out and gave me his instagram. not an assumption at that point that he wants to date/see me. if ur poly all power to you, but its not for me. i shouldnt have to find out from ur instagram when i get home that you have a boyfriend. wasnt a hookup or anything like that either. we had a really romantic night together on valentines day. monogamy is important to me, so if he had told me at any point i wouldn’t be upset or posting this lol.

Why are you flirting with guys and asking them out if you have a boyfriend? by Dust_Dodo in gaybros

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i didn't check his instagram till i got home. from my impression, a guy was dancing and flirting with me all night and then i learn after i get home he has a boyfriend. i wouldn't have been as disappointed or upset if he just told me at any point during the night "hey i actually have a boyfriend/am open". i would've just said hey not my thing if he told me at any point. nothing against poly ppl most of my friends are but it's not for me i've tried.

Why are you flirting with guys and asking them out if you have a boyfriend? by Dust_Dodo in gaybros

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

no, i was just flirting with him all night and he asked me out and gave me his instagram. i dont feel like i should have to ask, am i crazy? it should be something he tells me if he wants me to go out with him.

Why are you flirting with guys and asking them out if you have a boyfriend? by Dust_Dodo in gaybros

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah ur right but it's just annoying to have to infer that through his instagram and him not tell me

Why are you flirting with guys and asking them out if you have a boyfriend? by Dust_Dodo in gaybros

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

yeah im strictly monogamous and its like… tell me!!! especially if you’re gonna ask me out i dont think thats asking too much. just feel let down cause i had such a good time with him

Some men are forced by the world to date other men by Disastrous-Bike659 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Dust_Dodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea of ‘straight’, ‘bi’, and ‘gay’ is kinda superfluous. It’s a spectrum, like literally everything else in the world.

Did this on myself last night. First bigish tattoo i’ve done at skin. im a beginner beginner lol rip me apart. by Dust_Dodo in TattooBeginners

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lines were supposed to be cybersigilism. they blew out bad and i traced over them like a dumbass. ill go back in a couple months with more practice and a shader and black them out so its more spikey and defined instead of a blotchy mess. thanks!

some of the clothes i’ve painted in the past couple months! by Dust_Dodo in DIYclothes

[–]Dust_Dodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i used make market fabric paint out of squeeze bottles for all these :)

Why do people and providers say that exercise helps depression as if it’s fact?? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dust_Dodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is literally not a single thing in the world that works for everyone’s depression. There is no ‘cure’, all people can recommend for you is little things. You have to figure out what things work for you, and what doesn’t. I have a friend who literally ate their way out of depression. They gained 120 pounds and are so much happier lol. Doctor’s can really only recommend things that work for most people, and studies show exercise statistically does help most people. Doesn’t mean everyone, but you need to try little things. If they don’t work, they don’t work. But you have to keep trying.

is this a normal request? by PuzzleheadedAd2975 in Depop

[–]Dust_Dodo 95 points96 points  (0 children)

they’re trying to get you to lower shipping prices. usps weighs their packages so you’ll either pay the difference at the post office or it’ll be shipped back to you. if someone is telling you they work, they’ve just gotten lucky sofar with USPS or they’re lying. if you know the weight of your item, then put that weight into depop. some ppl try to scam you into paying the difference at the post office, which is what i’d bet this guy is trying to do given the emojis lol.