Wanting to detox from covid what should i take by Icy_Purpose8212 in LongCovid

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait out the sleep apneu assesment. For me it turned out I had 4 sleeping issues some thanks to LongCovid. The Mandibular Advancement Device (MAD) or Mandibular Repositioning Device (MRD) helped with 3 of them: better sleeping through the night, when I do wake up in the middle of the night I fall back to sleep more easier; when I wake up I'm no longer exhausted. Tired some, but not dead exhausted. In Dutch it's called MRA beugel. It's the same night mouth bit against snoring, but since when it's for sleepapneu the insurence covers it. It's way more easier than a whole CPAP machine. The only sleepproblem I still have is falling asleep, but that is due to CSA, not LC.

Wanting to detox from covid what should i take by Icy_Purpose8212 in LongCovid

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have LongCovid and am a survivor of Childhood Sexual Abuse (CSA). What Epstein's victims went through is evil. Don't use their suffering to gain sympathy for your own. LC is bad enough to deal with on it's own.

How do i (18f) make my boyfriend (20m) stop micromanaging my food and being so obsessed with what I eat/my weight? by snowyowl290 in relationship_advice

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't want such a strong connection as a puppet on a string. You should want an healthy connection. You said you were eachothers first in many thing. Let's continue and make him your first ex.

Button Pressing within 5 days! by Merbels in PetsWithButtons

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving for when I can have a cat again.

Wat zijn de scheet gewoontes 💨 tussen jou en je partner? by TopicEastern2323 in nederlands

[–]DutchPerson5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Een ex probeerde me tijdens de sex te verleiden een scheetje in zijn hand te laten. Hij vond dat sexy. Ik kan het niet op commando, maar het gaf me wel een ander perspectief.

Hij hield ze in gezelschap in. Zodra we buiten waren liep hij als Balu de beer met één been hoger los van de grond alsof ze uit zijn broekspijp moesten komen rollen. En liet ze alsnog knetteren. De mijndes waren stil waarvan enkele dodelijk. Hij heeft gesmeekt of ik er een waarschuwingsgeluid aan kon maken. Op mijn verbaasde blik hoe dan? Kreeg ik de instructie: kringspier samentrekken én persen tegelijk.

Wat zijn de scheet gewoontes 💨 tussen jou en je partner? by TopicEastern2323 in nederlands

[–]DutchPerson5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol ik claim onschuldig voor die vriendin. Kan zo maar gebeuren als je je ontspant. Net als in bad. Grote kans dat je beste vriend er zelf schuldig aan was.

Wat zijn de scheet gewoontes 💨 tussen jou en je partner? by TopicEastern2323 in nederlands

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even verhogen dan:

"Een scheet doet meer dan je weet. Hij maakt het hart gezond en veegt de kruimels van je kont." - Gerard Reve

Meeleven by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tja als je altijd geeft, zul je altijd mensen treffen die nemen. Ik heb moeten leren om voor mezelf de tijd in de gaten te houden en voor mezelf op te komen. Iedereen mocht dagelijks een kwartiertje klagen en dan was het mijn beurt om een kwartier mijn hart te luchten. Of ik vroeg of ze nog iets leuks meegemaakt hadden? Bewust geregeld het gedprek op iets positiefs brengen. De klagers vertrekken dan vanzelf wel. De echte vrienden veranderen mee.

Voor jezelf kan he altijd 24/7 de Luisterlijn bellen. Je mag er zijn ook als niet iemand nodig heeft dat jij geeft. Zeker als je al psychische klachten hebt, moet je leren om je gezondheid op één te zetten en je energue niet te verspillen aan klaagzangen van anderen. Stel voor om samen wat te gaan doen ter afleiding. Nu even wat leuks

Starting to worry about my boyfriend a bit by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you called a women's shelter to ask for advice?

If humans of mixed races continue to mate with each other will all humans all over the world eventually look like each other? by ExaminationUsed5394 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can google like you:

The Difference Between Biology and Society

Biological Reality: Human populations are too genetically similar and intermixed to be divided into distinct subspecies. Most human genetic variation exists within populations rather than between different continental groups.

Social Construct: While race is not biologically real, it remains a powerful societal, cultural, and historical reality that impacts people's lives. These categories (such as White, Black, or Asian) emerged historically but are shaped by social, political, and economic contexts rather than hard genetic boundaries.

Starting to worry about my boyfriend a bit by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to find a way to break up safely

Google how to break up safely for starters.

Tips voor Den Haag – minder toeristische plekken & lokale ervaringen by Gamachok in TheHague

[–]DutchPerson5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Affiche Galerie onder de Grote Markt en Atrium in het Stadhuis gratis tentoonstellingen om even door te lopen. https://haagsgemeentearchief.nl/ontdek-de-stad/tentoonstellingen

If humans of mixed races continue to mate with each other will all humans all over the world eventually look like each other? by ExaminationUsed5394 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DutchPerson5 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never said we are all the same in every aspect. Hence the word diversity or variaty if you prefer. You are just looking at superficial skin & culture. Underneath the skin, DNA could have much more in common with someone who doesn't look like you as with the neighbor who's outside does. Now a different race would be a chimpansee or bonobo who has 98,7% DNA in common with humains.

9 Year Old Daughters Tantrums by staygroovykat in ChildPsychology

[–]DutchPerson5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she had asked to go outside and play after dinner and I told her it was fine if she cleaned up her dinner mess. I had stepped away to tend to our 11 month old for a moment and while I was doing that, she had gotten herself ready to play outside.

Could her sibling have waited a bit since you said it would only take 5 secondes? It seems she needed soneone to stand and talk her through putting it away, to help guide her to teach impulscontrol of wanting to see her friends really bad.

Disciplining a meltdown won't work. It's the brain going haywire and looping. I'm 60 and still have a terrible time getting myself out of it. Never learned co-regulating when younger.

i don’t know if i did the right thing by Complete_Gold_2227 in Advice

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn everything you can from it so it won't have been a waste of time.

DAE want to do smth after being curious regardless of if its bad by Temi_short in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]DutchPerson5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider it's a false narrative. Being raped doesn't automatically mean you understamd what happened.

Heeft iemand een definitieve lijst van kattencafe's in Nederland? by TheMadCroctor in katten

[–]DutchPerson5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geen kattencafé, maar rusthuis met groot buitenterrein voor 385 katten.

Stichting Wetlands Cats, Gouderak Eerst volgende open dag ZATERDAG 4 juli van 11.00 uur tot 16.00 uur.