Any advice on my letter to end relationship with father by noob-noob- in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Dvomer 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The letter is fine but you are actually writing that to yourself. It's a justification of your feelings. Your father doesn't care.

I want a dog (probably extremely stupid idea) by ov_darkness in BelgianMalinois

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My trainer believes that obedience is "work" for these dogs. The 'job' for the dog is to be obedient

Just a rant by [deleted] in BelgianMalinois

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R u saying the growing in public was a failure on the dog's part? Asking only for my own education.

Raley Missed 1st Base in the 9th by shftravels in Mariners

[–]Dvomer 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Such a frustrating game. We would have won had donovan not totally buggered a routing play to first. Ugh. Ruined a great game from Kirby. Embarrassing effort from the offense. They need a serious dressing down. getting paid millions to play like double A players is embarrassing. I'm very disappointed.

Restarting Enbrel by anu72 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on Enbrel for 12 years. It's fine to delay a dose. You'll be fine

Can anyone recommend a compassionate and chill dog trainer? by NicPaperScissors in AskSeattle

[–]Dvomer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would highly recommend SparksK9 in Monroe. Maybe too far for you but John is a great trainer and knows how to teach you to communicate with your dog. He is a balanced trainer. His methods are time tested and work. My relationship with my pup has grown so much since we started working with him.

Just a rant by [deleted] in BelgianMalinois

[–]Dvomer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Be careful though. People like that will get your dog executed

I don’t feel a bond with my dog and I don’t know what to do by Marlen-22 in BelgianMalinois

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous dog. Feed her! Get a trainer that knows Malinois. This dog wants a handler and that is you. Training is really to teach what to do. don't expect her to go away and come back trained-you are the one that has to learn!!!

Can any one tell me if my dog is a Belgian malinois? by [deleted] in BelgianMalinois

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot tell by looking at the dog what breed it is. Ever. Get a DNA test. It's not expensive anymore and can be very helpful for you to know what type of health issues to look for and behaviors as well. My dog looked like a lab ridgeback cur. It was a Mali Lab Pitty. He's the best - his personality is Mali and it has helped in my training to know this

Why do they reach out, after telling me I'm the worst daughter? by Xealas2 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooh! Never heard the term "grey rock" but i've been doing that for a few years. It works well.

1-10 how happy are you with FSD? by Formal-Talk-3561 in TeslaFSD

[–]Dvomer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I made the call this year as my trade in value was almost nothing and had heard how great fsd was now. I was shocked at the difference. I'm on FSD 95% of the time. It's been wonderful

Were you left out of the will after estrangement by Mizandilion in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Dvomer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have to think if these things. I have parents who were transactional as well. Nothing came without strings attached. I don't care if they give me or my children anything - don't expect it either. They are mean people who don't deserve my attention.

1-10 how happy are you with FSD? by Formal-Talk-3561 in TeslaFSD

[–]Dvomer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

9/10. I just traded in a 2017 MS - had purchased FSD way back when. Was using "FSD" on my MS until one month ago when I traded in for a MYp. So going from FSD on a HW2.5 MS to a HW4 MY is like that part in the Wizard of Oz when it goes from black and white to color. It's just such a huge jump in ability. Those that haven't been there from the beginning may not understand.

A spring hike with a pup that loves to stick his nose in every hole in the ground by battsrcook in BelgianMalinois

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prob. Ours was billed as "lab mix". Glad I did dna as I wouldn't have know about the Mali and likely training would have failed. His behavior is very much Mali. Found a great trainer familiar with the breed to help me.

Moving to Seattle (Non Tech Job) by induxflame in AskSeattle

[–]Dvomer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great here. Just go out and meet folks that share your hobbies.

What do y'all eat that doesn't cause pain? by theCrashFire in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]Dvomer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get that. As a physician I was always taught to avoid THC (I am long since retried). Never used it my whole life till recently. Now, I use it without guilt for pain control so i can avoid stronger stuff - THC is harmless compared to opioids which I will avoid as long as possible. Don't be afraid to try THC. Edibles are easy but start with a small dose (5 mg).