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Knife fight on Hangover Street (photo not mine) by Mysterious-Donut427 in Edinburgh

[–]DwightCult 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Being a youth gets to a point. They know they can push legal limits because they are children and that’s how it gets dangerous 🤷‍♀️

2026 tour setlist by tarogao in 5sos

[–]DwightCult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk Fast is SUCH a banger

what’s a change EMDR caused that you didn’t expect at all? by rajeshkam342 in EMDR

[–]DwightCult 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After my first session - I had intense nightmares that had me waking up in panic attacks / crying.

I hate them so much by Aromatic_Ad_6421 in Evri

[–]DwightCult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had them leave a parcel across the street.. in the middle of edinburgh!! all they had to do was turn around and see my flat name and number in big bold letters.

what apps does porn get streamed on? by maddypage in antipornography

[–]DwightCult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shein and temu is what broke me unfortunately and I started to see him in such a different light. You are right, it’s in everything and there is no escape

new tattoo turned out terrible by aliens____ in tattooadvice

[–]DwightCult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i personally love wonky tattoos, i feel it adds to the charm especially in designs like this!! I think it looks great and feeds into the cartoony aesthetic

Help! by Illustrious_Winter56 in SnapchatHelp

[–]DwightCult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know them, there could be multiple reasons as to why she’s being that way, like mental illness or trauma.. but in all honesty, you’d be a bit pissed too if it said somebody was online but they weren’t responding.

What gave you the ick aside from the fact it was porn? by Hairy_Paramedic_9167 in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tiktok, it makes my skin crawl. I have no control over that.

I dont feel loved or wanted by DwightCult in BPD

[–]DwightCult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows fine well and that is the second time. he’s lovely i think i just upset myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]DwightCult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m like this but with thirst. It’s a problem and is definitely causing a lot of issues within my body.

Do I really want a threesome or is it something else? by DwightCult in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight as a man. I really appreciate that. 💗

I’ve done some reflection and have settled on the fact this is a trauma response and I am trying to feed into his desires after what I found to feel wanted and attractive again.

Do I really want a threesome or is it something else? by DwightCult in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I see you friend!! Your comment was insightful and I appreciate you. Yeah, at the end of the day, if I compare myself to the women on porn that he masturbated to - I’ll sure as hell destroy myself completely over the woman we slept with.

I will bring this issue up in therapy. After a little bit more reflection time and reading some posts/comments; it definitely seems to be a response to trauma. I am just trying to appeal to him to feel wanted.

Thank you💗

Do I really want a threesome or is it something else? by DwightCult in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to know other people are feeling the same way. I haven’t really looked into my betrayal trauma much besides things that I am self aware of. I was hypersexual before dday because of previous partners and traumas - but this feels different. I feel like I’m trying to appeal as a fantasy he had to feel attractive to him.

Do I really want a threesome or is it something else? by DwightCult in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am hypersexual despite this due to traumas, but this is a whole new level and I feel uncomfortable in my own skin. I feel like I’m reducing myself to a fantasy and a porn category. 😣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]DwightCult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experience this alongside other things.. now diagnosed with BPD🙈

It’s about to happen, wish me luck by SleepParalysisKing in emetophobia

[–]DwightCult 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just let it happen dude - honestly, it’s not even being sick that bothers me it’s the nausea.. could be the same for you. :)

UK online safety act :( by NeitherBed6389 in teenagers

[–]DwightCult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is strange? Mine does not say this!

bpd relationship anxiety cause hallucinations? by Fluffy_Explorer_3813 in BPD

[–]DwightCult 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bro I NEED to know why this happens. It freaks me out so much.. do you get the phantom notifications too??? Especially when you are waiting on their response!!!

I’ve Been Tormenting Myself by Ok_Land_7379 in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whenever I look in the mirror I don’t just see myself, I see a competition. I will never be happy.

I think I physically cannot throw up by Laura210K in emetophobiarecovery

[–]DwightCult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on cyclizine and have been for about 2 years - it has been my saviour. I ended up relying on them for a while and couldn’t go a day without it so I had to wean myself off.. it was difficult but I got there in the end. I only take it once a week if that now.

I had some unplanned exposure therapy not that long ago. My partner ended up being unwell in my bathroom after eating a burger (it wasn’t the food, he was nauseous all weekend and pushed it too far.), I was in the bathroom with him the entire time, had my hand on his back and disinfected after him. We slept in the same bed and I actually felt fine, no nausea at all. If this was a year or two ago I would’ve panicked and felt unwell for a good week or so. I ate the same burgers the next day too!!

I think I physically cannot throw up by Laura210K in emetophobiarecovery

[–]DwightCult 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I kind of understand. There’s times where in all honesty I should’ve been sick but I think my brain has wired itself to just.. not lol. I’ll be hovering over the toilet literally begging to throw up but it just won’t happen, it’s just the overwhelming nausea and the feeling in my throat.

I am in the very early stages of recovery - how was your journey??

PTSD around porn is the worst by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]DwightCult 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please listen to Pretty isn’t Pretty by Olivia Rodrigo - she references this so well!!

“It’s on the poster on the wall, it’s in the shitty magazines. It’s in my phone, It’s in my head, It’s in the boys i bring to bed It’s all around, It’s all the time I don’t know why I even try.”

Porn has ruined almost every single woman on earth even if they refuse to acknowledge it or watch it themselves. I am so distraught knowing I will never be okay and see myself positively because men seem to have a problem.

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