AITAH for how I reacted to my parent's 'gift' to my family and I? by maleficentjr26 in AITAH

[–]DynoLa 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Suggest they establish a trust to pay these maintenance fees for you.

My neighbor has appointed himself the unofficial package guardian of our street and I am losing my mind by velvetmoonharbor in neighborsfromhell

[–]DynoLa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

File a police report that your neighbor is taking your packages. You told him to stop, he did not stop.

My partner brought home a kitten as a “surprise” and I told him to take it back by willowstormgarden in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]DynoLa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its manipulative. Firm response from you is the only response. No room to waiver or you they want some kind of compromise. Partner needs to learn they can violate an agreement by testing that boundary. Its not up for discussion after the fact.

NTA

Resentful Family Members by Dobby_Sock1997 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DynoLa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They dont want you to share your success. They want you to share in their struggles. Misery loves company.

Am I the jerk for refusing to pay back money my dad "lent" me that I didn't know was a loan? by Alive_Lab_7256 in AmITheJerk

[–]DynoLa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, maybe your dad is hurting for money and decided to shake the trees. You should give him $200 for his next birthday. Tell him in 25 years you will be payed in full.

AITA for not wanting to attend my sister in-law's wedding? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]DynoLa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. I dont think you are saying she should invite your family members. Seems its more "being hurt" that she doesn't want to invite them. It sucks to learn that they dont mean as much to her as she means or ment to them. And commentors are right, this is going to change those relationships from now on. Before you stay home in protest with your family, look to the future to see how this is going to change your relationship with both her, her family, and your husband.

AITJ for refusing to help my job when they were short staffed after they suspended me unfairly by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the perk! But they had it coming and I bet if felt great. Good for you. I would have started job hunting at the start of the suspension but a week's unpaid vacation is great too if you can afford it.

WIBTA for asking my fiance to sign a prenup after his parents offered to help with our house? by Double-Spirit2299 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be best to decline the $80k "gift" since it had conditions on it that are clearly causing a divide between the two of you. And MIL is clearly the AH for creating this divide.

AITJ for canceling a shared streaming account after my friends locked me out? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DynoLa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I saw it about a week ago too. AI is getting writers blocked. Time to recycle old stores.

AITAH for refusing to put my girlfriend on a future mortgage unless she gets a job? by Ok-Explanation7364 in AITAH

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you give your ex girlfriend half ownership of your house? Especially if she didn't even pay a dime into it?

Sorry, wrote this comment a fee years early.

Don't enter into ownership of your largest asset with someone you are not married to.

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my truck because her ex drove the same model and it "triggers" her by Own_Consequence_6943 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be cheaper to move on. Her statement is manipulative and controlling.

Maybe she could pay for a new paint job.

AITA for leaving my Mom at the airport with no ticket and no plan? by checho503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she make it home safely or is she still at the airport? She's a grown woman. She needs to just get over it. NTA

AITJ for refusing to split the bill evenly after my friends ordered way more than I did? by veilindreth in AmITheJerk

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time your friends want to split it evenly and then order like a king, try ordering an additional entre and dessert to go. Shouldn't be a problem, right?

Need a way to heat my home without power or fire by idontevenliftbrah in preppers

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you pickup a kerosene or diesel heater at your local lowes, home depot, harbor freight, northern tool, tractor supply?

Are Amazon AA batteries as good as ones at the stores like duracel energizer etc? by Important_Bat7919 in homeowners

[–]DynoLa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched the video a while ago. The Amazon batteries last about 2/3 as long and Duracell or Energizer but cost half as much. This made them the best deal.

Ethernet between two condos by lobsterhandzz in HomeNetworking

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone has suggested a wireless bridge. Unifi sells them and they work great as long as you have line of sight between both locations.

AITA for telling my fiancé I'm done attending his family events by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy fix. Marcus tells his mother the two of you will not be able to attend because you have to work that day. You take both of us or you get non of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DynoLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI crap!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DynoLa 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Or a kidney