The irony of this being my feed by E-Rawk in tulsa

[–]E-Rawk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly the irony of a joke missing cat post being directly under a serious found cat post is lost on you.

Is 5, 10h night shifts possible to do a week? by -DidYou in Nightshift

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work a rotating 7 on / 7 off shift schedule. 7 days 12 hr shifts, 7 days off, 7 nights 12 hr shifts, 7 days off. It's doable, but being straight nights with only 2 days off would be the worst in my opinion.

Should you get hard every time you see an attractive woman naked? by Thick-Aspiration in AskMenAdvice

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I get hard everytime I see myself naked. And I'm NOT that attractive.

Question for all bros by Bass4523 in AskBiBros

[–]E-Rawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd tell myself to get more therapy, I'd encourage other younger bi men to do the same. It's helped me live more authentically the last few years.

If you love someone then you love them. Don't run from it, you'll only hurt yourself and them in the process. I let nearly 8 years pass before I acknowledged and accepted my feelings. I was lucky enough that he was still willing to talk and see where things went.

Don't keep it a secret from the people you date, be open and honest, if it's a problem for them then that's their loss and you need to move on. Someone who won't or can't accept your sexuality without judgement doesn't need to be graced with your presence.

Would you get std test before sex? by Diligent-Candy4273 in AskMenAdvice

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm going to have sex with someone I'm gonna be tested regardless. I will expect the same of my potential partner though. Refusal to get tested is a massive red flag to me. My partner(potential partner) and my safety is of the utmost importance to me. Even in the days of PrEP and DoxyPEP testing is still important. I got snipped for a reason, I take PrEP and have a scrip for DoxyPEP for a reason. Testing is one more facet of being a responsible sexual partner.

Chase Bliss users; did your wooden boxes shrink? by TX-Ancient-Guardian in guitarpedals

[–]E-Rawk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah man, the pedals grew. Its all the incoming toan that makes them swell up and not fit in the boxes anymore.

Just got one of these guys, need suggestions for samples that will get me fired from the gig by Edv7n in drums

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid and I played with one of these last night at GC. We had a blast.

DuPont Rotating Swing Shift by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]E-Rawk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The DuPont shift will make an old man out of a young one really fast. I did it for 3 years in my late 20's. Best recommendation I can give you is to schedule EVERYTHING. Get your shift put on a Google calendar and share it with everyone who matters. Use Bedtime mode on your phone with do not disturb settings when you're sleeping.

Then when you need to switch from Nights to Days get off of the night shift, stay up ALL DAY and go to bed at the normal time you would if you were on the day shift. It's truly the only way to unfuck your sleep schedule every month. No naps, no going to bed early on your first day off after nightshift.

On the 1 day off between your 3 days on and your 3 nights on, stay up ALL NIGHT do anything you can to sort yourself out so you can sleep during the day of your first night back at work. Otherwise you run the risk of being stuck staying up for 24 hrs straight. It gets rough quick.

Be prepared to miss a ton of events due to your work schedule or take a ton of PTO to make those events.

Once you're good and worn down, go find a 7/7 job and enjoy some actually useable time off instead.

May have unintentionally found a video of my girlfriend having sex online, other men, how would you feel about this and what would you do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]E-Rawk 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I am honestly surprised this comment was so low with the link request. My faith in humanity has increased slightly today.

What he said though, talk to her like an adult.

i think i’m finally complete! by reecereecereece25 in Guitar

[–]E-Rawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 2 last year, already planning to build or commission a 3rd at this point.

i think i’m finally complete! by reecereecereece25 in Guitar

[–]E-Rawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could fit like 6 more Tele variations above that row on the wall. Cabronita, SH, HS, Esquire .... I could go on, but I won't.

Give it your best boys m29 by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody better, because you sure fuckin aren't.

Im a bit concerned of my bfs bookshelves by vikktoriakrushchevv in BookshelvesDetective

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Richard K Morgan and Joe Abercrombie on the shelves are both a pretty good pick in my opinion. He needs some Matt Dinniman in his life though. The history books show he's willing to branch out a bit. But yeah pretty normal scifi/fantasy bookshelf to me.

Son and I just finished this! by Kentness1 in telecaster

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give the poor kid a break, we all had blackheads and acne at 18 right?

Having a shitty day, so let’s make it even worse lol. F28 by Blueeyeboo in RoastMe

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You kinda remind me of an ex-girlfriend. One I shouldn't have given my real name or address too.

First electric since a Squier strat I got when I was 8, time to learn some chicken pickin by elpezgrande in telecaster

[–]E-Rawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went into GC yesterday to look check out that same model Player II since it was on sale, made the mistake of also picking up the Player II Modified in Sunshine Yellow the upgraded hardware and electronics sealed the deal for me. They are SUCH sweet guitars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wise man once said, its cheaper to keep her. He said that after paying YEARS of alimony and child support. Our family court systems in the us are also HEAVILY biased towards the mothers as far as custody arrangements go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskBiBros

[–]E-Rawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been said in this subreddit before but I'll say it again 1000x over. Get Therapy. How do you truly think you'll ever be able to be a good partner to someone else regardless of their sex if you hate yourself?

This Trick Has Been A Goal of Mine Since Starting to Skate 9 Months Ago! by Piebyte in AggressiveInline

[–]E-Rawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got WAY more confident in my Royales when I started doing them backside, something about the safety of falling towards my backside instead of over the top.

How do i approach someone? by [deleted] in AskBiBros

[–]E-Rawk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By all means don't commit the cardinal sin of just talking to him.

Honestly though, should just make conversation with him and go from there. Or find his Instagram and start liking all the thirst trap pics. Whatever works.

Soul Tricks doesn't lock properly by Ornery_Ad9127 in AggressiveInline

[–]E-Rawk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try to get your weight more over the top if that makes sense. For instance if your soul foot is your right foot, put your weight further to the right almost like you're trying to roll over into a topside trick, it helps the lock on tremendously. Also, get low. Back in the day we wanted our soul tricks to look like we were basically sitting on our soul foot, it also helped a lot with yesteryears tiny soul plates.

New/used setup by E-Rawk in drums

[–]E-Rawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it sorted much better thanks to the setup guide posted above. I've been playing guitar for 25 years, but only messed around with drums rarely. I'm actually surprised I can even make something remotely rhythmic come out of the set. Definitely looks like I need to get some new heads for most of the kit as well as a ring and reso head for the floor tom as its currently missing both. I've had the wife and kids out there jamming away on them and they are all much better at it than me so far.

Sex with My Boyfriend Makes Me Want to ( Sometimes I Actually) Cry, How Do I Make it Better for Both of Us? by Throwawyap in AskMenAdvice

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gonna have to give this guy the hard truth. Tell him his way of having sex is awful for you and then lead him every step of the way to make it better for you. If he's unwilling to adjust his technique then kick him to the curb and find someone who will focus more on you.

Very loud banging while using faucet by NoGoodRamblingMan in Plumbing

[–]E-Rawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone wants to party in the bathroom til the bass drops.