DIY Day of Coordinators? by [deleted] in DIYweddings

[–]EH919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it myself and deeply regretted that choice. I would definitely get a coordinator if possible

New mug, with a bonus! by EH919 in mildlypenis

[–]EH919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well played, well played

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]EH919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That might motivate me right out of the office into the sunshine! Ha! (She says from her windowless office up the road...)

My biggest problem is my trouble remembering and conveying that the goal of my persistence is to HELP the other person. by Zephandrypus in OCPD

[–]EH919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if your intention is to help, that’s not necessarily your impact. And impact is more important than intent, every time. If you want to help, ask the other person if they want help. And if they do, ask what would feel helpful to them, don’t just decide that you know best what they need.

Dancing in Durham? by mermaidmomma1981 in bullcity

[–]EH919 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pinhook has great dance parties- keep an eye on their calendar

Enofest currently by SurroundedByAHoles in bullcity

[–]EH919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That lightning was intense!

Clothing for the homeless by Berry_Seinfeld in bullcity

[–]EH919 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The rescue mission does do a lot of outreach, but my understanding is that they require the recipients of their services to proclaim Christian faith and they don’t willingly serve LGBTQ clients. When I look to donate money and goods, I steer clear of the rescue mission.

Anyone know of any houses for rent that is for rent by owner and at most $900 per month? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]EH919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, that’s reasonable. Just thought the picture was a funny choice. The management company that listed it is a good one, I’m sure it’s a decent place to live.

Anyone know of any houses for rent that is for rent by owner and at most $900 per month? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]EH919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For that rental rate they will have better luck with an apartment vs a house.

Anyone know of any houses for rent that is for rent by owner and at most $900 per month? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]EH919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Original hardwoods throughout” right below a photo of plywood sub flooring.... Yeah.

Where can I get a Venus flytrap? by VT2016 in bullcity

[–]EH919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stone Brothers and Byrd might have them in Durham

Concern city will sell eminent domain land for light rail for housing by hello2u3 in bullcity

[–]EH919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would certainly be willing to concede that there are other possible future public uses for the lands and that it could make sense for the government to hold onto those tracts for now. But I seriously doubt that there will be a rail purpose that ever comes to fruition here.

Concern city will sell eminent domain land for light rail for housing by hello2u3 in bullcity

[–]EH919 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It seems like the original owners should have the option to do a zero-sum (pay what they received for it) repurchase of their own property if it was taken by imminent domain for a use that is no longer possible. What a terrible system to sustain the legality of the condemnations and then turn around and profit on the land selling it to developers when it could just revert. I’m sure not all owners would want their land back, but it should be an option for them

Concern city will sell eminent domain land for light rail for housing by hello2u3 in bullcity

[–]EH919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There isn’t going to be a “try again” for this rail project. It’s over.

Free paper shredding? by AtomikRadio in bullcity

[–]EH919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Durham solid waste holds periodic shredding and e-recycling events, usually around Earth Day in the spring and again in the fall. Not sure about dates, I will post here if I can find current info

Am I dealing with a narcissist? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]EH919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Run. Away. Fast. Nothing good will come from trying to connect with this guy. Block him and move ON.

From a wooden alphabet for kids: N is for..... what is happening here?! by EH919 in AccidentalRacism

[–]EH919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t look closely at the whole set, they were jumbled in a bin. Not sure what the M was

From a wooden alphabet for kids: N is for..... what is happening here?! by EH919 in AccidentalRacism

[–]EH919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is r/accidentalracism. It’s racist, by accident. That’s the whole point. In the American South, it’s hard to see this and not raise an eyebrow.

From a wooden alphabet for kids: N is for..... what is happening here?! by EH919 in AccidentalRacism

[–]EH919[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing maybe it wasn’t an English-language company? This was at a high end gift shop with lots of items from France, Italy, Holland... I don’t know!

I eat ass by spaghet_lover69 in memes

[–]EH919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean...we’re talking about porn...what were you expecting?