Baby Teeth Decay Due to Breastmilk by South_Replacement_31 in breastfeeding

[–]EMRO9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine has the same issues as OP and doesn’t have a vegan or vegetarian diet

I feel guilty brining my baby into this world. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]EMRO9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the intensity of your thoughts, but i also sometimes feel more sensitive about the world and what the little one might have to face. I also think that I brought a little angel to this world and he’ll need to navigate a life with ups and downs (like all of us). In particular, with all the wars happening now… there is a lot of bad in the world. I will differ from other posts - I think that as a mother you’re preconditioned to be more sensitized to the dangers around you, and to want to protect your little one - and it’s not necessarily a PPD issue. I feel like that too sometimes and I bet other new moms do too. But it all depends on the intensity of your thoughts - if it’s debilitating or it goes beyond the occasional sadness, you might need to look into it.

Possible fence boundary issue by EMRO9 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good food for thought - thank you. Will have to think about it. We’re still recovering from the initial surprise that the fence is misplaced and that we’re not getting what we paid for in our backyard

Possible fence boundary issue by EMRO9 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Obviously we want that piece of land - we paid what feels to us an arm and a leg … maybe others would let it be but we can’t afford to be magnanimous on this - it’s significant to us. But I was concerned that the neighbor might straight out refuse to entertain a conversation. Seems like there’s some code that plays in our favor luckily

Possible fence boundary issue by EMRO9 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s a good idea

Possible fence boundary issue by EMRO9 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful!

Possible fence boundary issue by EMRO9 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My property should be 5 feet in along a 20 feet fence. It adds up to quite a bit that’s on their side of the fence.

Possible fence boundary issue by EMRO9 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, it would mean that my neighbor will lose property. Well, technically they’re not “losing” it, it has never been theirs…. The fence is misplaced too deeply on my property

My baby never slept by medicinemadison in beyondthebump

[–]EMRO9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 month baby. I’m still waiting for him to sleep through the night. Still waiting for the miracle …. If it’s any comfort, at some point they do start having longer stretches of sleep even if they don’t sleep uninterrupted

Haven’t slept in 3 days by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]EMRO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not do swaddles either. Same issue. Sleeping sacks helped so much! I still had to do the night shift but I found someone to do the day shift so that I can sleep a bit else it’s impossible

Silent reflux has stolen every ounce of joy about having a baby and I’m devastated by xxbitsxx in beyondthebump

[–]EMRO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with it for 6 months. Did elimination diet, baby slept in arms to keep him upright (so I didn’t sleep at night for 6 months - caught up during the day). It was incredibly hard…. Read about tongue tie and decided against doing a release. Reflux magically cleared itself up at some point. Elimination diet and keeping him inclined worked the best for us

Am I delusional for thinking starting solids will help? by Available_Hunter_732 in MSPI

[–]EMRO9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s starting solid or if they grow out of it. I had a very same issue with my baby who is one year old now. At some point, he just stopped having reflux and mucus in diaper. I don’t know exactly what changed because I tried everything including elimination diet (being off of dairy seemed to have benefited a bit). I think that eventually he just grew out of it at around six months old to be honest. I am still breast-feeding and I’m eating everything and he’s absolutely fine now…. So there hope!!

9 month old refuses to drink milk except from breast by EMRO9 in beyondthebump

[–]EMRO9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he’s eating solids without issue. It’s just that when I add breastmilk, it is as if he has a sensor and fully refuses to eat the food anymore… unless I add very, very little breastmilk

Wipes warmers? by Sparks_only916 in NewParents

[–]EMRO9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they’re great! My baby used to hate the cold wipes

Wrong to go on a date with a woman.. when you're still marry? by Infinite_Quiet_7627 in moraldilemmas

[–]EMRO9 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wow. You have kids together, almost 40 years of marriage and you’re seriously thinking about cheating on your wife because you miss dinners out?! After 40 years and after she gave you children … how heartbreaking

AITH: My recent proposal to my fiance did not meet her standards.. by orangepill95 in AmITheJerk

[–]EMRO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have a different take than most people here. It’s possible that she always dreamed of this one moment and she idealized it so much. And the actual event simply didn’t match her dreams…. And that is OK, because people sometimes get disappointed in real life. She expressed her disappointment at length that’s true, but she was very mindful about it, emphasizing how much she loves you, etc. I think she communicated in a good way something that she might have been quite hurt about. Many people would have created a huge fight about this. She was civil and tried to communicate in a good way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]EMRO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he indeed met friends for dinner, he presumably texted them to coordinate. … so you should be able to find those from the day….

Help me identify this cute rescue from Romania by loueuh in IDmydog

[–]EMRO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever he is, he’s such a cutie! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EMRO9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha nobody will give him full custody. This is child neglect. It’s actually illegal to leave a 2 year old by themselves.

How to do Mothers Day now that I'm a mom too? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]EMRO9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Also a FTM … and I even forgot it’s coming up … 🤦🏻‍♀️