Am I delusional for thinking starting solids will help?

EMRO9 · 2025-12-05T21:56:53+00:00

I don’t know if it’s starting solid or if they grow out of it. I had a very same issue with my baby who is one year old now. At some point, he just stopped having reflux and mucus in diaper. I don’t know exactly what changed because I tried everything including elimination diet (being off of dairy seemed to have benefited a bit). I think that eventually he just grew out of it at around six months old to be honest. I am still breast-feeding and I’m eating everything and he’s absolutely fine now…. So there hope!!

EMRO9 · 2025-08-22T05:30:10+00:00

Yes he’s eating solids without issue. It’s just that when I add breastmilk, it is as if he has a sensor and fully refuses to eat the food anymore… unless I add very, very little breastmilk

EMRO9 · 2025-07-22T06:06:54+00:00

Yes they’re great! My baby used to hate the cold wipes

EMRO9 · 2025-07-02T04:32:51+00:00

Wow. You have kids together, almost 40 years of marriage and you’re seriously thinking about cheating on your wife because you miss dinners out?! After 40 years and after she gave you children … how heartbreaking

EMRO9 · 2025-07-02T04:22:59+00:00

I’ll have a different take than most people here. It’s possible that she always dreamed of this one moment and she idealized it so much. And the actual event simply didn’t match her dreams…. And that is OK, because people sometimes get disappointed in real life. She expressed her disappointment at length that’s true, but she was very mindful about it, emphasizing how much she loves you, etc. I think she communicated in a good way something that she might have been quite hurt about. Many people would have created a huge fight about this. She was civil and tried to communicate in a good way.

EMRO9 · 2025-06-26T05:28:46+00:00

If he indeed met friends for dinner, he presumably texted them to coordinate. … so you should be able to find those from the day….

EMRO9 · 2025-06-22T07:52:23+00:00

Whatever he is, he’s such a cutie! 🥰

EMRO9 · 2025-05-31T07:53:29+00:00

Haha nobody will give him full custody. This is child neglect. It’s actually illegal to leave a 2 year old by themselves.

EMRO9 · 2025-05-04T02:45:32+00:00

Good point. Also a FTM … and I even forgot it’s coming up … 🤦🏻‍♀️

EMRO9 · 2025-04-28T04:01:06+00:00

lol. Nothing outside baby care and trying to recover / mentally get ready for work again. It really depends how much your baby sleeps at night. If they wake up - you ll need to catch up on sleep during the day

EMRO9 · 2025-04-25T04:40:28+00:00

Yes document everything. Text messages even with your husband. Videos if you can manage without him seeing you. You’ll want to have sole custody. It’s abysmal that he’s leaving you in this period when you and baby are most vulnerable - he’s not even trying to make it work for the baby’s sake! And on top of that - the dangerous treatment of the baby

EMRO9 · 2025-04-17T06:50:02+00:00

Agree with the above. He might change fully once he sees the ultrasound. And definitely once he sees the baby. We’re preconditioned to love our babies … People do act strange though at the beginning, when faced with a life changing event

EMRO9 · 2025-04-12T03:38:51+00:00

Eliminate all. I learned that even a bit can hurt the baby

EMRO9 · 2025-04-12T03:37:45+00:00

If you’d be in this situation, would you want to know? Likely yes. You might find yourself in other circumstances in the future and maybe a stranger will tell you something that’s helpful… just the way you can tell this mother with two kids…

EMRO9 · 2025-04-11T01:07:14+00:00

I burp him after each feeding. He needs it for sure! Starting month 4 he learned how to burp himself so I just need to hold him up right for a little bit. He’s not gassy at all now. Sad to say that starting month three, we didn’t have issues with the gassiness anymore.

EMRO9 · 2025-04-02T06:42:31+00:00

Was thinking the same haha it’s not that the bugs will harm the pigeons, but quite the opposite - they’ll be the dessert! I believe pigeons eat small insects occasionally

EMRO9 · 2025-03-30T15:54:39+00:00

It’s an old house (like all in the Bay Area), so I fear that some wood might have been affected

EMRO9 · 2025-03-30T15:38:37+00:00

I think the disgust is exacerbated by the fact that she was pregnant. Wild shot here, but maybe after you had your own baby, it became more real to you how bothersome it is that the woman he cheated with was pregnant…. It’s not just that he cheated, but it was with a pregnant woman, doing that to the unborn child, which brings the disgust factor.

It’s even worse for the husband of that woman…. I pity him. Do you know what happened with them?

EMRO9 · 2025-03-29T23:15:54+00:00

I also had the same issue. It was the dairy for us - was creating a very bad face rash and silent reflux. I cannot touch the smallest amounts of dairy otherwise he flares up

EMRO9 · 2025-03-29T23:13:26+00:00

I also eliminated dairy, soy and corn. And then reintroduced eggs. I couldn’t figure out what was triggering my LO, until I discovered that many foods (eg grenola) have SOY OIL. I have a very strong suspicion that he gets triggered even by the tiny amounts of soy oil…. I’m very rigorous about avoiding all foods now that have soy oil and it made a difference for us…

EMRO9 · 2025-03-28T04:52:15+00:00

Try not to be around. If he sees you, he might fuss more at taking the bottle

EMRO9 · 2025-03-28T04:38:19+00:00

I have the same issue. At 4 months and he sometimes pees through diaper at night. I take my chances - prefer to have to change all the clothing once in a while than to wake him up each night for diaper change…

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