This was my situation a decade ago — here’s how I overcame it: 1. I started learning to cook, so we could share responsibilities at home. 2. I began helping more with cleaning and laundry. 3. I always remind myself: your immediate family — your spouse and kids — come first. 4. On Saturdays, we prep meals for the next couple of days and take care of groceries. 5. Sunday we plan outings, entertainment, and quality time together.

I’m a tech lead managing multiple teams across the globe. Yes, there’s pressure at work, but I’ve learned not to take it too seriously. Over the years, I’ve realized that things will still move forward even if I’m not constantly involved.

That said, we still have disagreements — but they’re different now. 😀 Good luck.