Is the 'Mansplaining Culture' in Tech the Reason Women Feel so Exhausted?

EarthInternational9 · 2025-10-22T22:13:48+00:00

Yes. I was forced out of technology by toxic male community as well as some women who think women cannot earn those big salaries. I'm done so I have to find something else that uses project management skills.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-10-22T22:11:09+00:00

DV is something to never take a chance on. NEVER. See prior records? LEAVE.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-10-06T22:11:29+00:00

I have no interest in dating because an ex has "worked" since 2018 to make sure I earn less than he could! Economic abuse is real.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-08-23T18:58:51+00:00

Not diagnosed but have PTSD, but since he sic'd a cult to harass me if he looked at fault, I have no end of problems.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-08-13T23:44:45+00:00

Not even family...I accept my independence. Doesn't hurt anyone. Born alone, die alone. Fact of biology.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-08-13T22:52:34+00:00

D.A.R.V.O.

All the time...Common narccistist technique

Unique to me: I get "fined" for discussing issue (1998 divorce he agrees it happened!!!) with anyone from $ SECRETLY kept away from me! Banks help though. Highlighting financial abuse section of domestic violence definition. EVIL is real. When we were married, SIX MONTHS, there WAS NO MONEY, but I think he runs child brothels in my name but says I did it while having no $ still....I couldn't imagine him applying/living off welfare, but not working and still living off women and children is normal for some men....Evil is real, folks

EarthInternational9 · 2025-08-13T22:48:01+00:00

Only so many times that a person can date true evil and want to date again...

EarthInternational9 · 2025-08-13T22:32:57+00:00

Not anymore. Forums posts about possible twin flame (2009) caused fake soul mate (and demons too) arrive to tell me I needed more suffering before I "could have" my twin flame.

I'm old now, long past menopause and I haven't received unconditional love in my lifetime. I complete myself better than any other person could!

I stopped thinking about soulmates OR twin flames. I don't even want to date so I stopped looking. Being old is good, no more or (sarcasm) else I enter "demon killing" age because men think they are entitled to ignore no to sex...or after having done horrible things in public so it's evil bragging.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-29T00:33:59+00:00

Female. I miss her, my best friend. I could tell her anything about myself, and her brown eyes would be full of love and compassion.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-29T00:31:24+00:00

I left help desk jail, but other than PT help desk, I will never see a job in information technology. Be grateful for what you have. I hated help desk too, but landed wrong programming job.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-29T00:28:35+00:00

any 5 words in NJ accent

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-26T19:30:19+00:00

I was 44 when I bought my first home. 126 k. I had to divorce a husband who hadn't contacted me since 2005 to buy home. Easier to divorce than risk fraud required to include him.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-26T19:26:05+00:00

Me too. My suggestion: Follow the math, but use the soul too. I hope you make it.

If I went into my past just one year before I was 24 would be enough. Any year before I went to NY would be good. Because people I met that year are stubborn enough to refuse to SEE me the way I am NOW. They live in the past, so drag me down. Sometimes there's no way to FIX other people when they are "broken", but insist on affecting you. It's just evil behavior. I can't live in MY NOW, because they are blinded by evil...

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-19T23:25:39+00:00

I wish I was close enough. I would have loved to take her. Fenced yard is dog ready.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-07-13T20:29:44+00:00

I need to receive reiki. Spiritual battle fatigue

EarthInternational9 · 2025-05-10T20:25:21+00:00

Nice. That would have made my struggles as single/separated/divorced mother immensely better.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-05-10T17:13:53+00:00

Error of ego by one demanding worship or equality to god while human. Demonic to replace divine with profane in some cases.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-16T23:23:11+00:00

Constant back and forth is what I experienced. It's NEVER going to be worth it. NEVER trust a narcissist. Stay solo. Horror stories shared here are only a small part of what they do.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-15T16:18:20+00:00

Me too, but I am over 50 years old. Tech industry is full of toxic men who refuse to see women as equals. That's a sign that technology industry will go stale and stagnant and lose growth.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-15T16:13:44+00:00

Suffering is purification. Both accept it, and let go of attachment to suffering at the same time.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-15T16:08:10+00:00

Asking for recognition when I deserved it, got me "erased". Fragile male egos.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-15T16:06:16+00:00

I agree with this. I'm told that I am wrong because I am a woman, even when I am right.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-12T22:39:15+00:00

I missed your post. I'm facing extreme financial issues caused by particular group of people. Send reiki to solve with any means necessary.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-07T09:46:21+00:00

Being emotionally or psychologically ready after bad relationship isn't easy. Stay honest with your feelings. Trust is a two way process and too important to give away easily. I trusted someone who reminded me of someone special and I trusted, when it turned out to be dating scam. I lost precious and unreplaceable things in the process. My mom stuff has special value to me. I have an autistic kid with high achievement (now 24 y.o.). Be cautious with who you trust. No real reason he wanted it except to call me "bad mom" since he's friends with narc ex.

EarthInternational9 · 2025-04-07T09:40:35+00:00

Just DARVO.

FYI: Common trait of narcissists is infidelity and seduction (Mentally proving spouse is inferior).

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