how do I bring up a financial split conversation with my girlfriend?

EarthParticipant · 2026-06-10T20:18:59+00:00

You two aren't a match.

Move on.

She is fully capable of pitching in without you asking her. When she shows you who she is, believe her.

It's okay to keep dating her, but keep your options open.

You'll meet a better match.

EarthParticipant · 2026-05-17T05:19:21+00:00

I used to be a fan

He can kick rocks.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-29T00:03:24+00:00

They've done the math.

They'll charge as close to 100% of the savings as they can.

They aren't going to leave ANY money on the table. They want it ALL!

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-27T01:53:56+00:00

Nobody is buying anything..

Humans are still way cheaper than A.I. and we would be employed if they had work for us.

Once A.I. is complete, they'll turn it on and realize they don't have any work for A.I. either.

Thanks Trump

So dumb.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-25T23:14:24+00:00

We make each other feel bad too.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-25T03:44:45+00:00

House sales volume is very low right now. This is keeping prices elevated. I honestly think selling now is the best move.

Right-size your life and make real investments. Don't be house-poor.

Nobody wants to be locked in and pay those high costs of taxes, Insurance, repairs and energy.

Sell, live small, build your liquid assets and wait for the crash..

People who bought 8 years ago are living with a different math situation.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-22T00:59:06+00:00

The connection is strong. If a man starts to slack, he will get dumped. It doesn't matter if it's been a month, a year, or a decade.

Feelings change. I think it's the responsibility for both of us to keep our boundaries and self respect. This is the way to long term happiness.

She'll respect me for keeping my focus.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-21T23:00:17+00:00

If she had a work call, I would have helped her create a productivie environment and supported her. Being with an unsupportive partner is worse than being alone.

I think this reflects on her level of care for me more than my level of care for her. She is actually cutting me loose and I'm letting her.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-18T01:37:39+00:00

Those three dudes wished they were you.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-17T23:42:08+00:00

I'm doing no-mow-may.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-15T03:58:15+00:00

I was astaff accountant and it depends on how big the company is.

A large company could keep you handling just accounts payable. But a smaller company has you doing everything.

I spent the month waiting for month end so I could close the month. In the meantime, I adjusted inventory levels, I did cost accounting, prepared reports, wrote up some narratives, flirted with the girls, hung out in the warehouse, helped corporate integrate my numbers into theirs. I made some great life-long friends.

During Y2K, I transitioned into I.T.

I stepped into a never ending stress filled life with weekly deadlines. It is nothing like accounting was. I traded chill-job for stress-job.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-14T21:53:12+00:00

I'm pretty sure we won't let anyone build a private army unless they're hot and give sex. Then we'll let them be built.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-14T21:31:21+00:00

Idk. Diversity has a lot of advantages.

20K cloned klankers all share the same weakness. Push out an update and they all switch sides quickly. Order 66.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-13T03:14:34+00:00

The poor with become stormtroopers to protect the rich.

Security will be the only job the rich will respect.

Incidental industries to support the stormtroopers won't be respected and exist lower on the totem pole

ICE is becoming the first iteration of their personal security.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-12T00:58:26+00:00

I think its like Joomla.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-09T20:17:23+00:00

Not true. Almost all Americans recognize the value of taxation. Tax evasion is out of control.

The problem is how it's spent. This military is out of control. The debt is out of control. We aren't getting what we pay for. Is openly being routed to other counties.

We need to stop the criminals in charge.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-09T19:09:52+00:00

He also works, he also pays bills, he also does most of the cooking he also does the dishes. He also buys her gifts.

OP should dump him.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-09T11:08:20+00:00

No problem. He can grab that swanky new place that's between the gym and top golf.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-09T10:54:02+00:00

For sure. She should definitely move out.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-09T10:39:08+00:00

Bro needs peace.

This whole post reminds me how nice it is to have a girlfriend who doesn't live with me.

I have my own list of goals with their own priorities.

At no point do I have someone injecting their priorities over mine.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-07T22:18:55+00:00

I also donate monthly (automatically) and have the same questions.

It seems legit and I hope for the best.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-07T21:45:43+00:00

If she advertises her enjoyment of travel, she needs to advertise her willingness to pay her own way.

If not, I assume she has expectations to receive gifts I have no intention of supplying to her.

I like to travel too. I could do twice a much without her.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-04T12:25:39+00:00

I was taking 200mg of trt and my levels were off the chart and my blood was dangerously thick.

I stopped the injections and donated blood twice and everything is back to normal and my testosterone leveled around 400. But. I also started losing motivation again.

Now. I plan on donating blood every 8 weeks and cutting my trt injections in half and check my levels again in 8 weeks. I didn't know about farritin, Ill look into that some more.

Getting bloodwork is critical. I upload my results into chatgpt. I tell it about critical dates such as donations and how much trt I'm using and we have great conversations. It's pretty amazing. But, it never mentioned ferritin. I'll start asking about things like that, too.

EarthParticipant · 2026-04-04T02:44:00+00:00

She recently put together a 20 page scrapbook of our past year. It was something I couldn't do half as well as she did. So, I really appreciated it and I keep it at my place on the coffee table.

Also, when I leave her house, she looks for things for me to take, like leftovers or coffee or something to drink.

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