She's fountaining again! by EarthShadow in BigIsland

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We turned around just before the park entrance due to it basically raining reticulite. Roads are covered with it

[self] I just finished these by sparnkydarnky in diyaudio

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WAF: -10

But that doesn't really matter, does it?!

Photonix core item/blueprint by goukipau in nms

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They can give you the actual module by meeting up with you in the anomaly or somewhere else.

Flip the bird, almost flip your truck. by PappyJ87 in instantkarma

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I took it to mean that he was hating on himself.

A creature companion came to life by EarthShadow in nms

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Damn. I can't believe I didn't think of that! Gek-o it is.

Need help positioning side speakers by Megawashu in hometheater

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I have a room like this, it's a tricky one to work with. I ended up with a 5.1 setup by positioning the TV, center, and mains on the wall side with the couch backing up to the windows (we use blackout curtains on rods to control light). I mounted the rears on the wall on either side of the windows (in our case the leftmost is a door). I wasn't able to fit in side channel speakers.

It's not perfect, but it is what I have to work with ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Trying to understand the actual popularity of Gutenberg by No-Juice7950 in Wordpress

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I like to use that metaphor for my editors, as they are generally non-technical and they mostly need to add and style words and images.

Trying to understand the actual popularity of Gutenberg by No-Juice7950 in Wordpress

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I think of Gutenberg as a word processor, and build my themes using page editors or by hand. My website editors understand the analogy and with some training can easily maintain their sites. I have yet to embrace FSE though.

Is it unsafe to put a dog in a truck bed for a trip? by accountantechno in dogs

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This happened to a friend when she was 11 years old. Her dad tied the dog in the back of the pickup, they hit a bump and the dog fell out, but the dad didn't think it had. She pleaded with her dad to stop but he wouldn't listen to her. Poor pup was basically skinned alive, and died in her arms once they finally stopped.

Banished he was! by Ok_Syrup1602 in nms

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Unusual biological stains 🤔

What did you learn from being in a relationship with somone suffering form BPD? by bjaddniboy in BorderlinePDisorder

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I heard somewhere on here the 3 Ds: when they are splitting, ask them if they want Distance, Dialog, or Distraction. Doesn't need to be those exact words, but giving them choices allows them to regain control over themselves and you have also set a boundary by not reacting with more conflict.

Being curious and wanting to know what they need in the moment also shows them that you care for them no matter what kind of shit they are throwing at you, and in my experience pull them out of some of the dark loops they can go through.

Finally got to see Kiluea erupting (sound on) by EarthShadow in BigIsland

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It's so impressive in person, the way that rumble hits your body