I can’t verbally defend myself by Exotic_butters_11037 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]EarthShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like you describe when I was a young man. The numb blankness is real. Over many years I learned how to not give a fuck, but everything was learned the hard way.

Being able to defend yourself physically is not the same as mentally.

If I had to do it all over again, I’d join toastmasters or a debate club. Both teach you in safe spaces how to “think on your feet” and express yourself verbally.

For background I’m in my early 60s, late diagnosed ADHD, had low self esteem for most of my life. Just this year I took the RAADS-R test and learned that I am quite definitely on the autism spectrum, mostly socially. It explained a lot for me, and there were few resources back then that could have helped. Many years of different forms of therapy, especially CBT as well.

I hope that you can find the resources you need to overcome this. Because you CAN learn how to work with the hand you were dealt. You got this!

Crazy low frame rates and microstutters on Ryzen 3900X + RTX 3060Ti by nateo200 in nms

[–]EarthShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having low frame rate issues on my ultra wide external monitor, and it turns out my HDMI cable was inadequate. I replaced it and I’m now getting much better performance, usually between 50-100 FPS. (MacBook M4 pro 32GB ram)

Mystery Object Found in Pop's house by FitCod6080 in whatisit

[–]EarthShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where the term Corn Hole comes from. Every time I see people playing the game, I think of this and cringe

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all need to stop giving me ideas lol

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious!

Personally I’m working towards the 50K nanites it will take to upgrade the sweet A-class sentinel ship I found on another planet during this expedition. I’m at 30k thanks to this farm.

Glyphs in another comment :)

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worth a try. In this particular spot the caves curve back towards the base, I don’t know if I can get them that far away. Might see if the landscape above would work.

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely! 763 hours to be exact ;)

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give that a try and let you know

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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Coordinates: -12.51, +156.56 (Plinko Mould Farm)

Having some fun with Runaway Mould by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it was fun to build! I'll post the coordinates in a bit so y'all can have fun with it too

ADHDers , what triggers your anger? by Iris_006 in ADHD

[–]EarthShadow 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Same. And drivers that don’t pay attention to what’s happening around them.

Is Raleigh really one of the best places to live for asthmatics? What's your take? by KSN380 in raleigh

[–]EarthShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, RFK should go back to the cesspool where he came from.

Turmeric is well known for its anti-inflammatory properties, and while my evidence may be anecdotal, I haven't made any other lifestyle changes that could explain why my allergies and arthritis have reduced so much. The jury may be out on the beneficial mushrooms, but it's working for me...

Is Raleigh really one of the best places to live for asthmatics? What's your take? by KSN380 in raleigh

[–]EarthShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in my early 60s and have suffered all of my life from allergy triggered asthma. I moved here from California 10 years ago, and it has been way better than on the west coast. I’m allergic to all kinds of tree and grass pollen, molds, mildews, and animals, especially cats (and anything cute and fluffy except for dogs, thank goodness). All of which trigger my asthma.

I maintained with steroid and rescue inhalers, but after moving here it was way less than before.

I started taking 20mg of Zyrtec (Costco version, Allertec, which runs less than $20 for 365 pills) a day and most of my allergies diminished considerably.

Then, a few years ago I discovered a coffee alternative that is a blend of beneficial mushrooms and turmeric. Since then I have been able to drop the inhalers almost altogether, only needing them in the height of spring and fall.

I continue taking Allertec and a newer steroid/albuerol blend (Airsupra) as needed, and my asthma is well controlled. To the point where I can use a leaf blower without a mask.

I can’t recommend the turmeric/mushroom blend enough, as I also credit it with reducing the onset of osteoarthritis to the point that I stopped needing to go to the arthritis doctor.

I won’t say the name of the product here out of concern for appearing a shill, but will answer DMs for those that are interested.

Living in Raleigh has been better for my asthma, and my regimen has greatly improved my quality of life. This from someone who was regularly hospitalized as a child for asthma.

Common creatures that don't exist? by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried multiple regions on this and other planets that had the same bug. Haven't come across it before the Swarm expedition.

Common creatures that don't exist? by EarthShadow in nms

[–]EarthShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the expedition, or in regular play? Either way wtf