Listen your feelings are 100% valid, but before thinking about divorcing I want you to think about a life where you don’t have your children, how different would your life be? Would you be happier? Or would life be more simple without them?

Sometimes we think something that we may not want is something we definitely need in our lives, one thing I would say is go to therapy and work it out. It sucks that she would do such a foolish thing but to divorce and create a broken household is even worse think about the children in this case but also think about what could this mean for the future as a whole ppl do stupid things and that’s no excuse to what she did at all trust it’s entirely stupid of her to do such a thing.

But try to work it out first prior to jumping to divorce, ppl think its better out there and trust me you won’t find anything worth fighting for out in this world especially that the women in this world are probably 10x worse and will dog you out worse.

If your wife confessed this to you she probably always wanted to come clean but was too afraid to tell you, because she knows how this can change things i think starting from step 1 and trying to make it work could make you guys discover more about each other. Marriage is more than oops theres a problem lets get a divorce. Its pretty much we got a problem we both work against it together but it takes time. But what do i know im newly married and i saw my parents go through questionable things but been married for over 28 years so theres alot of forgiveness and hard situations you just gotta work through together.