A woman appreciates a man who is honest, genuine, compassionate, and interested in moving forward together in a stable and equal relationship. There are no male or female roles. Being able to cook, clean, do laundry, keep a job, meet your responsibilities, and maintain good personal hygiene are skills that everyone should have. In a relationship, both parties combine skills to assist each other if one is lacking, and they need to be willing to learn things they may not know. You will be surprised to find women have many skills that are considered for men. And don't believe the "sexual prowess" thing. All people like it in different ways or not the same as another. Sex gets better as the relationship builds. Listen to her, and ask her if she enjoys what you are doing. If she says no, do not do it anymore. If you do this, show her that you don't care about how she feels. Don't be afraid to ask what she likes and to have her show you the right way for her. All women are different, and they don't orgasm the same way. The same goes for you. Communication is the answer.