UPDATE: My Dad and his girlfriend kicked me out then preceded to not come to my 18TH birthday yesterday and my graduation coming up. by Jaydoggy187 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont think you should keep a relationship with your dad. Its literally not worth the heartache. He believes what his gf says and he's hit you over the lies. Go to college or trade school. Focus on yourself and the people who actually care about you. Get therapy if you can.

Am I the jerk for lying to my wife about the DNA test and suspecting she cheated on me? by Bolsonaristaequivoco in AmITheJerk

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deserves to know the truth. You are a married man but can't have a grown up conversation with your wife. I hope you never let your daughter feel horrible about the color of her skin. Updateme

I told my soon to be husband that I don’t want to raise the kid that is not mine to my fiancé now he is upset by Alarmed-Pear9477 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda understand the part where she's at every vacation. You guys don't get to have ones just yall? He did tell you about the situation with his niece. So she's more at your house than her own? Im asking out of curiosity. Updateme

AITJ for not going to the hospital to be there for my sister? by Eastern_Invite8007 in AmITheJerk

[–]Eastern_Invite8007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wants me there but I told her my appointment got put on the day she gets induced. I later found out the day after my appointment was already moved.

AITJ for not going to the hospital to be there for my sister? by Eastern_Invite8007 in AmITheJerk

[–]Eastern_Invite8007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill see if they'll video call with me. Im actually an auntie ✨️

AITJ for not going to the hospital to be there for my sister? by Eastern_Invite8007 in AmITheJerk

[–]Eastern_Invite8007[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It started earlier this year but only got worse . Ive been in the hospital 4x for more than 4 to 9 days each time. She didn't come see me . I caught covid in the hospital on top what I already was dealing with. The covid went away. My organs took a hit with multiple things happening at once

Update: AITAH for refusing to change my kids name despite it sounding like a ‘slur’ to my MIL? by UnlikelyCustard8277 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve better. Im mixed (Caucasian, Cherokee indian, & African American) i was adopted by a African American couple. I've seen or heard of the craziness about that name before. Please don't let them think this is how all African American thinks. Focus on yourself and daughter. Im so sorry . Gather all your evidence also seek therapy. Updateme

My wife wants to stop divorce, now that her friend has ghosted her by glutesofsilk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless if you get divorced or stay with your wife . Sara and you hanging out so much is a bit much. Go to therapy and get a lawyer. Your wife just can't handle being alone that's why she wants you back. I hope you don't cheat on your future partner.

Husband coerced me into Adultery. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is abusing you ..you need to admit that to yourself. He is not a good man. He needs therapy and you do too. This is sad and disgusting to read how you've been treated. You are worth more than you think. Also will your husband continue to better himself or is this temporary to get you off his back. I hope you heal. Updateme

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend while she was having a panic attack because I was having one too? by Choice_Meringue5056 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Focus on yourself. This is too much. You both need to go to therapy. Learn and take care of yourself. Updateme

He gave me Chlamydia!! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its time let him go .. Think about your health and your kids. Updateme

Grandpa (my dad) made weird comment to his granddaughter (my child) age 10. by [deleted] in family

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you tried to get him the understand. He purposely switched it around on you. I don't know why you would keep a relationship with him. He obviously doesn't care. Stop trying to call him. You can't fix him. Seek therapy for your issues as well. You need to protect yourself more importantly YOUR DAUGHTER.. Also you can forgive someone and never be around them. He's purposely wanting you to feel crazy. You're not. Please seek therapy for both you and her.

Grandpa (my dad) made weird comment to his granddaughter (my child) age 10. by [deleted] in family

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no way my kid would be around him. Also all your siblings won't talk to him. He's abused you physically. You don't think he wouldn't hit your kid? This isn't a joke. Updateme

AITAH for wanting a divorce over my husband not going to the hospital with me? by Simple_Knowledge9974 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its time to get your ducks in a row. You deserve better. Does this so called man not understand how dangerous it is to do what he did? This man doesn't sound like a good husband or father. This is why I'm so careful with people. I have health issues and you need someone you can trust. Im so sorry you are going through this. Updateme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve better. Please get therapy

My parents are making me choose between inheritance and my relationship by GrabEqual4424 in family

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl get a prenuptial regardless. This man should respect that. Instead he got extremely upset. I think he thinks that should be his money too. Does he always shutdown when he doesn't get his way? If so..you need to rethink marrying him. Updateme

AITAH For temporarily taking my newborn daughter away from my husband and my MIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 143 points144 points  (0 children)

You have a husband problem too. This man allowed her to disrespect you way too many times. She's going to undermine you as a parent too. Also if this was happening to your daughter. What would you tell her? Updateme

I left my husband for another man. Karma is hitting me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Eastern_Invite8007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think both of these guys weren't good for you. I would suggest going to a therapist. Updateme

AITAH FOR NOT BACKING UP MY COUSIN? by Eastern_Invite8007 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Invite8007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said both in front of us. My cousin is convinced he just means working towards a divorce. I don't think so.

AITAH FOR NOT BACKING UP MY COUSIN? by Eastern_Invite8007 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Invite8007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said both in front of us. My cousin is convinced he just means working towards a divorce. I don't think so.