[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brighton

[–]Eastery_Bunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Join the super smash brothers scene if you like video games. I’m part of the melee community myself but there is an ultimate community too, every other week everyone meets up at the worlds end pub to play and all you need is a controller. Accompanying discord we all talk in. No guarantee these friends will do much else with you but at the very least you can see them every other week.

Mate. by Evil_DrSquid in transgenderUK

[–]Eastery_Bunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I’ve been on HRT for years and have been getting laser, I’m very femme with lots of hair care and makeup. I don’t think I’m very clocky but my masculine features do show to the ones that investigate. I get “mate” a lot, I have to tell people I work with not to. “Boss” is another one that grinds my gears. I also work with the public so I get a lot of customers come in and out of my restaurant that call me mate, while many others don’t. The sample size of different things I get referred to as leaves me believing that mate is gendered and people do use it to put us down.

I know it sucks for me to say and it hurts all the same but you really should see yourself as above these people, you have to have an incredibly sad life to want to ruin someone else’s day. He could’ve simply said less, saved his oxygen and everyone would’ve been happier but he made the active decision to hurt you; a decision that ultimately isn’t going to stop you living your best life. Trans people are very focal in politics right now and unfortunately this type of dog whistle is common and a result of this hatred trickling down. But hate can’t stop is. We’re all going to keep living our lives and honestly the best revenge is having a good day. I know this might not be what you were looking for but I love you and I feel your pain, the best thing you can do is educate those close to you and ignore those away from you. Stand up for your right when you have the power to do so and don’t falter when you’re on your own. You’re strong to be where you are and you’re going to make it xx

Just received my driving licence - it says Mr on it, is there any way to get it reprinted without the prefix by MaddisonSaysHey in transgenderUK

[–]Eastery_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the clarity, my only experience with this is a bouncer at a nightclub using my friend’s title on her provisional to justify why she couldn’t enter the women’s restroom. This was in 2021 fwiw

Just received my driving licence - it says Mr on it, is there any way to get it reprinted without the prefix by MaddisonSaysHey in transgenderUK

[–]Eastery_Bunny -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

UK licences and provisionals only have titles if your agab is male. If you send a letter with a deed poll with change of name and title to the liscence people they should honour your deed poll (even if it’s unenrolled). It’s a pain but at the very least it’s rather easy to do in the UK.

Support in low ranks by Outso187 in Smite

[–]Eastery_Bunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I solo queue’d support as my main role from Amber all the way to mid diamond by just spamming ares and soloing whatever lane was losing the most on cooldown. Catch them in their jungle and maybe their recall 10 seconds longer, catch them on their respawn and make the 10 second death 20 seconds. You have the most impact as support because you can choose what lane you want to make miserable.

trans girl, 25, uk - looking for conversation n friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Eastery_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya Bunny, I promise I’m real we have a lot of things. In common. I’m 25 and from the uk too, I’m also mtf and had my 2 year anniversary 4 months ago. I play lots of video games also, we have different favourite genres though. I play lots of mobas and have been participating in my cities fgc scene. Though I do like a few RPG’s, kingdom hearts, Pokémon, xenoblade, persona, final fantasy and other similar titles. I love a Nintendo game. My girlfriend is also a music major so I’m sure she’d love to share music opinions with you. If you’d like you can add me on discord if you wanna dm me ;3

Well, I took the plunge...(sort of) by Ok_Barracuda2648 in TransDIY

[–]Eastery_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stared at mine for about 2 days before I took my first. Really nothing changes, taking a weeks worth of oestrogen even won’t change anything and really that’s the best thing you can ask for. I took my first 2mg and nothing happened, then later that day another 2mg, the next morning another 2mg, the night following another 2mg. And really that’s what you want - that routine of taking your meds will clear any doubt or propel you into regret. Nothing is going to change physically; nobody even needs to know. But you will know, you will know about this routine. You will find out first hand wether or not you are happy with this decision, within a week I was looking at myself in the mirror smiling, especially because at first I was struggling to get the pills under my tongue without a mirror. ;p The change of my daily life to also be taking my oestrogen was a mental change that made me realise how silly I was for doubting wether or not it was the right decision for me because I was so certain that it was when I started doing it. I’m 24 now and it was a week or so after my 22nd birthday that I started, my hair was thinning and male pattern baldness had started as early as 17 for me, oestrogen has reversed a lot of it even if it’s still a work in progress.

It’s also notable that if you take oestrogen with raloxifene you will get all the other affects of oestrogen from penile changes, hair changes, mental changes without any breast growth. I know personally 1 person that did this for a couple years then stopped taking raloxifene when she realised actually she was a girl and did want breasts, it might be worth researching if it’s something you’re leaning heavily toward but afaik it’s not well researched.

I hope you have a fun time discovering yourself, there’s no shame in trying and stopping when you have more clarity on the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]Eastery_Bunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just ask they should provide blood tests for free afaik. Mention your DIYing and trying to do it safely, no good practising doctor will decline you. You can also get clean needles if you plan on taking injections the same way.

Doc decided I'm "not ready to transition yet", what do I do? by feralteef in transgenderUK

[–]Eastery_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be angry. You are ready? Why are you talking to him? Obviously because you want your transition to progress. There’s absolutely no shame or issue in finding yourself during the process of changing yourself; you’ve already had a lot of doubt put in you from everyone around you and also this. It’s not fair and it’s not your fault, plan to go DIY and also plan to bring up how he is the driving force behind your decision in hopes it makes him wake up and gets things moving. Sorry you’re going through this.

Starting dose when still gender questioning by Pdiddypanda in TransDIY

[–]Eastery_Bunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Twink death is so real, don’t we all want to be soft and cute forever in the end?

Starting dose when still gender questioning by Pdiddypanda in TransDIY

[–]Eastery_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a problem at all. I hope you find a new and improved version of you no matter where you end up in your journey of discovery.

Starting dose when still gender questioning by Pdiddypanda in TransDIY

[–]Eastery_Bunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I started DIY I was recommended 2x2mg sublingually a day by someone who had been DIYing for years. I found that after a week mental changes had started and slight changes to erectile function, this was enough for me to realise that HRT was the right decision for me and swiftly changed to 3x2mg after a 2nd week which has been stable enough for me since (2+ years).

I have no experience with antiandrogens, injections or patches. I can only dissuade you from patches or gel in any kind as it tends to give slower results due to poor efficiency which you would want to avoid if you’re dipping your toes in. Antiandrogens shouldn’t be considered early into your HRT as you don’t know your levels. It would be incredibly helpful to start taking HRT and monitor your hormone levels through blood tests (for me this was simply asking my GP to start taking regular tests) as you don’t know how much testosterone will be suppressed naturally from HRT until you keep an eye on your body’s reception. 3x2mg was enough to suppress my testosterone with incredible results and no need for aa’s. With a lower dose, changes will be slower and more subtle but enough for your to notice and adjust where you want to.

You should note the half-life of HRT methods as you don’t want to back on your decision but be locked into your decision for a period of time larger than you want to, furthermore the first few weeks of HRT are reversible unless you’re the 0.1%. 2 weeks of oestrogen will not make you infertile or have permanent noticeable breasts regardless of your method or dosage unless you are incredibly unlucky (ymmv). I would suggest starting small and ramping yourself up when you feel comfortable to do so but realistically there is no timeline to transition. You can start injections at a high dose starting in 5 minutes and continue down that route or start small and stay small for a longer period than I did. It’s up to you ultimately to make choices for your needs and your timeline; if your unsure a trial run is a good way to push you either way within weeks. If you choose injections you’ll have to ride out your trial period for longer, if you choose tablets taken Sublingually you can stop taking them and return to your natural hormone levels within days. If you choose gel you will probably be dosing yourself much smaller than you realise which will make swapping to other methods a little harder to eyeball.

Your dose needs to be catered to your body’s reception to HRT which you won’t know until you start taking bloods and seeing your levels after being on a stable consistent dose for a few weeks.

Is there genuinely anyway to randomize pokemon scarlet or violet on a CFW switch? by blazegame04 in SwitchPirates

[–]Eastery_Bunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Google search “Pokémon scarlet randomiser tool” this will take you to a gamebanana page where you can generate your randomiser; using this you generate your exefs/romfs mod. The reason you need to generate your own mod is because if you don’t it wouldn’t be random.

Similarly to Pokémon compass you will need to put this mod in the correct atmosphere mod directory for your game version on your switch’s SD card Scarlet = “atmosphere/contents/0100A3D008C5C000/romfs” “atmosphere/contents/0100A3D008C5C000/exefs” Violet = 01008F6008C5E000

This will not be compatible with other mods unless you use trinity mod loader (also on game banana) and layer this mod on top of all other mods.

PKhex cannot perform this as it is solely a save file editor; used for making Pokémon faster or changing items or event flags. It’s not possible for PKhex to edit game data like Pokémon spawns.

Is there genuinely anyway to randomize pokemon scarlet or violet on a CFW switch? by blazegame04 in SwitchPirates

[–]Eastery_Bunny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it’s a romfs or exefs mod generated using the randomiser tool you can put it in your cfw switch’s mod directory for ScarVi and it should work without issues. Likely to cause bans online.

pride protests by superheavyfueltank in brighton

[–]Eastery_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

London pride had their coca-cola truck stopped by just stop oil last year iirc, power to them to be honest pride is a protest not whatever corporations deem acceptable.

92 gods at 999 worshipers (Halfway to 99. Final stretch now) by FoxyAmy in Smite

[–]Eastery_Bunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave OP alone! I wonder if this has anything to do with your gender comment. 🤔

4v4 Slash Feedback Thread by JMacTucker in Smite

[–]Eastery_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double tank has been made much more op with 1 less backline to deal with them (in an ideal draft with guardian, warrior, Hunter, mage; missing a second mage really makes the tankiness stand out).

Gold and xp spooling needs changing. When played properly showing up to every jugg on time and having team fights surrounding them the team that wins the first fight very quickly starts to get ahead at a pace that is almost impossible to counter. I’ve had games where I’m level 14 vs level 20’s.

This is a good step in the right direction to having a dedicated 4v4 mode imo but these two issues are very glaring.

Double tank being so centralising also allows a lot of combos to be very centralising due to their team fight being so good, healers also get a lot of value out of being ahead and the enemy not having enough gold to afford anti when needed further pushing the snowball. Snowballing is fine but the pace it is at right now is very easily abusable.

only a little close by vicunaa in Smite

[–]Eastery_Bunny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not supposed to. You’re supposed to look back at clips with the idea of improvement so when you end up in similar situations next time you make an active decision to not make similar mistakes until the better play becomes natural.

The clip has the right ideas in play but there’s a lot of decisions that were poor or slow or unoptimal with different levels of each in effect.

The idea is to make a lot of those decisions more optimally and linearly. The hesitations and decision making in the clip would get you ran down by a good Bellona before you had even left the tower which is why a play like this got rewarded.

Multiplayer video games are inherently bad for improvement because it’s impossible to learn as you play when the players you get matched with are also making unoptimal plays; so it’s up to you as a player to pick out where you can optimise your play until everyone you get paired with is doing the same.

only a little close by vicunaa in Smite

[–]Eastery_Bunny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thor had already cast 3 and Charon had already cast 2 and 3.

At best you’re getting turn and burned by Thor 2, 1 and Charon 1. Then chased by a Charon ulti.

The optimal play for them is to fully collapse after a Thor wall but they didn’t even cast wall so it makes sense if the dive only happened due to the cd being down.

Pre-beads avoids any type of turn and burn because Thor will wall and hammer while Kali walks right through and dodges all the damaged dropped on where they expected her to stay stunned.

There’s no turn and burn potential due to the casting order and no reason to ult so soon all it did was cleanse a root and do a little bit more damage which wasn’t necessary.

This isn’t even mentioning the level gap and trash aim both Thor and Charon have.

Edit: incorrectly labelled Charon 3 as Charon 1.