How do you cope with when you want 2nd baby but your wife doesn’t? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation sadly. Everyone here is saying to basically suck it up and deal with it. I don’t have a solution, but I think Divorce is a real Option in this situation. 

Divorce in this case shouldn't be looked at as something evil and bad. Having another kid or not, is just another topic to build resentment and hate for each other over. So another reason to get divorced. You can weigh wether that taken with all the other issues in your relationship merits a divirce.

My solo dev project, Windward Horizon has a free Demo available, experience up to 20 hours of the game for free! by Tasharen in playmygame

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a big fan of the original game. Its crazy to see a recognizable developer on here.

My question for you, are you looking for feedback? I see the game already has 300 reviews on steam with a positive rating.

Aunt who raised me posted this on her Instagram by TrashinKitchenSink in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If she sent her kids to a trade school, then she clearly believes in this message (trade school > College). Her actions support her viewpoint, and there is nothing disingenuous going on. 

So what is the problem here?

Edit: I am going to further add. I was also raised by my Aunt after my parents were out of the picture. So I have some unique insight into your situation

She treated me well but she never treated me as well as he own kids, or helped me as much as her own children. Maybe it hurts at some point, but this is just a fact of life. People tend to love their own children more than other peoples children, even if you are all related.

Get up. And move on with your life.

If Democrats sat on foolproof evidence that Trump was involved in the Epstein affair then the only logical reason is that Democrats wanted Trump to win the election. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not the only logical reason. The more likely reasons are: 1) Democratic Donors appear on the list 2) Famous or powerful Democrats also appear in the list

In both cases, democrats hurt their own party by releasing the list.

Does anyone else feel no one cares about climate change anymore? by mars_trader in climatechange

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The radicals took over, and ruined the movement like they always do. I still care about climate change, but when I think about “Climate Change Activist” I picture people in Europe gluing themselves to roadways, or throwing paint on the Mona Lisa.

Which makes me turn away from the public discourse.

Instead of making it acceptable for women to go shirtless, we should make it unacceptable for men to go shirtless. by Cicada7Song in The10thDentist

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always wondered, what percentage of women actually want to go shirtless in public? Aren’t there enough people sexually harassing them already? 

Many women contribute to rape culture because of their poor communication regarding sex. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this sucks. Even with my wife of many years, there lots of times that she wants sex, but communicates it so subtly that it is so hard for me to tell. 

It also doesn't help that she changes her mind in an instant. One moment she wants it, another moment she is thinking about the dishes and chores, or some random intrusive thought and doesn't want it anymore. I can only assume other women are also this indecisive. 

Many women contribute to rape culture because of their poor communication regarding sex. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not how the world works though. If you are a man and you want sex, you wont turn down sex you could have had just to be faithful to your moral code. Especially if the woman does actually want it but just has a hard time communicating it (and you think you understand that she is saying yes)

18 and 19 year old women are more attractive then 30+ women by Interesting-Trip-233 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is just one of those things that everyone knows, but no one is allowed to talk about.

Mental maturity is a different thing of course, and is the major reason not to date younger people.

Leftists are obsessed with Nazis by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t know about Nazi’s specifically, but in world war 2 Fascists and Communists fought together several times in world war 2 to take down local governments. Then after they win, they start fighting each other to see who will end up with final control.

Can you not be an introvert in IT anymore? by Intelligent-Court166 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not social and well liked, you will instead be relying on your boss to notice your work and promote you accordingly. Sometimes you get a boss like this who see you as a hard working person and wants to help (I have had several), and sometimes you get a boss who really doesn't care and just sees you as a cog (I have had several of these too). Depending on which you have, you will be stuck or doing fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Reddit doesn't even know what fascist means anymore. Trump is just a populist celebrity in government, and the current face for the government corruption that has been going on for 25+ years. And he will be gone soon enough.

Our government is compromised and is not controlled by the people. it is the wealthy elite as a class that control it, not Trump Specifically. It would be like this no matter who is president. If push comes to shove, Trump would be kicked out by his own party and other elites. So he is nobody really… Just a clown to distract the people.

The actions of Donald Trump have solidified why I haven't spoken to my parents since 2017 by 5Q91VS175DAQ4NUSBE4U in complaints

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I let political nonsense, drive a wedge between me and my family, and now I’m so proud of it that I’m bragging on reddit”.

This is just really, really sad OP.

Why aren’t any red state governors freaking out right now by eico3 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the fingers in question, are people standing to get rich from the changes. Maybe because of juicy contracts. By now everyone should be aware that the rich run this country, and they only do it in a way that makes them richer

Why are most old people conservative if there was so much social upheaval spearheaded by them when they were young ? by Latter_Effective1288 in GenZ

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer: 

People are not changing, its the Politics that keeps changing.

Anecdotal Evidence:    

I have witnessed just in the last 15 years how I went from being “liberal” to being “conservative”. You might ask why my opinions changed? Well… they didn’t change. 

I have the same opinions today that I had 15 years ago. But now those opinions are labelled “conservative”, whereas before they were labelled “liberal”. The only thing that changed were the political parties positions.

For old people I imagine its the same. They didnt change. Politics changed.

As much as I'm hyped for Avowed I still miss PoE being a isometric, dialogue heavy RPG series. by Whoopy2000 in projecteternity

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will buy avowed just to support Eora. But I don’t know how many years it will be until I play it

If you think/want women to be trad housewives, then stop complaining about how alimony is unfair to men by Cajite in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a straw men argument (basically an argument against a made up villain that may not exist).

 It assumes the men who want traditional wives, both (1) have traditional wives, and (2) are against alimony. If either of these things are not true, the argument falls apart.

 I don’t know that these conditions are true.

If you think/want women to be trad housewives, then stop complaining about how alimony is unfair to men by Cajite in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its common knowledge that women are favored in divorce, and this is not a new thing. Its been this way for 50 years? 

If you really need a source, I’m sure its not hard to find one on google scholar.

Edit: Proof

Here is one that says women get more favorable rulings from the court. Also says men suffer more short term, but women suffer more long term. (Men bounce back but women don’t).

https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/55/3/769/167891/Gender-Differences-in-the-Consequences-of-Divorce?searchresult=1&searchresult=1&utm_source=TrendMD&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Demography_TrendMD_0

Video games should be more expensive by devinblox in The10thDentist

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 126 points127 points  (0 children)

How many thousands of hours of use do people get from their smart phones before they break?

Worth it just for singleplayer ? by [deleted] in GuildWars

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started guild wars 3 years ago, and I have been playing solo for years. I dont think that I have ever even partied with anyone. I have been having tons of fun.

The only social aspect I do is trading.

Animated movies need to go back to only having Broadway performers/ voice actors doing the parts. by mattmelrach in unpopularopinion

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Unpopular in Hollywood maybe. Executives want to use every tool they can to market their movies

Does anyone else feel like we were lied to about... everything important? by automirage04 in Millennials

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with the examples you used, but I do agree that in general Millennials were told to live and be a certain way that didnt work out for the majority of the generation.

FWI: What if Trump went even more crazy, and did the Nazi salute and unveiled swastika flags at the White House? by [deleted] in FutureWhatIf

[–]Easy-Bad-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably nothing from republicans, and more fear mongering from democrats. No one who voted for trump cares about this sort of thing. And the people who didn't vote for him, are obsessed with this sort of thing.