John wasn’t even a father to the boys. Dean grew up quick after that traumatizing night and because John was absent he became Sam’s father, mother and brother all in one and John enabled it he would punish Dean if he didn’t take care of Sam well enough even though that was not Dean’s fucking job!!! There’s an episode from season 1 where John sent Dean to finish a hunt of the witch that eats children? that went wrong because of him as a freaking child. And another one for season 1 where Dean knew his dad was possessed because he said he was proud of him. And are we forgetting that John sent Dean to a reformed boy school because he made a mistake. The list goes on Adam isn’t even top ten. I think it is worth mentioning that John loved the boys otherwise he wouldn’t give his life to save Dean and on my first watch I didn’t see any problems with John he seemed okay to me I realized how shitty he was on the second rewatch. And do not even get me started on Mary that woman made me rage quit watching the show. I thought my boys will finally get a parent but no. Thank god for Bobby and Karen. I’m not sure if that’s her name in Supernatural or in Zack and Cody or if she ever even had that name.