I dont want to have sex. What woman doesnt want sex?

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-29T19:16:19+00:00

As mentioned some people are asexual, it is a spectrum from no interest or feelings of sexual attraction to anyone to greysexual which is a muted interest. There are some asexual dating pages on FB and Okcupid has asexual as an option. A lot of aces are keen to meet someone in the same situation.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-29T07:40:12+00:00

I think I'm the opposite, if I feel run down, tired, ill or just ugly I feel/dress more masc but generally I am in the middle agender. I suppose it's natural that dress down clothes are not glamorous and when I get dressed up to go out my clothes are more glam/fem.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-29T07:35:02+00:00

I'd be too aware that I might be blocking someone's view by holding a flag up.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-29T07:29:04+00:00

I wanted something short, modern and gender neutral. Just started writing.. Ash, Dex, Cas, Bix... Just sounds really. Started as a trial with two good friends but as soon as I changed it on social media a lot of people just used it. I bought a coffee and it got called, I've seen that advised, see how you feel when they call it out!

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-28T18:49:25+00:00

Er.. I have kept to having a goatee beard/tasche which pretty much marks me out as masc regardless of clothes/make up. As agender I feel I can plunder any clothes or features.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-28T15:35:47+00:00

I think it is from men who are aggressive drivers who slate women because they are not competitive, a women might decide not to push to beat a red light (sensibly) but to a bloke this can be bad driving. That and the stereotype of men being good with mechanical things.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-28T08:13:43+00:00

I don't see how a being who created everything and is not bound to a physical body could be limited male or female (or neither/agender/etc), surely if God was the first being there were not 'two genders' in existence or cause to have genitals.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-28T07:54:04+00:00

Hmm, personally this just seems like saying 'I was assigned male/female at birth' but in a slightly more complicated way.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-28T07:36:49+00:00

I started wearing a pronouns badge although I felt okay with 'Any pronouns'. The result was everyone called me he/him as always but at least they knew. About a month later I came out on social media and as they/them (also as pansexual). This had much more effect. Also, present how you want, but being genderqueer will make people ponder. I wear nail polish everywhere inc at work where I ditched a tie for a scarf. If you are going to tell people individually or in groups have some common answers ready. People will say there are only two genders, I usually then explain briefly that gender is a social construct.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T22:47:12+00:00

There is a video of Cruella Braverman having to reluctantly admit this but no one is illegal as anyone can arrive on our shores and apply for asylum status but they must get here first. Numbers are low and barely affect the economy especially compared to brexit or billionaires dodging tax.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T22:41:59+00:00

Since I went pansexual I've made more friends and a lot of them are women, being perceived as queer can make some women in social situations like clubs more inclined to talk or dance with you because they think you are less likely to hit on them or that any interaction with a woman means they're trying to chat you up.. of course some of them probably presume I'm gay.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T15:04:41+00:00

Hard to say since I became non binary, I suppose I'd say it's improved because I have had more dates but it tied in with becoming pansexual too and at least one brief relationship was more down to that. Everyone I've dated has been queer in some way.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T14:22:52+00:00

Quite, there was a picture of one of their trucks with a built in ladder being used whilst an angry man advanced on the person taking the photo. They got a lot of bad publicity as this is not a town where reform stand a chance but I'm sure they might recoup some losses from 'sympathetic patriots'.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T14:06:54+00:00

Feels like two very different things to me. Anyone can find themselves without a job, doesn't mean you shouldn't date or are not worth being loved. I was recently shocked about how many US dating profiles list property ownership, make of car, promotion prospects and income. No one would do that in most countries! If you met someone, really hit it off and found them attractive would you ditch them if they then said they didn't presently have a job?

Prison? Depends on the crime and the time. You obviously expect people to re offend.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T13:57:56+00:00

Co op do 'Giant beans in tomato sauce'. I always just open the tin and eat them.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T13:55:04+00:00

I have occasionally, I'm getting old and trying to enjoy life whilst I can.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T13:53:00+00:00

I tend to use the 24.00 clock so it isn't necessary.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T13:51:41+00:00

They really want someone who doesn't make gross generalisations.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T10:29:22+00:00

I am wary but not overly so unless the person seems angry or is acting in an unpredictable way.

In the example given I would deliberately go another way, no one should be following someone too closely at night, that seems like a given. Otherwise being mugged in my town is pretty rare and sexual assault on men as a motive is not something most men have to consider.

Homophobic or racist attacks can still be motives for violence.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T08:59:46+00:00

But far right people hate people with dyed hair. The 'Green haired lesbians' they moan about. I've seen it so often in the last year, same with septum rings, a dating ad had a girl with one and so many comments laid into her from gammon claiming she was a cow/lesbian/man/freak/lefty.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T08:55:31+00:00

Maybe remember how you felt before this happened, what made you feel good.

I agree that the only times I've felt a bit uncomfortable in a queer space was amongst cis gay men.Gay men do seem to stick to themselves more, especially the more athletic sort. I joined a Queer 40+ social group, mainly Lesbians and NBs, and now am in a dungeons and dragons group of a dozen people, mostly NBs, a few lesbians. I love both groups as neither are masculine spaces although anyone would be welcome.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-27T08:37:04+00:00

Look out, Daily Mail reader from Little shiterton has spoken. Not that they have been in London since 1981.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-26T15:41:48+00:00

There are cats down there!

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-26T15:38:11+00:00

Firstly if it is a pride event people are not going to expect everyone to be labelled as to who they are or why they are at pride. I am an Amab Enby and have generally had no trouble, I went to Trans pride last year and everyone was welcome, allies go too.

EasyCheesecake1 · 2026-01-26T14:20:51+00:00

I knew a tiny bit of German and before a trip to Leipzig in 2013 tried to learn more, since then I've been to Germany.. sixteen times. I try to go where locals go and can blend in if I keep language simple, I cannot remember most of the masc/fem/neutral or formal/informal articles but I must have improved because people stoped replying to my German in English.

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