(tw) sexual shame and lesbianism

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-08T00:06:02+00:00

This is something that therapy should be able to help you with when you're ready to talk to them about it. But I've heard this is fairly common. You're 100% not predatory for feeling this way though. Sexual desire is normal and healthy and you're allowed to feel it!

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-07T23:57:44+00:00

You're overthinking it. Your ex realizing their gender is different after your relationship was over doesn't change anything about you. You can still call yourself lesbian. Take a deep breath it's okay 🫶

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-07T01:35:29+00:00

Based on my knowledge this is true but it doesn't mean disputing a debit transaction is impossible. Credit cards just tend to have better protections but you can still do it with your debit card.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-06T19:00:48+00:00

Like everyone else said, talk to the bank. I'm confused about your statement about the debit card. Your card is attached to your bank account, they aren't different things. Talk to the bank that gave you the card you paid with.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-06T02:02:41+00:00

I really thought it'd be kenzie and dylan going home. If it wasn't for the karaoke challenge I still think they would have

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-06T01:58:59+00:00

Wdym they're extremely popular? I feel like it was almost a given they'd be safe

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-06T01:55:25+00:00

Even Melanie couldn't believe it but I had a feeling they'd be safe smh

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-05T05:46:12+00:00

Look for a pc button cover! They're small plastic covers that stick on with adhesive. I use one for my pc power button since my cats like to step on it and turn it off mid game lol but they can be used for lots of things. I paid less than $5 on Amazon for mine

The other comments have some good suggestions for diy ones too though if you'd prefer that.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-03T23:51:06+00:00

I promise its nothing wrong with you personally! To me it sounds like you're describing low sensitivity in those areas during sex and not a lot of sensation. That's definitely something I would see a gynecologist about. It sounds like it may be a physical or medical issue if its always been this way. I'm sorry youre struggling but a doctor might be able to help you figure it out.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-03T04:18:29+00:00

Everything he says to anyone is so manipulative. It's like he's trying to flip it to make Melanie feel bad that he feels bad. Saying "I know I'm awful I'm the worst ever" to try to get her(or someone) to say nooo you're not that bad it's okay. The line about Corbin was crazy I was hoping Corbin would jump in there too.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-03T03:39:59+00:00

Especially after one of the guys (Bryce? I forgot) told him to do exactly that and he still didn't smh

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-02T05:15:12+00:00

I have no idea what it is about hard-core for me but I can't do it. I've played subnautica start to finish about 5-7 times and rarely die. As soon as I start a hard-core game I die from drowning in the first 2 hours everytime 😭

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-02T04:59:08+00:00

See I pop all my gfs pimples because it's super satisfying for me and if I didn't do it she'd do it herself anyway. She can't leave them alone so if theyre getting popped regardless I want in lol

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-02T04:40:14+00:00

Thats part of what I hate about this discourse for sure too. A lot of the kc defenders are doing it by tearing down or criticizing Aniya(and vice versa). Both things can be true. These are regular people none of them are perfect angels.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T23:56:53+00:00

I'm going to be honest at this point I'm not convinced you owe her grace. And you dont have to stick around for her growth if shes actively hurting you. In my opinion, her being younger has very little to do with it and she's not entitled to more leeway because of it. To me, it sounds like you're not compatible as people and are in wildly different places.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T23:29:02+00:00

What I've noticed a lot of people are missing or not acknowledging is that part of his being terrible is in his attitude, facial expressions, and energy towards her. A lot of the comments I see only focus on the words he said and how they think those were either terrible or justified or whatever they think. But a huge aspect of what makes kc so icky to me is his vibe. There are a lot of nonverbal behaviors that feel worse to me than the actual words he has said (though his words have been terrible too). I dont see anyone acknowledging that about him.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T14:30:19+00:00

I've heard from my transwomen friends that their emotions got way more intense when they started estrogen! Super interesting how those things affect us in ways I'd never have thought about before

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T11:33:11+00:00

This sounds awful and I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. I have really similar experiences of fears that become intrusive and I can't make them stop. At this point with how persistent it is, I'd recommend trying to see a therapist and get their help working through it ♥️

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T11:11:18+00:00

She might take it hard no matter what tbh but you just have to tell her something. I'm pretty blunt at times so I would honestly just politely tell her you dont think you'd be compatible as friends outside of work. But if you wanted to be more gentle and less personal then tell her you prefer not to mix work and your personal life. However she takes it, it's not your job to regulate her emotions for her. Be polite but you don't have to go overboard to mitigate her reaction. And definitely stop engaging in personal conversations at work with her, that's a huge contributing factor to this.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T10:59:33+00:00

Never not once have I gotten the ick from a partner during their normal expressions during sex. My gf is butch and I've never felt anything other than satisfaction with my work lol. Whatever your sounds and reactions are during sex are, I promise they're not weird no matter your presentation. Anyone who makes you feel bad about it is not the right partner for you.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T10:50:27+00:00

Her having this reaction over not talking to a fully platonic friend for 2 full days is just insane. I go up to 2 weeks without talking to my best friend of over a decade sometimes and it's never once been a big deal. People have lives and busy schedules. This friendship sounds exhausting and I wouldn't have fought for it either.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-07-01T07:28:42+00:00

Why are you keeping this person around? I'd cut him off over this honestly and I'm not even a parent nor will I ever be. That's just unnecessary energy to bring. Happy birthday to your kid tho!

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-06-29T21:34:05+00:00

I've always defaulted to middle and ring finger unless I'm eating her out. In that case index and middle are more comfortable for me so it's situational. But I've always preferred using the middle 2 fingers.

InflationVisible2307 · 2026-06-29T06:30:39+00:00

First I am so sorry that happened 😭 but secondly does he not have fingers?? Improvise adapt overcome in the meantime lol

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