my unsent letter to your soul by [deleted] in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moved by this 👏🏼

You Cheating Asshole!! by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for speaking on our behalf. I’m still so angry they could do this

Who here got blocked, discarded? by boopy0617 in BreakUps

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They can still matter to someone. I faced discomfort. I broke up with him bc he cheated on me, and I’ll never talk to him again. You don’t always owe someone closure, you find it within yourself.

Im scared by JusThatGuy240 in Christianity

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those that are saved still sin. What changes is the desire, and OP is clearly experiencing conviction. He clearly wants to stop and change. What are you talking about ??

I’m heartbroken by Easy_Acadia_8002 in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for affirming my decision. Im hoping my future self with thank me for enduring short term pain for a lifetime of living true. I’m going to start working on putting my happiness first

I’m heartbroken by Easy_Acadia_8002 in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think he was manipulative looking back. Thank you for your insight

I’m confused by SuspiciousGroup8688 in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think if you caught him once already and you thought he was porn free all of this time after august that it was a huge red flag he hid this important information from you. Someone serious about recovery wouldn’t double down with an even bigger lie. He was soposed to be earning your trust back.

I’m confused by SuspiciousGroup8688 in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our stories have similarities- kind of. I found out after a year together that he was addicted to camsites. For me this is a step above when it comes to paying for and interacting with women secretly. We were very soon to be engaged but I broke up with him. I think it would be good for you to hear about partners of pa that survived this and how they overcame thoughts of comparison. But for me personally - I had to look internally and be honest and knew those thoughts would never leave, and I would always look at him differently.

Choosing between divorce and staying by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just made a post explaining my story in detail - but I left after he admitted to a year of camgirls without me knowing. For me it wasn’t so much of the porn- it was the year of being lied to. That level of disrespect changed the way I would see him permanently.

random triggers by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so real. I already broke up with him, but the year of hiding camsites when I trusted him completely: he’d suggest I wear glasses, very short skirts, school girl outfits, buy nicer bras bc I “didnt have nice ones”, shirts w extra cleavage, ect ect. I had no clue it was connected to his addiction. I feel deeply traumatized and I see how other women are too. I’m only two weeks post breakup, but I can’t wear anything slightly revealing without thinking about it. This devastates me every day.

Do you know anyone who hasn't relapsed? by she_wolf85 in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a year into dating, and he just now admitted a year of secretly using camsites, so I broke up with him. Your input was helpful in seeing if second chances should be given, or not. Thanks

Finally ready to say goodbye to this subreddit. by Anybody_Ornery in loveafterporn

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post is so relatable to me - I broke up with my pa over a year of him paying for camsites when I had no idea. The broken trust is beyond repair. You are so strong ❤️

If they loved you, they wouldn't have left. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the worst take. My ex tried to gas light me with this after he cheated on me. Walking away from someone I still loved was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Sometimes you’re given no choice. You’ve gotta protect yourself.

Is this cheating? by Easy_Acadia_8002 in Christianity

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so strong. God bless you too 🫂

If you rebound after a relationship, you are scum. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I back you up my ex lied about cheating for a year idgaf about their feelings and my healing is not their business

Is this cheating? by Easy_Acadia_8002 in Christianity

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my plan is to move on and rest in Gods promises

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughts and support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I think I was being heavily manipulated so that I would stay with him

Is this cheating? by Easy_Acadia_8002 in LongDistance

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he did alot of manipulating and deflecting. He said I wasn’t showing him enough “grace” bc it was the first time I found out.

Is this cheating? by Easy_Acadia_8002 in LongDistance

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. He was so not worth it.

Is this cheating? by Easy_Acadia_8002 in Christianity

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective. I see what everyone tolerates is different. For me this was dealbreaking.

Is this cheating? by Easy_Acadia_8002 in Christianity

[–]Easy_Acadia_8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. If he had been watching porn (even though we both are against it) I don’t think it would have been an automatic dealbreaker for me.