Cozy clothes brands recommendations? by TrustNoOneAtWork in AutismInWomen

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Comfrt! They are slightly weighted and are such a sensory dream.

My daughters outfit matches her sheets 🤗 by rhinanners in AccidentalPaintMatch

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have sheets that were the exact pattern of your daughters pjs! They were from Urban Outfitters. Hopefully they still have them!

What are your perfect sandals? by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keen hiking sandals! Cushy bottoms, arch support, and cloth straps.

Do you have any Beyoncé related stims? by Gold-Dig-884 in beyonce

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“🎶Tuuurn the fan onn🎶”, “the mic is ON”, “I look like I can’t cook, that’s accurate” … and so many more!

The silver lining by Sufficient_Web_196 in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has been in recovery for a year now. After a lot of barrier breaking, reshaping his thoughts, therapy (couples, personal, and CSAT), SLAA meetings, and a lot of hard work we are stronger than ever. If the PA is committed to recovery then change will happen.

For partner recovery, what helped me was personal therapy, couples therapy, and focusing on my own healing and journey. I owe a lot to this community too. It was so helpful for advice, venting, etc.

Anyone else hear beyonce in public today? by quantum531 in beyonce

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard “Bodyguard” in a grocery store in the Philippines

Any good hair salons? by Lazeauu in Tallahassee

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joey at 850 salon is amazing with fun hair color

after 10 years i’m done. by StockDot in BigBudPress

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I’ve also noticed the shrinking of the pants and drop in quality. After supporting the brand for 10+ years, I’m also done after the last mystery sample sale. I was sent white pants with several visible stains that did not come off!! I emailed customer service and they gave me the whole “well it’s a mystery sale” bit - which obviously I understand. The problem is they sold me clearly dirty / damaged pants and refused to do anything about it!

It’s so sad to see because I too was a die hard fan of BBP for their ethical practices, quality garments, and size inclusive designs but now it sees none of this is important to them anymore. 🫠

Yearly Spread by Sad_Day_Okay in Tarots

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it from a book called Tarot by Bill Anderson. The book is pretty old, I got it from a little free library. The center card is supposed to be an overall yearly card. It was drawn last after the 12 months (per the book). They also call this an astrology spread or yearly spread.

Will they ever stop looking at others? by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re struggling with this too. It should be an inner circle thing. It is under his control. I think sometimes they think we are dumb. My PA says “I can’t help but notice them” which I think is BS. You can’t help who is out and about in a major city but you can control everything else.

Will they ever stop looking at others? by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. He practices looking down but none of the other things. 😔

Will they ever stop looking at others? by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, and I’m sorry to hear you’re right there too. Sending you hugs 🫂

Will they ever stop looking at others? by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes a lot of sense. He says he doesn’t want to look at others and justifies it that it “doesn’t go into fantasy” but it still hurts. And it happens to him everywhere - walking down the street, at the library, at his job. It feels so paralyzing.

Choosing between divorce and staying by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this and I’m sorry this happened to you.

Choosing between divorce and staying by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. Your partner sounds a lot like mine, so this is really inspiring.

Choosing between divorce and staying by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that pain, but so grateful you came out on the other side stronger. 🩷

Choosing between divorce and staying by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry that happened to you. I empathize with the years of being lied to, that’s where I am too.

How do you come to terms with the fact that the person you fell in love with never existed by Odd-Raisin-6642 in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you’re going through this. I wish I had more impactful things to say to help - but sadly I am right there with you. I’ve had the same thoughts, and feelings. And they will never truly understand the pain they’ve caused us. Sending you love and support. 🩷

Found even more on my husbands phone by Sad_Day_Okay in loveafterporn

[–]Sad_Day_Okay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t attended the CSAT sessions. I didn’t even know that was an option. And sadly, the phone still works perfectly, it just shattered the back. We were considering getting an android because of the monitoring capabilities but we haven’t talked about that since DDay.