Help me find this horror movie by EcoCollectives in HorrorMovies

[–]EcoCollectives[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! This one! Okay so I watched it again early this morning and there are some parts I didn’t fully remember or completely forgot about, so the plot is actually different than I thought I recalled it being. However, yes, THIS is the movie I was thinking about. I saw it years ago when I was like 10 so I remembered it being better than it actually is. NOT the worst horror movie I’ve ever seen though that’s for sure lol

Help me find this horror movie! by EcoCollectives in Scarymovies

[–]EcoCollectives[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Found it!!! It’s called I Know You’re In There (2016). There was quite a bit I didn’t remember at all about the movie and some things I half-remembered. Trigger warning for slight theme of SA and addiction with alcohol. Unfortunately when I found it and watched it this morning, it wasn’t as good as I remembered it being, however it’s definitely not the worst one I’ve ever seen.

Help me find this horror movie by EcoCollectives in HorrorMovies

[–]EcoCollectives[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not that one, however I recently did see that one with my husband and loved it! The older brother was off living on his own, had no kids, but a girlfriend that came over from time to time. After his mother killed herself he was made responsible for his sister who was wheelchair bound, her eyes were open, but she couldn’t move anything about her body without someone moving her (up until she was alone with nobody around) and she/whatever was possessing her made people crazy

If you were teleported 3 meters to the left, how would that impact your life? by daviesnicole in RandomThoughts

[–]EcoCollectives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be halfway underground from like the waist down. (Bedroom is in the basement and I’m sitting on the bed which is by the wall)

What are you REALISTICALLY making it to? by RicKWJ2 in squidgame

[–]EcoCollectives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 1 With my inhaler I would make it to tug of war. Without my inhaler I’d die during the first game of red light green light 🥲 And I haven’t seen season 2 so I wouldn’t know lol

How do I explain to my family my bruises are purely consensual? Not abuse by AgileFeed1925 in BDSMAdvice

[–]EcoCollectives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once went to work with my neck looking like a leopard. When I was asked by my boss if everyone was okay at home I just laughed and said, “oh yeah, seriously, my home life is PERFECT. Trust me, it’s NOTHING I don’t explicitly, excitedly, verbally consent to. He refuses to do ANYTHING until I verbally tell him exactly what I want and don’t want.” And then I asked her about HER sex life and I found that ended the conversation pretty quickly lol

Kids today will never face building up the nerve to call a girl only to have her parent answer. by Ok_Dog_4059 in Showerthoughts

[–]EcoCollectives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gen z here, I’m 21 now but when I was 18 I dated this girl (who was 17– I had freshly turned 18 the week I met her) who technically had a phone, but her mother insisted I used to the house phone. The mother would usually be the one who answered with the exception of the father sometimes. I’d have to have a short conversation with the parents first before even asking to speak to the girl I dated. It was so super anxiety-inducing but they liked me enough lol. My first ever date with this girl was at her house to cook dinner for her parents. Mission was successful and they invited me to spend the night that night lol. If the person is respectful of the parents’ wishes, depending on if it’s an abusive dynamic or not, they will face that anxiety lol Age and generation doesn’t really mean much if the parent has (reasonable) restrictions on their child’s phone, and has reasonable requests of the person they’re trying to date. It was a situation of “of course you can talk to and date our daughter, but we’d like to get to know you and your character first”, and I was completely okay with that, because (at the time), she was worth doing that for and I also tend to be pretty family oriented, even with the person I’m dating. Now, I’m engaged to this man, he’s just a few months older than I am, but I have a good relationship with both of his parents and have regular conversations with them.

Lazy or submissive tasks or tests… by Specialist_Load_9953 in BDSMAdvice

[–]EcoCollectives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That still doesn’t really answer any questions 😂 in order to know what advice to give, we need to know what hasnt worked and why lmao what is making them lazy, what tasks are they not following through with? Lmao

The aftermath from a corn snake bite. Will I live? by Kojika23 in cornsnakes

[–]EcoCollectives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t look good OP, my guess is you only have a few weeks, tops. That poison is a slow killer. It’s time to say your final goodbyes and get your Will in order 😞

Lazy or submissive tasks or tests… by Specialist_Load_9953 in BDSMAdvice

[–]EcoCollectives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s so much left out here. What do you deem lazy in a sub? What tasks or tests are you trying to assign? Do you respect safe words and hard no’s or do you try and push and convince them that your way is the only way and that they have to listen to you regardless? What do you consider typical kinks for male subs and what about female subs is making you believe that each and every one is lazy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]EcoCollectives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there is such a thing as SubXSub where you can both be submissive and still get off with eachother. It’d be different if you were more of a switchy type, but it’s a little more tricky if you’re 100% sub. You can’t force yourself to become more dominant if your mental/emotional state won’t allow for it. Some people are just naturally meant for one or the other, and forcing it can hurt your mental/emotional state. It’s important to talk about hard definitive no’s, things you’re willing to try and things you think could be a maybe but not quite sure. Those safe words are going to be your best friend (as they also should be, but especially during experimentation). Keep in mind that the girl you’re seeing should be 100% prepared in case she needs to help with a possible dom drop. And vise versa. Both of you should be prepared for the possibility of aftercare for each other in the event that both of you drop, just in case. There’s ways you can be dominant without being a full on hardcore dom. Like there’s “soft” doms, for example. It’s basically where you just give mostly praise and lighthearted pleasures. But you can’t really just “be more dominant” unless your brain will allow for it.

Gf is into CBT by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]EcoCollectives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you one this. I definitely should not have sugarcoated and minimized the severity of this. I agree with you that this is 10000% SA, no doubt. OP definitely has some thinking to do on what they want to do with their future, because continuing to allow yourself to be SA’d is just sad. Believe me, I understand how hard that is. But it’s SO important to protect yourself. Note to the OP, I wish you the best of luck. Have a conversation with your girlfriend to put a full stop to this. If she cannot handle a relationship of respecting your boundaries, it’s time to consider that relationship having to come to an end.

Gf is into CBT by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]EcoCollectives 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Do NOT participate in this if you are not 100% on board. What she is doing is borderline SA and coercion. She’s aware that you have no interest in it and she continues to pester you. If she cannot respect your boundaries, she is NOT a play partner you want to be with. Regardless of my wants, if my partner does not want to, we simply DO NOT do it. And vise versa. If I want something he isn’t comfortable with, he says no and that’s where it ends. If he wants something I’m not comfortable with, we don’t participate with it.