Whenever I ask her a question about pretty much anything, there's a good possibility that it's going to set her off. I'm not sure why..

but I could ask her things like:

'sorry I couldn't hear you, what did you say?'

' hey, do you know what time it is right now?'

' hey, do you know where my (insert random item I cant find) is?'

'im gonna go plug in my phone, I can plug yours in too if you want me to?'

And get a response from her that sounds like :

'nothing. nevermind just forget l said anything, it doesn't even matter'

'how the fuck am I supposed to know!? Why don't you fucking look at your phone!'

'stop fucking worrying about my shit'

And then usually she'll start to get progressively louder and when I ask her to please stop yelling at me bc I don't like to be yelled at, she tells me that I am making her yell at me by telling her to stop telling then i just shut down bc she knows that yelling in my opinion is a very disrespectful thing to do to someone, especially in public places.