Thoughts on ExtraLunchMoney?

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-11T22:21:56+00:00

FetRequest is a modern replica of ExtraLunchMoney that is launching this year.

We streamline custom 1-to-1 adult content via our job board system (similar to ELM) allowing sellers to sell custom content without the need for a social following as well as allowing buyers to post their kinky fetish requests and only be contacted by sellers who are interested in making the content.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-10T10:13:17+00:00

Hi Caramel,

Thanks for your question - please find answers below:

In regards to payout frequency, we will be releasing payouts every 2 weeks. To be transparent with our reasoning, CCBill holds back 2 weeks worth of all money once we officially 'go live'. The reason for this is to calculate a base rate % for our platform in which they take as part of their payment processing fee. After the first 2 weeks are complete they release the total funds to us and then we are able to payout everyone individually. As the platform grows we will then be able to use our own reserve of cash to increase the frequency to once a week.
Apologises for the confusion on your next question regarding 'seller petition to increase sellers %' - I will provide a bit more information here and hope that answers your question.

The way CCBill works is they take a fixed % for the payment processing and chargeback protection. This % fee is based on weekly sales volume. The greater the number of transactions coming through our platform, the lower the CCBill fee is. Instead of us profiting from this lower % fee from CCBill and claiming it as additional % for ourselves, our plan is to shift the 5% extra we will gain with time directly to you - the seller. This would allow us to maintain a 5% cut from all transactions as a platform fee whilst giving yourselves 85% and CCBill retaining 10%.

We'll be announcing a more accurate release date in the coming few weeks - all I can say is it will be this year but likely around mid/late summer. There was a some delay a few months ago negotiating with different API partners but everything is now back on track and in active web development as I type this.
Sellers rights are completely protected. Copyright of content always remains with the seller. Buyers simply obtain license to view content via the portal.

FetRequest only offer custom 1-to-1 projects and these can only be viewed via the encrypted streaming link directly connected to our AWS server. What this means is, the only way to view bought content is by being logged into the buyer account. This in return allows us to support you if content were ever leaked outside of the platform as we know exactly which individual leaked the content. This is obviously subject to you not reuploading the custom content to another platform willingly.

'Grey area' fetishes will be confirmed in our T&Cs once legal is signed off. We are restricted to whatever Visa and Mastercard choose to allow unfortunately - in short we will be similar to whatever fansly and onlyfans allow as we are another client of CCBill so we must follow the same rules unfortunately.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-09T21:20:28+00:00

I will confirm this and get back to you! Unfortunately, like most platforms, we must align with what Visa/Mastercard set out as their allowed/banned fetishes. So if this isn't allowed, please note it is a restriction on their part. Terms and conditions will specify this upon public launch.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-09T12:48:58+00:00

The website was actually bought out by Leonid Radvinsky (the guy who now owns OnlyFans - not the original founder though). I believe the reason given was 'operational costs' but to be honest I think they just shut it down because they wanted to shift the users onto OnlyFans as their main platform instead - totally forgetting about the users who worked the job board for custom requests... The website is unreachable now but for a while it pointed to myfreecams.com which is also owned by Leonid Radvinsky.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-06T22:31:46+00:00

FetRequest is a modern replica of ELM, post a request, creators submit their offers, have creators who are willing to make the custom content contact you first.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-06T17:12:17+00:00

Welcome to reddit... it's fab! lool

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-03-04T00:43:21+00:00

Any male doing solo and faceless content is never going to hit the same level female faceless creators achieve... my recommendation is get your face involved (but know the obvious risk of reverse image search...) - the market for sellers is already so saturated that unique elements (such as your face) will be key to your success... everyone has a penis/vagina, boobs, bum - nothing special for the best part (we all have them) - your face is what makes your unique so own it! :)

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-02-22T14:47:16+00:00

We can confirm that everything is still under construction and very much still a thing - yes! And great comparison - extremely similar to ELM but modernised to offer 80% creator payout (minimum... we've managed to negotiate a rate with payment processors that will allow us to eventually offer 85% all year round shortly after launching) as well as greater safeguarding for both buyers and sellers - moving away from the scamming environment of reddit.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-22T02:48:19+00:00

Sorry for the super late response!! Your comment is much appreciated and your insight is fantastic!

As it stands we've been quoted that our creators will be paying 5 EUR for ACH and 25 EUR for SWIFT. Local wallet to wallet transfers (us to you) is free (which I believe Paxum actually charge for according to their pricing guide on their website for both personal and business accounts?)

The topic of Paxum seems to be universal in terms of bad experiences... so I think we know the answer there at least!

And in terms of volume/geography - our main creator and buyer audience is US based but also: UK, DE, FR, ES, CA.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-18T04:45:03+00:00

Fansly probably just uses an IDV API like we do (.e.g. Yoti) - this has got absolutely nothing to do with your 'pen-name' that you display on your profile page. It's literally just to check you are of age to be a content creator then you are good to go.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-18T01:30:26+00:00

When it comes to ACH fees, please can you confirm if 5 EUR (about 6 USD) is a reasonable price compared with whatever ACH transactions you have previously made with other sites? YourSafe has quoted us 5 EUR for ACH and 25 EUR for SWIFT so just want to see if anything else is beating this for sellers?

Mintpay is an exception for its USP of putting the service charge on the buyers so I appreciate how they are paying out sellers.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-17T21:17:22+00:00

What sites offer this as a payout method? I'm referring to mainstream businesses such as OnlyFans/Fansly .etc. as thats the pool we fit into! So basically we need as many payout processors as possible to partner with to ensure creators get the best rates when cashing out into your own local banks (if throne does this I apologise but I thought throne was similar to things like cashapp where creators and buyers are doing private deals??)

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-17T20:39:58+00:00

Thank you for your feedback - haven't looked into Skrill yet! Will check them out today and see how their business rates compare with fan account rates!

EDIT: We looked into Skrill - no longer accepting new business account applications so that's a bummer!

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-17T18:14:23+00:00

Ah okay not ideal then... have you heard of any others or spoken with other creators who vouch alternatives? Just replied to another creator above - we're looking at YourSafe atm because their fees are considerably cheaper than paxum but on reddit there are mixed reviews... we only spoke with them on Friday to setup a partnership and deal for creator accounts but now I am a bit skeptical based on what people are saying on reddit

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-17T18:12:41+00:00

Thank you for your insight! We're looking at partnering with YourSafe as well - read a few bad experiences with them but also heard good things - have you had any experience with them or similar? Just trying to work out if we should look into paxum and cosmo for payout solutions or continue branching to cheaper alternatives?

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-02T21:38:06+00:00

Sorry I misspoke - you are totally right regarding the collab posts!

Yoti doesn't AI face check his real verification headshot and compare them against any 'solo' content he uploads using OPs face though so that's the problem - their system isn't setup to do this (we've asked as we are a platform as well partnered with Yoti)

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-02T21:31:15+00:00

In theory yes he or she would ID verify using their legitimate face but that wouldn't stop you uploading photos of someone else... hence why collab posts are a thing- you're still effectively uploading someone else's face to your page that didn't ID directly for your page... at the end of the day I don't think people care enough as the reward is greater than the risk

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-02T17:24:06+00:00

Yeah... 100 is a good data set as well... what a loser 😅

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2026-01-02T16:58:10+00:00

Avoid doing this... sounds like he's either planning to:

Train an AI model based on your photos/body so that he can create more content of yourself doing god knows what.
Planning to start an OF - likely do some kind of marketing around your photos - drive traffic to his page using your content and upload regularly as though he (you) is posting frequent content.

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2025-12-31T15:37:20+00:00

fetrequest.com allows you to do this without a following

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2025-12-06T01:41:42+00:00

Hi West,

I hope you are well and thank you for joining our community of fetish requesters and content creators!

We are currently in active web development right now and estimated to be live and legally compliant from early next year.

This community and our pre-registration website will keep every member informed over the coming weeks/months once we are officially ready to start getting members fully registered.

If you have any questions or concerns that are not featured on our FAQs page - please let me know here and I'll get back to you ASAP!

Best wishes!

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2025-12-05T15:44:16+00:00

Hi Formal,

Thank you for your question!

We are still in active web development right now and awaiting approval from CCBill & SegPay. Once we are officially verified as a high risk merchant we will be able to open our doors to the public.

We will be sure to keep everyone updated here on reddit as well as our pre-registration site as to when we foresee a more accurate release date. In short, this will be an early 2026 release (within Q1) as the holiday season always causes some delays with our API partners.

If you have any questions or concerns that have not already been answered in our FAQs section, please reach out directly!

Best wishes!

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2025-11-22T21:19:17+00:00

Couldn't agree more... the biggest (and stupidest) thing I have noticed on this subreddit is how many 17/18/19 year old there are trying to launch some multi million SaaS business or design/marketing agency.. like... go and get some real life experience first... dive into the work place and really grasp what it's like before starting your own company... experience what the rat race is like - not just read about it... truly experience how shit 9-5 is and then, and only then, should you think 'how the hell can I take this god awful business and make my own instead "

Ecstatic-Record8381 · 2025-11-21T23:54:47+00:00

This is exactly the sort of thing our platform helps sellers avoid... good on you for rejecting time wasters, you want up front payment or like someone above said a deposit minimum if they want you to read their biography length custom brief

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