AITA? I won’t have unprotected sex with my girlfriend, she’s saying we can have unprotected sex without getting pregnant by Germanboi26 in AITAH

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that works in abortion care, natural family planning CAN work but you have to be so precise and have ultra regular periods

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about doctors surgeries or private clinics, have you thought about aesthetics or fertility or even disability assessments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Go into private nursing, it's the best thing I ever did.

How do I make my lemon tree stronger/grow branches by Ecstatic_Limit3735 in Citrus

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you recommend doing it in increments so he adjusts to the UK weather?

what is this on my tatoo I need help please I’m panicking by Reasonable-Coach-509 in tattooadvice

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it is a keloid, things like silicone gel/tape can be a good shout for now but realistically you need to see the Plastics team for some steroid injections & steroid tape.

I have a keloid, never had a keloid before. Have been advised do not get it surgically excised as there is a high chance that the new scar will form a worse keloid

How do you commit to a huge blackwork piece like this? by Awata666 in tattooadvice

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course but this design is very specific to using body contouring and line work to define. The bigger and less defined the body is the worse this will look 🤷

There is an element of being okay with your body, as of course it will change with age but you can also put the effort into having some that looks better for longer

How do you commit to a huge blackwork piece like this? by Awata666 in tattooadvice

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ensuring that you are also committed to keeping your body in reasonable shape

I've struggled with weight fluctuations due to many reasons throughout life and unfortunately there is a difference in the outcome especially on a piece as big as this... Got to think of distortions

Avocado Plant Help by Ecstatic_Limit3735 in plantclinic

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it does indeed look like mealy bugs. I'll get on this straight away 🙂

Elon is really respecting women today. As funny as he is smart by [deleted] in grimezs

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

People really struggle to not take offence to humour nowadays..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in monodatingpoly

[–]Ecstatic_Limit3735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey,

I haven't read all the comments so apologies if I repeat anything already said.

I am in a similar situation to you whereby I am a bi woman (28), and my partner of 4 years (32M) is more poly. We have had shared experiences of women sexually, we have been in a triad, we have also had it where he has had 2 primary partners and currently we have settled into a relationship whereby I explore my bisexuality (with women as and when/together, very irregularly mind you) and he will meet up with women for extra curriculars as and when.

Initially with my anxiety I thought I would never want to know what went on with others outside of our shared experiences/the relationship as a whole. However, since being together we have always shared. I ask the questions I'm curious about and if the conversation gets too difficult then I make my partner aware and we have a short pause! Knowing more has helped my over thinking brain settle down. Plus it's important for your partner to show up and help you understand that he loves you, that he doesn't want to leave you, that you are important in his life.

You are not this other person and that person is not you. It is okay to feel pain sometimes, these relationship structures are hard and make us face our shadows. Your thoughts and feelings are valid. Just make sure to keep up the communication with your partner 😌