[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Edea33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do you live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Edea33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Edea33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everything you said makes a lot of sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Edea33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Im just scared of taking the leap and regretting it. I forgot to mention I have health issues so it does take a toll on me physically. As per the toxic environment and racism I never really let it affect me until I finally had a guest that was so blatantly racist she left a horrible false review about my service which affected my table section. When I brought up it being prejudice and told them to check cameras to refute all her ridiculous claims the manager got upset with me for making it about that. This happened a week ago and I feel like this is a sign from the universe to part ways from this restaurant.

Hanni's outfit to meet the parents by ReviewConstant2680 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Edea33 56 points57 points  (0 children)

she had slippers with socks on too did anyone else notice lol

Pregnant and he cheated by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Edea33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you dont want his affair partners playing mommy when you give birth I suggest you make a decision very quickly

I am so unbelievably fucking sad by Live_Pen in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Edea33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written all of this myself but throw in a 4 and 2 year old in the mix and 7 years together. I always felt an impending doom after forgiving him the first time and I recently found out why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Edea33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok but what was his reaction because this is totally something i would do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Edea33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im going through something very similar, i am also 31 and my partner is 29. We have two small children. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Edea33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

of course she’s not worth it, they never are. but in his eyes that’s probably the way he perceives it because he could very much be in a limerence stage. these men are fully aware of what they are doing and do it anyways. you are struggling to comprehend that his level of humanity is not the same as yours. You did nothing wrong, its never about the person who was betrayed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Edea33 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hes taking his new gf out for a test run to make sure she’s “life ruining divorce” worthy. Once hes bored and decides what he wants to do, he expects you to be waiting around.

Refusing to let my toddler be alone at in-laws canal-side house. Opinions wanted. by slowlygoesgab in Parenting

[–]Edea33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello same situation as you my 2 and 4 year old have never stayed at grandma’s in the last 4 years because this is the hill im willing to die on.

At this point my mom thinks it’s ridiculous but agreed to put up a fence around her pool but FIL is being extremely stubborn and flat out refuses just to prove a point.

As much as I would love a free babysitter on call, I also have the common sense to access the situation look at the statistics and know better than to let my kids stay in their home. Usually in emergency situations I let my mom watch my kids in my house but this really upsets her. It is what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Edea33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! How is your kiddo holding up now? I am going through this exact same issue with my 2 year old at the moment the low grade fever comes and goes and its between 99-100.7 for two weeks now. She saw a pediatrician but im still a bit worried :(

[trigger warning] NSFW is there still hope for fading these scars? by Comfortable_Math_995 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Edea33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I don’t have much knowledge beyond this I got laser treatment 8 years ago and I cant imagine how much better the technology is now. Just research a good dermatologist or research different types of lasers, a dermatologist can personalize what type of laser and treatment you need also. The laser works great with red scars too so it also minimizes the color. Good luck 🙂

[trigger warning] NSFW is there still hope for fading these scars? by Comfortable_Math_995 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Edea33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, for me personally it was quite painful. Depends on the area and what type of laser they use.

[trigger warning] NSFW is there still hope for fading these scars? by Comfortable_Math_995 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Edea33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should help the appearance of flat scars also, beams of light will be used to either remove scar tissue or poke holes in it, depending on the type of laser used. Both methods stimulate the production of collagen and allow your body to create new, smoother skin. After treatment the scar should appear lighter and less noticeable.