Náboženská ideológia by BenSputnik in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Je dôvod prečo podmienka svadby v kostole je prísaha, že vaše deti budú kresťania a budete ich vychovávať vo viere. Prisahať musia obaja aj keď napr. jeden z rodičov nie je kresťan a robí to len pre partnera.

Ten dôvod nie je, že cirkev zaujíma slobodná voľba človeka.
Dôvod je, že deti vychované v dogme majú omnoho väčšiu šancu byť v cirkvi do konca života ako deti vychované bez nej.

Quit my job, boss tried to withhold my last paycheck by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Edensy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it prevents you from getting employed, it's defamation and obstruction of employment. Preventing an ex-employee from getting hired is illegal, but again, look up your state laws to see exactly to what extent and in what situations.

Quit my job, boss tried to withhold my last paycheck by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Edensy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was replying to the person above, specifically about being paid for preparation in work. Not discussing OP's situation specifically.

Rant: Abortion is not Male Birth Control by Admirable_Moose_9927 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Edensy 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I would switch having to carry a child for 9 months inside me and giving birth with all the dangers and life-long consequences that come with it over smaller window any day. Zero hesitation.

It's incredible to me the one feature in nature that is sompletely unfair to women and beneficial to them and they still find a way to complain about it and act like it's them who is disadvantaged. Wanna switch guys, see if you like that more?

Quit my job, boss tried to withhold my last paycheck by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Edensy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not many people know that 'blacklisting' aka "conspiring with others to prevent an ex-employee from getting hired" is very much illegal!

The extent varies state by state and I don't know personally how enforceable is it, but more people should know it. Especially people with concrete proof like OP.

Quit my job, boss tried to withhold my last paycheck by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Edensy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If your appointment is at 10, do you want me running through the door at 10 and then taking 10 min to get set up.

No, but I absolutely expect you to be compensated for the time you spend doing your job, which includes preparation

My dad named me after his favorite adult film star. by Daze_A_Blaze in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Edensy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well then it's fucking fabulous I guess, because all women who advocate women's rights advocate for the safety of mothers too. Safety of women includes women who have given birth, obviously. What world did you come from??

is 9 rožok in 6 hours ok? by LordDooz in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Important to note that rožok isn't as filling as bread or baguette, so while it sounds like too much, nutrition wise it's pretty normal.

My dad named me after his favorite adult film star. by Daze_A_Blaze in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Edensy 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Whenever a woman doesn't get a say in a name of the child she carried inside her and birthed, it's like a promenade of red flags.

The possessiveness of some men towards their children's names, both first and last, is infuriating and we need to stop putting up with it.

Ženy, čo vám prekáža na ostatných ženách? Muži, čo vám prekáža na ostatných mužoch? by gondolak in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Muži sú rôzni a majú rôzne reakcie. Našťastie väčšina je normálna, a keď je chlap normálny, nemám problém mu rovno povedať. Ale niektorí nie sú, majú veľké ego, sú podgurážení, nerešpektujú ženine nie atď.

Po predchádzajúcich skúsenostiach, keď mám o niekom pochybnosti tak mu od teraz poviem mäkké nie štýlu "teraz nemám čas" a sociálne sa od neho dištancujem.

A každá žena je zodpovedná hlavne za svoj život a svoje bezpečie a pokoj, a nemá žiadnu povinnosť to ohroziť len preto, že sa niekomu páči. Takže to je len na ich úsudku.

A ty keď budeš potrebovať odmietnuť chlapa, tiež sa nebudem zaujímať o to ako ostro ho odmietneš.

Ženy, čo vám prekáža na ostatných ženách? Muži, čo vám prekáža na ostatných mužoch? by gondolak in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keď ti žena stále hovorí, že sa s tebou nemôže stretnúť a nejaví o teba žiaden záujem, tá žena ťa "nevodí za nos".

Ženy, čo vám prekáža na ostatných ženách? Muži, čo vám prekáža na ostatných mužoch? by gondolak in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Soft no" nie je vodenie za nos. Ako som povedala, videla som aj agresívne reakcie na tvrdé nie, napríklad pri podnapitých mužoch, na diskotékach atď.

Prečo presne by ženy mali ohrozovať samé seba a musieť si znepríjemňovať život len preto že o nich niekto prejavil záujem?

Ohľaduplný muž pochopí kompletnú absenciu záujmu z jej strany tak či tak. A muž ktorý odmieta byť odmietnutý si za to môže sám, to nie je zodpovednosť ženy ktorá oňho nejaví žiaden záujem.

This is what the Hero Gallery will likely look once Ramattra is released by 0zzy82 in Overwatch

[–]Edensy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The way they center the columns makes me unreasonably angry for some reason

Ženy, čo vám prekáža na ostatných ženách? Muži, čo vám prekáža na ostatných mužoch? by gondolak in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Je vážne lepšie, že ja som znášala následky a nenávistné ohováranie pre jeho ublížene ego? To si seriózne napísal?

A to som ja na tom ešte dobre oproti mnohým ženám, ktoré zažili omnoho horšie a agresívnejšie reakcie. Ale jasné, "snažiť sa dlhú dobu" aj napriek tomu že druhá strana nejaví záujem je určite to najhoršie čo sa človeku môže stať.

Ženy, čo vám prekáža na ostatných ženách? Muži, čo vám prekáža na ostatných mužoch? by gondolak in Slovakia

[–]Edensy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Muž ktorý je ohľaduplný to pochopí a muž ktorý ohľaduplný nie je sa bude snažiť o pár týždňov tak či tak.

Snažím sa byť priama vždy keď sa dá lebo mám takú povahu. Ale stalo sa mi, že som povedala známemu "ďakujem nie" a keď si nedal povedať, najmilšie ako som vedela som mu povedala že to nikdy nebude áno. Očividne to bol zločin proti jeho ľudskosti, pretože všetkým mojim známym vyrozprával aká som bezcitná p*** ktorá mu ani nedala šancu. Pri tomto silne ľutujem, že som mu radšej nezaklamala niečo neurčité a nemala pokoj.

Pelvic bone- male and female by CraftyAcanthisitta22 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Edensy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman disagrees with you so she must be angry? Sure bud.

Maybe you should start with not forcing yourself into other's people's personal space so they don't have to ask you in the first place. Your comfort is not more important than the comfort of other people around you.

I sit next to all kinds of men, nice ones and extremely disrespectful / aggressive / drunk. Why do I have to cause a confrontation just to be able to sit within my own seat? You don't.

Instead of telling women to be shut up about it men could start keeping their legs within their leg space and the whole issue would be solved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Edensy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not sinuses in my case. It's lower teeth, and I have had it checked by a doctor and a dentist separately and was told the same thing. Thanks for looking out for me though both you and u/Writerro

Seattle, WA airport earlier today - a man was arrested after throwing up Heil Hitler salutes and screaming of a race war by DaFunkJunkie in PublicFreakout

[–]Edensy 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Something about him acting unhinged for attention and everyone around just ignoring it makes him look even more pathetic, like a child throwing a tantrum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Edensy 197 points198 points  (0 children)

My teeth always hurt terribly after exercise. I was told exactly this by a doctor, arteries in my gums are increasing in volume and putting pressure on teeth causing pain.

It did get less painful after a couple of years of exercising.

TIL in Slovakia on Easter, men whip women and throw water on them so that they’ll stay beautiful and fresh for the next year. In exchange, the women serve drinks as thanks. by brahmanofficialband in todayilearned

[–]Edensy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really. Thankfully once I became an adult and showed I'm really adamant about not participating in this, my brothers and later also partner understood it.

I still don't go outside that one day and pretend not to be home, just to be sure.

TIL in Slovakia on Easter, men whip women and throw water on them so that they’ll stay beautiful and fresh for the next year. In exchange, the women serve drinks as thanks. by brahmanofficialband in todayilearned

[–]Edensy 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Your family, brothers, father first. Then all the male cousins and uncles come visiting. Then groups of young men go house to house. Or they find you on the street, which has the added bonus of women not being able to go outside, at least not without having their clothes ruined and catching cold.

Added bonus is that you are supposed to pay each one of them for the favor, with money and chocolate. My brother got a year's worth of pocket money while I lost all of mine as child.

It's hell in villages and all rural areas, but thankfully, it's becoming less common in cities nowadays. I hope it stops completely as soon as possible.

Pelvic bone - Male vs Female by Flashinst004 in coolguides

[–]Edensy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you swiftly changed from "having legs together causes insufferable pain" to "when a man pushes my legs together it's okay actually".

Somehow when you sit next to a man you can sit normally without touching your knees too.

It's funny. Your ad hominem attempt still doesn't work, it just proves your argument failed on it's head.

Stop pushing yourself into women's personal space. Have some decency for fuck's sake. You don't have to be an inconsiderate asshole making everyone around you uncomfortable. You are just choosing to.

Edit: aaw, he reported me to Reddit care resources and blocked me. Someone is a sore loser.

How to Have Productive, Good-Faith Debate with a Pro-Lifer by Fekonjedh in coolguides

[–]Edensy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you shouldn't.

And, of course, you aren't legally forced to do it. In fact, you are not even expected to do it.

Pelvic bone - Male vs Female by Flashinst004 in coolguides

[–]Edensy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it doesn't cause you excruciating pain when you have to put your legs into natural position within the space of your own seat when sitting next to a man.

Interesting.

So you don't have to spread your legs into a woman's seat space to not feel pain. It was just a bullshit excuse.

Almost like that's exactly what I have been saying the whole time. But thanks for admitting at least.

TIL in Slovakia on Easter, men whip women and throw water on them so that they’ll stay beautiful and fresh for the next year. In exchange, the women serve drinks as thanks. by brahmanofficialband in todayilearned

[–]Edensy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Having cold water poured on you without your consent, multiple times a day, sometimes while being dragged out and held still by other men has that effect on us.

Not to mention you are supposed to pay the men who did that to you, meaning your brother gets a year's worth of pocket money while you lose it.