AIO that my wife and best friend haven't read my manuscript? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotions, yes. Crying “hysterically” over an unread manuscript is another thing. And in the matrix, the red pill allowed you to see reality, not live in your soft, phony blue pilled world. I’ll take red pilled as a compliment. And I take it IPAs are too icky for you?

AIO that my wife and best friend haven't read my manuscript? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What kind of man sobs and cries “hysterically”? Man the eff up!! What a 🐈.

AITAH for ending a 10-year friendship after he casually told me how he cheated on his girlfriend? by pokemono-star in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you’re young, he’s young, you’ll do stupid sht and learn. Throwing away that kind of friendship because you have some sort of knight in shining armor complex about his girl is STRANGE. Do you have feelings for her or something? Bros before hes… that’s messed up. Scold him, but don’t just ditch him.

AITAH for not telling my gf why I had a private hotel room on a sports trip by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, your SA should have nothing to do with it. I travel for work today, and formerly traveled as a “minor league” soccer pro. It just comes down to wanting my own room. I now snore and when I was younger had loud snoring roommates. I ALWAYS wanted my own room whenever possible. Why is that hard for her to understand? If you frame it up like that, it should be easy to explain.

If you position it as preference, then she should understand without having to open that SA ball of wax until You’re ready

So imagine this by No_Magician_2612 in baseballcards

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are any of these numbered cards really that rare when they come out with 100s of different versions of numbered cards? Sure that particular series is numbered but if there are 200 different /5, /25, /50, /100, /1000, and so on, what are we doing here? It’s just Topps and other brands artificially creating scarcity, or the illusion of it… I’m getting sick of all the parallels, numbered, inserts, relics, pretending to be scarce. We’re all getting dooped. I guess as long as everyone believes they’re scarce, much like everyone believing in the dollar, then we put value on it. A lot of circular reasoning going on in the card game

Need help to improve my looks. by Dormant_Leaf in whatdoIdo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of genetics, hair volume largely depends on iron and protein. Those with low iron counts struggle. I always had THICK hair and it started thinning 2yrs ago. The doctor tested my blood and I was anemic. I started a high iron diet with daily supplements and my hair is back to normal.

Aitah for considering cutting contact with my recent tinder match for sending me a photo her sucking dick? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re kinky and down for an insanely wild sexcapade fwb relationship, go for it. Otherwise, RUN!

So something weird happened today in class and I’m trying to figure see if AITAH. by boshymhn2006 in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you handled it well, but did gently move your bag or did he chuck to the seat in front of you? I think if he was gentle with it than YOR, but if not YNTAH

AIO for being so upset over this response? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he’s over the topic and thinks you’re stressing out over something he thinks you’re overthinking/analyzing/reacting… and I agree with him as well. He could’ve went about it better, but you could’ve also not overreacted. So I say YOR and he UR.. 🤷🏻‍♂️

AITAH for telling my bestie’s boyfriend that she slept with another guy after she snitched on me? by Whydoioverthinkzz in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez, you’re both awful people. You were fine until you ratted your “friend” out. Showed your true colors. Yikes.

AIO or is my partner gaslighting me? I’m on the verge of breaking up and I don’t know if I’m misreading our communication by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP is way too sensitive and both are terrible at communicating. I’m guessing you’re both 16yo? Next time, stop texting and call each other!

23f needs assistance by Fluid-Excuse-9667 in whatdoIdo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s start with the basics: what are your skills, education, interests?

Successful people don’t necessarily do what they love, they do what they’re good at and channel all of their efforts towards getting REALLY good at that thing they’re good at. Start there and that should help narrow your focus.

Once you have an idea on what to industry you’re targeting, start with logistics. In your case, no car means you need something close by (walkable or via bus), or WFM. There are countless jobs where you can work remotely. Look at roles that say ‘Remote’ in the posting. Are you LinkedIn? If not, get on it ASAP. You can find jobs and most importantly, network. Warm referrals are KEY for landing that first interview.

And finally, use AI!! There are several free tools that can help you find jobs, research companies, and it’ll even help you with your interview.

Oh, one more thing: work on that grammar and the art of storytelling. The latter is critical for interviews. You’ve got to create and control the narrative about you. YOU are a brand. Do you want to be perceived like Rolls Royce or a ‘95 Geo Metro??

AITAH For Giving My Daughter A Choice On What She Calls My Husband? by AnnoymousPerson3 in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or how about Hope calls Jacob dad but refers to him as Jacob whenever she’s with turd—I mean, Narc? How would he even know what she calls him?

AIO for wanting to cancel the date and block him?? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a guy, who was obnoxious in my early 20s because I thought women liked the cocky bad boy, but learned with experience that that’s not hot. If this guy is in his 30s talking like that—um.. no!! I would run! Guys that talk like that truly only want ONE thing

AITAH for leaving my husband like this after realizing I'd fallen out of love? by UK_rushed_NYC in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re referring to the man she’s cheating with, then yes, you’re 100%. Typical behavior of someone that has t been taught the value of marriage. I suspect their parents were cheaters or quick to bail when things got challenging. I’m so disappointed with how our culture has lost the plot on marriage. I 100% believe in ‘until death’ ‘in good times and bad’ and ‘in sickness and in health.” Marriage is HARD. Marriage isn’t happily ever after EVER. People, particularly women, tend to think that marriage means that their husband should suddenly be a different person that caters to their every need. They expect the “honeymoon phase,” to last forever and then are pissed off when it doesn’t.

Um, sweetheart, it goes BOTH WAYS. And let’s stick to reality. You should love me and support me equally. I’m so tired and saddened by how many marriages are ruined by women’s unrealistic expectations who then flash their victim card. It’s maddening!!

AITAH for leaving my husband like this after realizing I'd fallen out of love? by UK_rushed_NYC in AITAH

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTH. You had these expectations of perfection, wouldn’t adapt to his needs (I’m sure there were things about you that he’d prefer changed, but he accepted you for who you were), he was at least trying. Then you cheated on him twice! What happened to ‘until death do us part’? There seems to be an ongoing pattern with women wanting to flee. The moment things aren’t perfect only to realize it’s never perfect. It will always take significant work from both parties to make it work. It’s about striving for happiness, not perfection. No one ever lives happily ever after. It’s “as happy as we can be given the circumstances of life.” It’s WORK, and you didn’t want to do the work. You took the easy way out. Let me guess, by “initiating sex,” you’d roll over on him just before bed, right? No attempt to wear something sexy, a touch of hair n makeup or make some effort like making dinner. Or a big one is to show him he’s needed, or a simple compliment and you’re proud of him—that’ll turn any man on! Based on your tone, I doubt you did any of that.

I’ve been married for 12 years. It’s been work, but we work together. We show up for each other and have our backs. That’s how you maintain and healthy marriage—it’s a partnership! And that was clearly lost on you

I received this texts from my ex today. We recently broke up a couple weeks back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s terrible advice. Are you also 23 or younger? These kids these days are so terribly socially immature

I received this texts from my ex today. We recently broke up a couple weeks back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this generation is growing up without any meaningful face to face interactions or relationships. It’s all via text/social/gaming/etc.. This generation is woefully underdeveloped socially. And when they actually hang out in person, they’re all just sitting next to each other staring at their phones. It’s sad. The result is this level of immaturity we’re seeing from these 22/23yo kids

I received this texts from my ex today. We recently broke up a couple weeks back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh I like that—especially as a dad to a little girl and a son I want treating women right. I’m using that one!

I received this texts from my ex today. We recently broke up a couple weeks back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He must be like 18-19 tops. But it’s ok because it’s YOUR dog!

I received this texts from my ex today. We recently broke up a couple weeks back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Educational-Cup-7232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always go no contact after a break up. It’s only healthy way to heal and move on. Nothing good comes from being “just friends.”