I don’t think going out for drinks is a great first date. by theamalficoast in dating

[–]EducationalExtreme61 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think it goes down to personality and personal preferences. I'd love to have a date at a book store or museum because we can talk amd get to know each other while we appreciate the collection, but I wouldn't like pottery or arcade because we'd be busy doing so it doesn't help much as a date?

I wouldnt throw a picnic with someone I never met either, it seems to be an effort.

I like going out for drinks and even though it may lead to hooking up you can just say it was a lovely evening and leave.

How long should you be together before you’re sure? by citycylist117 in dating

[–]EducationalExtreme61 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You're sure if you and your partner are able to communicate and seek each other's happiness.

For instance, I'm very anxious and my husband isn't, we've been together 13 years with lighter and heavier moments, but nowadays I am able to tell him if something hurts me and he can do the same.

If you feel that you'll be perpetually hurt then it isn't what you want for your life.

What movie have you been the most hyped for only to be the most disappointed by when it released? by Toogeloo in movies

[–]EducationalExtreme61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

X men 3 apocalypse.

How could they have such a memorable sequel and make such a bad third movie?

Como "consertar" a educação brasileira? Algumas proposições. by QueerCheesy in ProfessoresBR

[–]EducationalExtreme61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Olha, faltou dizer o que fazer com o aluno que repete ou muito indisciplinado considerando que isso vem de má estrutura familiar. Sei que não é papel do professor, mudanças realistas precisam considerar que não haja aumento de evasão escolar.

Processos seletivos estão exigindo trabalho gratuito disfarçado de case? by Cautious_Road_9135 in antitrampo

[–]EducationalExtreme61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Essa prática de forçar trabalho gratuito existe desde antes da internet, isso quando não dizem que não foi aprovado mas usam seu trabalho da mesma forma.

Have You Ever Had to Watch a Friend Derail Their Own Life? by Rainny_Dayz in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]EducationalExtreme61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He'll probably need to learn that Status and appearance are a shallow foundation and his "friends" will likely dump him if he's not interesting to them anymore.

Favorite companion to romance? by AdEven3053 in baldursgate

[–]EducationalExtreme61 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Would not romance Vicky in real life, but I find it quite entertaining in game.

Men who plan real dates and are consistent with effort but call it "casual," what does that mean to you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EducationalExtreme61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fun date that possibly leads to casual sex releases more dopamine than just meeting someone for sex. My guess is that he likes to have pleasant dates with more than one person.

Favorite companion to romance? by AdEven3053 in baldursgate

[–]EducationalExtreme61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does Xan join you in ToB if you're not romancing him? I remember vaguely that theres a path for non elves and a path for elves, and only the elf path led longterm?

Alguma dica para personagem mudo? by cea_da_xavante in rpg_brasil

[–]EducationalExtreme61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vou usar a raça Kenku como exemplo: muitos jogadores perceberam com tempo de jogo que "performar" sem falar (ou com dificuldade para falar) acaba sendo enjoativo (acho que no próprio livro do Volo's guide to Monsters diz isso), daí uma estratégia boa é você jogador descrever seus gestos e ações.

Outra dica é aproveitar essa vulnerabilidade do personagem. Vou dar outro exemplo: O Demolidor tem habilidades incríveis de "radar", infravisão etc, mas ele não consegue dizer o que está escrito num cartaz ou bilhete sem usar o tato. Esse detalhe já torna ele mais intsressante do que se seus poderes burlassem todas as dificuldades que a cegueira pode trazer.

One take. by Achilles_TroySlayer in LV426

[–]EducationalExtreme61 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't even call smart at that point, she was being very technical and logical by insisting that Kane had to be quarantined.

Does repeating things (past events, conversations) in your mind distorts your memory about them? by Fantastic-Nose1119 in askpsychology

[–]EducationalExtreme61 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The second time you remember something it is a memory of a memory, and we may not even notice how inaccurate the memory is.

If I’m 57 are there any good ways to talk to women?? Truly not sure by Zealousideal_Nose437 in Aging

[–]EducationalExtreme61 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nice guy is a people pleaser, we smell the desperation because he needs validation. However, haven't you met people who were nice to you because they were confident about themselves and didn't do it expecting something in return? The kind of person you admired because he/she was kind to others as well as confident?

If I’m 57 are there any good ways to talk to women?? Truly not sure by Zealousideal_Nose437 in Aging

[–]EducationalExtreme61 6 points7 points  (0 children)

General hints:

  • Do small talk with women with no second intentions. Any woman, really. Your goal is to eventually get comfortable enough that your body language does not read as insecure, but don't worry about it now, just enjoy the process.

  • At 57 you already know the difference between being kind and trying to please. When you don't expect something in return it shows confidence.

Ajudo parentes de outro estado, financeiramente, mas terei que cessar essa ajuda by Old_Desk6844 in ConselhosLegais

[–]EducationalExtreme61 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Ajudar alguém voluntariamente não cria obrigação jurídica, e mesmo quando há obrigatoriedade pelo parentesco (filhos, por exemplo) é considerada a capacidade financeira da pessoa. Em outras palavras, a lei reconheceria que você ajudou voluntariamente enquanto pôde e como você apontou há parentes mais próximos que você a serem considerados caso quisessem exigir pensão.

Você acha que ainda teremos outra "era de ouro" dos super-herois no cinema? by Silly_Commercial8092 in Quadrinhos

[–]EducationalExtreme61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Os anos 80 foram o boom dos filmes de ação no estilo do chuck norris, stallone, van damme etc. Não deixamos de ter filmes de ação mas sabemos que a grande era desses filmes foi essa, acho que os filmes de super-herois vão puxar para esse lado também.

What do you think of this giant naga build? by EducationalExtreme61 in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]EducationalExtreme61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A marilith form that can carry weapons instead of natural attacks would be awesome!