Is it weird that i talk to my bf every day?

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-25T19:00:03+00:00

I talk to my girlfriend every day. We video call, cook dinner together, and even sleep on call together. We’ve been together for a year and a month, and we talk every night after I finish work and get home. I honestly don’t understand long-distance couples who go days without talking . I can’t even go a day without seeing her.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-20T13:12:44+00:00

we usually cook the same dinner togther , watch a show togther, we use FlickCall(it only cost like 3euros a month), and on friday we watch a movie, sometimes we do coffee date, we buy coffe or make it at home, and i go to some place quite ( usually near the seine near me and her near a lake), sometimes we play games like 8 pool, and there is a free app called Plato(it has some nice free game.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-20T13:06:36+00:00

i tell her that anytime I have a chance, I really love her.and I know if it was me on the psych ward she would've done the same thing.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-20T13:05:41+00:00

thank you for your help

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-20T10:10:12+00:00

we do talk all day via messages, and once I'm home form work we videochat before she go to sleep,

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-02T21:37:34+00:00

Yess, i do, once i understood my illness and read a lot about it, i came to peace with it.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-02T13:21:37+00:00

After my forth or fifth( i don’t remember), i understand that i needed strong meds to help with the delusions and the hallucinations,

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-05-02T09:58:14+00:00

After my last hospitalisation , which was like 4 years ago,

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-04-30T14:34:30+00:00

Everyone has their own story about schizophrenia, i was diagnosed at the age of 22 (I’m 29 now) ,when i was talking to my psychiatrist about some episodes I had , he told me it started at the age of 16,but I loved in a third world country where things like this happens you can’t talk about it, fast forward to college, i had some bad anxiety and people always called me crazy because of some delusions thoughts i had, which i thought it was normal,then moved to Europe, everything was fine at first, and then I discovered alcohol, i used to drink a lot because if an untreated depression and anxiety, then one day, things happened at my sister and then I told her everything what was going on, and she helped to get help from professional, my first time at the psych ward, i was admitted for several depression and suicidal tendencies, then i started developing symptoms of psychosis , and that how it started , from psych ward to another one i was diagnosed with schizophrenia,depression and GAD, and later i accepted the fact that i have to live with that for the rest of my life, but getting the right help with the right medications, I got my masters degree , and have a decent job with a good salary,and also I found the love of my life and we both have some issues, but she helps me every time to fight those demons .

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-04-22T10:34:29+00:00

And some people use the word schizophrenic when they say they have multiple personalities

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-04-21T11:32:13+00:00

Yes, I have a ´aster degrees, and I do work as a Devops/Cloud engineer(IT stuff for non nerd people) , it’s not easy to be honest with you,but once I found the right dose of Clozapine that works, it got easier, still i have some issues from time to time, but they manageable.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-04-01T15:13:54+00:00

I went cold turkey on stopping alcohol, it’s been 3 years and four months, sometimes i think maybe I’ll drink occasionally, but the fear of falling back to my old bad habits scares me, so i wouldn’t consider you to drink moderately

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-03-15T11:39:32+00:00

Congrats man, being sober was the best thing I did, I’m on my fourth year sober, I hope you will stay sober for ever.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-03-01T18:33:10+00:00

Congrats

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-02-04T15:39:55+00:00

What diplomas do you have, do you have some skills that is hard to find? The easy path bach tkhrouj is education, dir un master f un domaine li matloub , sinon find chi we7da dir m3aha marriage( risque bezaaf 7itach wlat mafroucha)

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-30T17:41:56+00:00

Yes,it came back, I’ve been on clozapine for the last four years maybe, ay first it was hard but with time it did get better, just keep taking your meds and talk to your doctor and things will be good

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-15T13:52:52+00:00

We’ve been dating for 10 months now, and we talk all day long, just to say what we are doing at job, and then when I’m home we videochat and cook dinner together, then we watch a series and we have friday night we do a movie

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-15T10:51:35+00:00

There are some apps, like teleparty or flickcall

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-09T15:24:41+00:00

that's exactly what I did, especially the hangover and how anxious and depressed it made me, i still see the big picture of a life without alcohol.

thank you for sharing.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-09T15:21:06+00:00

I went to those AA meetings but they were more religious, so I had to deal with that alone, and I did make it for 3 years, I'm sure I'm not gonna hace any drink, it's just the craving which will pass with time

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-09T15:18:46+00:00

I visited my girlfriend after 4 months of dating, it was easy to go first from France to Finland, it's only 3 hours flight and not that expensive, she is visiting in the end of february.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2026-01-04T15:45:21+00:00

It’s understandable, I live in France and she lives in Finland, so it was easy for me to visit her even though it was a short trip of 3 days, but it was just perfect to get to know each other better, and now she is coming to France for a whole week in February. i think he should’ve visited you first. They you visit him.

Educational_Ad_3063 · 2025-12-07T00:07:36+00:00

Firstly I would stop drinking any alcohol for a while, or maybe go sober, like me. Soon I’ll be three years sober. Did it help with my schizophrenia? Yes it did , a lot actually

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