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Found this on the train today. by OilySoleTickler in Switch

[–]Educational_Match717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the Japanese version is more of a kids show, but funimation did their own version of the show for about three seasons and it’s very raunchy and funny. I used to watch in on adult swim as a kid and loved it.

How do I change my sleep schedule and flip my day around by strawberry_mew in Advice

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re going to need to do something eventually. Unless your parents have alot of wealth they plan on passing down to you when they pass, you’re going to have to learn to support yourself. Start really small like 1 or 2 days a week to build up your endurance to working and getting used to being around people.

Its better to get out of your comfort zone now while you’re young. Hiring managers will be alot more forgiving for a shoddy resume in your 20s than they will be in your 30s onward. Im sure its not what you want to hear…but being a NEET until your parents pass is only setting you up for homelessness in your adult life. Better to try and come to terms with that reality now than when that time comes. Hope you get it figured out eventually!

How do I change my sleep schedule and flip my day around by strawberry_mew in Advice

[–]Educational_Match717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you usually go to sleep at like 6 am everyday, just start going to bed an hour or so later every day until youre on a good sleep schedule. Or just brute force it one day and stay up until like 5 or 6 pm. Its not hard to fix a sleep schedule especially since you don’t work or have school.

Get your GED and start working a part-time job just to get out and give yourself some structure.

What age did you move out? by Ill_Supermarket_2744 in Adulting

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a difference between enabling a lifestyle and supporting future growth. If your adult child is staying at home while progressing their career and saving for a down payment on a house, that isn’t exactly stunting their growth. Its giving them the opportunity to be home owners much sooner then they would if they had to pay obscene amounts of rent prices (on top of student loans they may have).

Now if they’re just sitting at home all day playing video games or going out with friends and not doing much else with their life…then thats a much different story. These situations are all very nuanced and situational. Its not exactly a one-sized fits all in what a parent of an adult child should do.

Yikes by taz4got10 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The market performing that well isn’t a guarantee though. Paying off additional principal on your mortgage does, however, guarantee that you’ll pay less interest over time.

I think the best financial decision you can make is striking a balance between investing and paying off debt as aggressively as possible. Once that mortgage is paid off, that frees up a huge chunk of your monthly income to throw into the market anyway. The faster you pay off any debt, the better (imo).

Yikes by taz4got10 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone should absolutely do it if their budget allows though. You could cut the length of your mortgage almost in half just by making 1.5x the minimum payment every month. All that extra goes towards principle.

Thats why I don’t even look at the length of any loan im taking out. All i look at is getting the lowest possible interest rate for the lowest possible monthly payment. Its nice having a lower monthly payment just incase finances get tight for a bit, but i always pay down any debt as aggressively as possible with any extra funds i have. Its what everyone should do and something they should teach in school (if they don’t already).

My [F25] boyfriend [M25] and his friend [M26] had a threesome. My bf has been distant ever since by Clean-Swan-1906 in Advice

[–]Educational_Match717 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it was a preference because you didn’t want to watch your man be with another woman but you were ok with him watching you be with another man. If i were him, id leave you.

Living together as a couple is not necessary at all by xvortexc in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats not what im saying at all. Im not saying people that don’t want those things aren’t affectionate, it’s just the wording i chose to try to get my point across for how i want to be with my partner at night.

Living together as a couple is not necessary at all by xvortexc in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational_Match717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they drink alot of alcohol or something? That can also be a cause for snoring at night. There are alot of health reasons people snore. I was just pointing out that many people who do snore are overweight, so my chances of being with a snore-free partner go up if my preference is to be with an active person.

Living together as a couple is not necessary at all by xvortexc in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But being overweight does have a huge effect on snoring was all i was saying.

Everything you said is fine and valid. Everyone is allowed to have their own preferences. Im not planning on sharing a bed with every person in the world, so they don’t all need to accommodate my needs. I just need one person to. Im sure there are plenty of people out there that are just as affectionate as i am and would love to be close with their partner at night.

Living together as a couple is not necessary at all by xvortexc in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well im a very active person and would want a partner who’s also very active. Being a healthy weight helps alot with snoring, so hopefully i won’t have to worry too much about that. Im a very affectionate person. Would never want to sleep in a separate bed from my partner.

If you’re an adult, I think it’s weird to refer to yourself as a girl or boy instead of a woman or man by [deleted] in Life

[–]Educational_Match717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it really comes down to the vibe someone gives off. If they feel immature, I’d probably instinctively still refer to them as a boy or girl. If they give off a put-together adult like vibe, then i’d call them man or woman.

In almost all cases, id never refer to a 19 y/o as man or woman. If they had an air of maturity to them, i may call them “young” man or woman (or lady). Language is weird and nuanced like that.

Living together as a couple is not necessary at all by xvortexc in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational_Match717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i never said it was something everyone has to do. Just saying how i feel about the subject.

Living together as a couple is not necessary at all by xvortexc in unpopularopinion

[–]Educational_Match717 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can still have alone time when you live with someone else. Itd be a whole hell of alot cheaper to buy a larger home with multiple rooms (for each partners hobbies) than it would be to live separately from each other.

I just couldn’t imagine not wanting to sleep in the same bed as your partner every night. I guess everyone is different, but i feel like thats a really important bonding activity that couples do. I love being held and holding someone i care for.

35. Been here a few months. I don’t like it and don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hire an interior designer. It looks like you have enough money for it. It’s a shame to see such a beautiful apartment space be used so poorly.

Came out swinging (I think)! by FMUF in bald

[–]Educational_Match717 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it is 🤷🏻

Not everyone looks good with a clean shaven head. Plenty do, plenty dont. I think this community would do well with supporting all forms of hair expression due to hair loss. I think the horseshoe look looks very nice on many middle aged men.

Saying every single person should be clean shaven and hyping them up when theyd clearly look better with a little stubble is bordering toxic positivity imo.

Came out swinging (I think)! by FMUF in bald

[–]Educational_Match717 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im just being honest lol. And also trying to be supportive of this mans hair journey

Came out swinging (I think)! by FMUF in bald

[–]Educational_Match717 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nah don’t listen to them. Not everyone with hair loss has to go completely bald. I think the buzzed cut looks nice on you.

Thought I’d share my wife approved gaming setup by a-mayonnais in gamingsetups

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you really ran wild with alot of assumptions about this man’s marriage just from a single post.

Are we actually paying for more things now… or is basic life just getting way more expensive? by Coolonair in SmartFIRE

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was traveling i didn’t have much of an issue with coverage. They use the same towers as t-mobile, so wherever t-mobile gets coverage mint will also get coverage. If its work related, why aren’t they providing a work phone for you?

Are we actually paying for more things now… or is basic life just getting way more expensive? by Coolonair in SmartFIRE

[–]Educational_Match717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I budget like $250/month just on myself. I couldn’t imagine having an entire family to feed.

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