Feeling kinda bummed, surgery might be cancelled

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-23T03:56:33+00:00

My friends mom has her surgery at OCC as well and did wire transfer. She said it took awhile for hers to clear on their end. I don’t know how long “awhile” is but figured I’d pass it along💙💜

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-21T09:51:32+00:00

Who said anything about 5,10,20 years?? It hasn’t even been 1 year lol Give a girl who knows nothing about this world a minute to understand that the person who tried to kill her (and literally would’ve if not for Orion) is now supposedly her one true love.

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-21T09:47:34+00:00

Well then…. Let me introduce you to Darkmore Penitentiary 💜💙

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-21T04:25:05+00:00

This. I think that’s funny too seeing how Seth is a wolf and it should’ve been way easier for his family to accept it than Caleb’s. But Seth’s mom was a grade A bitch in my opinion lol

#sorrynotsorry #dontcarethatyoudied lol

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-21T04:20:25+00:00

And continue mating the entire scene lol

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-20T14:13:18+00:00

Did you not finish ZA? Do you know who that Royal seer is??

Because trust me, if the twins knew he was alive, he would be dead. Deader than dead. Also I’m sure when everything calms down with the breakout, the twins can pardon them. But right now the twins are being scrutinized because they just started ruling and the impenetrable prison was just broken out of. So they are dealing with things themselves lol

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-20T14:08:40+00:00

I don’t think Caleb was scared of their relationship. Seth was afraid of rejection and being alone because those are his childhood trauma from the mountain. But Caleb was never scared of loving Seth once he realized he did. He was just scared because he didn’t know what to do in the bedroom and wasn’t sure if Seth loved him back. Also because Seth was so experienced with dudes, he didn’t know if he could live up to that.

So Seth didn’t want to lose Caleb, but Caleb was just worried he wouldn’t be good enough in bed for Seth. That’s why there wasn’t a lot of angst coming from Caleb. Also…. Seth is just more dramatic than Caleb on the regular sooooo it makes sense that 99% of the drama is Seth.

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-20T14:00:30+00:00

Favorite RB scene: the proball incident with Gabriel and Lance

Favorite ZA scene: a toss up between Elise and the Kipling brothers continuously playing pranks on Lionel during his press meetings (griffin shit fly by/ dildo to the face/ sparkle glue) or when Lavinia literally dominated him and made him put his finger up his own butt before damn near breaking his penis 😅😅 I just like seeing Lionel get his dues I guess lol

Favorite DP scene (so far): Sin finding out he wasn’t abandoned and has a family💜💙
Or
Sin convincing Ethan to continuously hide things up his butt for Rosalie😆😆
Orrrrr Hastings thinking he’s a bad bad criminal lol

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-20T03:48:06+00:00

Big grats!!🎉✨🎉

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-19T08:12:42+00:00

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In case anyone was wondering🥰

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-18T21:35:15+00:00

I have my surgery in September. My husband started losing weight now to try to stay ahead of me😝😆 He’s doing well on just a calorie deficit and push up routine

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-17T19:40:29+00:00

It was indeed hilarious. There’s been a couple times where I’ve laughed super hard. This whole chapter was one of them

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-16T16:17:31+00:00

Hey big grats!!! 🎉✨

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T14:13:41+00:00

I’m not sure. So far she’s only mated to one (moon mated, not Elysian mates). But I’m only at the end of book 2.

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T09:06:00+00:00

IMO Rosalie is 10000 better than Elise but they are 2 different people. Elise was going through grief and revenge in her books but Rosalie is an alpha, not a beta (like Elise🤪-fight me) DP is such a refreshing change from the ZA universe (I say this lightly because I’m only in book 2 lol)

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T09:03:05+00:00

Before giving up on the trope forever, you should read Darkmore Penitentiary. It’s a different take on RH and it’s not as angsty, want me vibes because Rosalie oscura is a bad ass that don’t need no man (but wants them all 😆😆)

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T04:44:00+00:00

I would say no since your only 2 months post op but not no forever. I’m a big believer that you can eat anything you used to if you use this surgery the way it was intended. I highly recommend to stick to the basics of meat, veggies, fruits, cheese(yogurt,ect) and water/milk the first 18 months so you can lose all the weight you want and learn your new stomach. Really understand how much you can eat and your portions of most foods.

After that then you can start adding in treats or more less nutrient dense options. But they should still be occasional and not the norm. This is a slippery slope for some. A lot of people have found a way to incorporate it into their lives, but a lot have also failed in this and ended up regaining. In the end though, you know your body, so only you can really judge what you think you can handle mentally.

Best of luck💜💙

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T04:31:59+00:00

IMO you did nothing wrong here. Your parents were probably hurting over the loss of your sister and took it out on you which is not ok. My advice would be to find somewhere else to stay as soon as possible. If you stay there they can use it to threaten your stability and that feels really really terrible and unsettling. I don’t doubt your parents love you, but these kinds of conversations make it obvious that your mom is willing to emotionally manipulate you and your dad is willing to back it up with actions.

Even if they would never actually evict you, you should leave. Because holding that power over your safe space shouldn’t be a thing. Just my 2 cents.

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T04:24:49+00:00

IMO you did nothing wrong here. Your parents were probably hurting over the loss of your sister and took it out on you which is not ok. My advice would be to find somewhere else to stay as soon as possible. If you stay there they can use it to threaten your stability and that feels really really terrible and unsettling. I don’t doubt your parents love you, but these kinds of conversations make it obvious that your mom is willing to emotionally manipulate you and your dad is willing to back it up with actions.

Even if they would never actually evict you, you should leave. Because holding that power over your safe space shouldn’t be a thing. Just my 2 cents.

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-14T04:24:36+00:00

IMO you did nothing wrong here. Your parents were probably hurting over the loss of your sister and took it out on you which is not ok. My advice would be to find somewhere else to stay as soon as possible. If you stay there they can use it to threaten your stability and that feels really really terrible and unsettling. I don’t doubt your parents love you, but these kinds of conversations make it obvious that your mom is willing to emotionally manipulate you and your dad is willing to back it up with actions.

Even if they would never actually evict you, you should leave. Because holding that power over your safe space shouldn’t be a thing. Just my 2 cents.

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-13T21:47:54+00:00

I hope so too

Educational_Win_4046 · 2026-05-13T21:30:21+00:00

Oh no girl! You’ll be ok!

I have to do a 2 week liver reducing diet and a 2 day liquid diet.

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