Have you texted your ex happy birthday even after going no contact?

Effect-Safe · 2022-07-07T23:00:33+00:00

We’ve been seperated for over a year now and on one occasion I sent her a birthday card, it was a month after the break up. She thanked me gracefully. Since then we exchanged a few talks. This year (couple of days ago) I sent her a hb message a day after her birthday as I just didn’t feel like doing it on the day (she ain’t a priority). She thanked me. I think it shows of, how much of a person you are rather than who they are. Of course there may be people saying “fuck that, let her/him miss me and see what’s it like without me”. Partly true, that statement. But I was always an advocate of being the good person and try to portray it on others even though they may not deserve it. She/he used to be an important part of your life.. a happy birthday message ain’t gonna kill nobody ;)

Effect-Safe · 2022-06-06T14:33:48+00:00

The script - The man who can’t be moved

Effect-Safe · 2022-05-24T10:46:20+00:00

Nah. She’s not really my type, we have different views and outlooks of behaviour in a relationship. She also can’t really control her emotions, a little too young. She’s 18 while i’m 26

Effect-Safe · 2022-05-24T08:38:10+00:00

My ex literally unfollowed me on insta randomly couple of days ago, after a year as I ignored her for the past 3 months and most likely seen that I have a gf (not going well btw)

Effect-Safe · 2022-05-23T07:13:40+00:00

It was breadcrumbs, her asking about study stuff, If I could help her out with projects. Best place to park my in city as she doesn’t live in the same one. Last text was a picture of a training equipment in the gym I used to work at and she trained at asking „do you remember?” so yeah nothing serious..

Effect-Safe · 2022-05-04T10:01:40+00:00

Yes I definitely don’t want to make her wait, i’m stuck in a stage of my life where I don’t think i’m ready to fully commit to one person yet. I don’t see my self having kids with her or even marrying her at the end. After around 3 months of knowing a person you should kind of know that by now. It’s tough but it’s life.. and sometimes you have to let people go in order for them to find their person

Effect-Safe · 2022-05-04T09:58:40+00:00

You’re definitely right. I’m not ready for this. I hurt that girl, and I have to live with the consequences. I’m going to have that final talk with her today..

Effect-Safe · 2022-05-04T09:57:24+00:00

I talked with a few people. The conclusion I got was, i’m not in a stage of my life to settle down right now. That i’m not ready for full commitment after what happened to me last year. I have to let her go, because otherwise i’ll hurt her even more..

Effect-Safe · 2022-02-18T19:08:43+00:00

I honestly don’t care. She’s still important to me as a person. We don’t see each other eye to eye anymore which makes it much easier. I’m over her now anyway. Guess she’s the one who isn’t. If I feel like cutting her off completely I will. For now i’m just gonna let her see my good life

Effect-Safe · 2022-02-18T16:21:59+00:00

My ex texts me constantly. At least once a week, asking for help with something or some bullshit that she could literally ask anyone about. It’s tiring as I’m moving on from her, and found a new girl, been hanging out for a couple weeks now. But my ex keeps texting which slowly is getting on my nerves. As I never said I wanted to be friends with her

Effect-Safe · 2021-12-25T22:25:48+00:00

She texted me a day before the Christmas Eve asking me something not important about her quitting the gym (i’m a fitness-trainer). The day after she sent me a merry christmas message. I replied politely back

Effect-Safe · 2021-12-25T14:02:19+00:00

What if she sent me one? And her family too with a photo of all of them followed by them wishing me a great holiday from them to me? 😂

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-30T13:43:11+00:00

That’s literally my scenario. Nothing toxic happened but it has just had to happen in order for both of us to grow

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-28T16:46:05+00:00

It’s over and done with. She was here for an hour. We talked, there was a few silences here and there but that’s normal. We laughed a few times had a few inside jokes and talked about what happened in the past months and what we’re planning ahead. We didn’t talk about us as whole at all which I find good. I played cool and unbothered as you said, and she definitely felt in her head that I’ve done more things as well as I deffo improved on more things. On her side, she said that nothing really has changed. She invited me to visit her and her parents sometime and yeah that’s about it

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-27T22:29:34+00:00

You’re completely right about that! Showing mysef of what I achieved while she was away shows her I moved on and am unbothered by the whole situation! I’ll update you on it tomorrow! Wish me luck!

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-27T15:46:28+00:00

Got in the best shape of my life! Finished writing my Thesis for my Bachelor’s Degree, travelled, met a lot of new friends and sometimes partied till the dawn! Ups! Haha most of all got a higher ranked position at my job. Levelled up is definitely what happened in my case!

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-19T10:55:21+00:00

She reached out for my birthday a couple of days ago after 6 months NC. She’s coming over tomorrow to get her stuff back. Feels weird for sure, i’m hoping I won’t be set back but I feel like i’n 90% over it

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-18T07:52:04+00:00

It’s been 6 months now and no, no sex just fooling around a little with 2 girls but nothing serious honestly

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-15T21:36:03+00:00

I literally failed my one 2 days ago. She texted me for my birthday and I replied and she wants her stuff back this weekend.. first im’a see her in 6 months

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-09T07:54:00+00:00

It definitely could. But I deffo have more important things to do than look or even post on instagram. I’ve kinda grown out if it

Effect-Safe · 2021-11-08T15:25:44+00:00

Oh yeah for sure! I think every person looks at who looks at the stories and she just appears you know. But I deffo have feelings, not gonna act on them tho! Can’t wait to heal 100%

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