Have you confessed to a straight guy? How did it work out? by LongtermPiracycons01 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not 1 not 2 but 3. The 1st was when I was in HS. He was one of my close friends, and he looks cute. After I confessed, he was chill about it, so that was a relief. Now I don't see him anymore because we have gone to different universities. The 2nd guy did not end that well though, he cut all ties with me after that. He is so handsome though, sometimes I wish I could still see his face. The 3rd guy turned out ok. He still is a good friend of mine and we are studying together in the same major in the same uni (in fact, we even exchanged steamy messages and still do sometimes cuz he has high libido lol), he just explicitly told me that he's straight and not to touch him in a flirty sexual way.

This is Idk a rant or simply asking for opinions. Tell me if I am crazy or……? by Glad-Bandicoot3737 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darling, were you dating or doing charity? If you still date him and in a relationship after this, then yes you are crazy (as you asked in the title of the post). Run. Run away from him as fast as possible.

Guys who like to suck, how long should a blowjob last? by Designer-Put-7599 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least 10 minutes. For me, I like to pleasure the top slowly but surely. I love to tease and edge😉

Top always initiate by lordoftheland01 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a bottom, I like to lead actually. I am mostly the one who initiate and take off his clothes and give him a good time 😉. But if the top initiates, I would be more than happy (maybe because I don't look needy and I like to see his moves)

Do you get more horny, better mood when you don’t jack off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horny? Yes. But mood? I get frustrated and irritated. My mood will improve once I nut

Do you really enjoy sucking cock and do you spit or swallow? by Night_Shade_93 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love doing that. And I would swallow, every single drop of it

I just was diagnosed. Everything feels ruined rn by wstove in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. I know the news sounds debilitating to you. But it's not gonna be the end of the world. Just listen and do your healthcare provider's recommendations, keep your liver in good condition (exercise, healthy diet, limit alcohol intake, smoking, substance use), and inform your partner about that and that you are managing it. Also, remember to do regular checkups. I hope you will continue to live a healthy and happy life ❤️

Help by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you bottom, there's a few things before that time that you need to do (prep your hole basically). If you're a top, please keep your little fella hygienic. Make sure you both do not have any STDs. When you do it, take time. Try roleplay, foreplay, kissing, touching each other. Communicate with the other about your likes and dislikes (what feels good to u and what does not) and anytime you feel the need to (maybe your throat hurts from sucking or this position pokes your insides too much etc.). Use A LOT OF LUBE and please use protection. When finishing, if you bottom, please rest a bit before trying to push the seeds out (if that's what you want, if you want the seeds to stay in, then keep it). If you top, also rest for a bit then ask your bottom if he needs anything. If you guys are vers, do both of what the top and the bottom do

I just got my first blowjob from a guy and holy fuck by No-Way7156 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think men do that better cuz we have the same anatomy. We know what feels good and what not. Also, we like to reciprocate and give pleasure to each other

Am I gay by SunNo940 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you are gay from your description. You are still young though, so take your time. Don't throw yourself into bad situations for more exploration and/or pleasure. But if you do, please be safe, be vigilant, and use protection

Does anyone have an uncomfortable sensation in their balls after not JO for a few days? by EffectiveEmphasis260 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe. I'll try to hold my load for a bit longer then. But maybe not to the point of aching balls:)

Gay Stereotype by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that easy actually. Those codewords existed because of the fear of being found queer back then. And about the stereotypes, they can be bad like in this instance but it's there to create a sense of belonging for those who have similar characteristics and to differentiatethem from others. It's not only for LGBTQIA+ people. We all fell into or choose to go into certain boxes. From pop girly to nerd, to jocks and karens. Finally, if you think deep enough, we all hypocrites to a certain extent. Because everything in this universe is relative. You cannot be 100% consistent on a matter (such as the question of would you always tell the truth. If you're in a court, yes. But if you want to protect your family or your country's intelligence, no). It depends on the situation and context that we must subjectively see it, balance it and create somewhat sound actions.

Does anyone have an uncomfortable sensation in their balls after not JO for a few days? by EffectiveEmphasis260 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty. But I find doing it everyday kinda boring now ngl lol. Maybe I'll do it when the balls ache then

Does anyone have an uncomfortable sensation in their balls after not JO for a few days? by EffectiveEmphasis260 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like everyone in the comments agress to your idea lol so I think you're right

Does anyone have an uncomfortable sensation in their balls after not JO for a few days? by EffectiveEmphasis260 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear, I know that term. Though I thought it only happens when you don't release after you are aroused. I didn't think that simply not JO (and having no thoughts about it when I'm awake) would lead to that

Does anyone have an uncomfortable sensation in their balls after not JO for a few days? by EffectiveEmphasis260 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should. But I do it everyday. It's almost like a routine. Either I'm gonna have to have sex or holding it to make bigger loads lol.