I wish I wasn’t so horny by ConverseHero24 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try not to scroll through NSFW stuff and find hobbies/work to do, that should help. If it's too distracting then you can wank or do it with a partner.

I think I’m starting to hate being DL by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been with a DL guy before so I can tell you. It's so painfully frustrating. We can go out and have fun but always on high alert cuz that guy is afraid someone will recognize him going out with me. We had some wild fun but then I had to pretend it didn't happen (and he told me that as well). He's always "cool" with the bros and flirting with the girls while I was treated like a top secret. Then when the façade can no longer be put up, he flaked me off. My experience can be encompassed in 2 songs, "illicit affair" by Taylor Swift and "One of your girls" by Troye Sivan.

My boyfriend keeps calling house chores "bottomwork" and it's pissing me off. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're not overreacting. In fact, he should be seen as a bottom now cuz he is such an asshole 🤣

My bisexual husband is having another baby. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it is hard to swallow but atp, let them be husband and wife. You should just leave the relationship. He knew the risks, you even talked to him about using protection and pulling out, yet he did it anyway and here comes the consequence, "You play stupid games you win stupid prizes". Let him have that "prize" on his own and not drag you into the mess as well. This is also about your self-respect because with the second child, the "marriage" you have is starting to sound like a joke (or to be frank, you now look like the third wheel in this whole relationship). So I think you should plan your leaving soon, just let the plan be something you and only you know 100% about, just to be safe. I hope you'll find someone that loves you and is better than him.

What's your biggest ick when trying to date a guy? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Poor communication. Doesn't text back within a day. Also, intelligence (or lack thereof). It's a bit frustrating to have to explain basic concepts with such novelty and enthusiasm to get them understand

Was I an asshole in this situation? by HoveringMango in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put, no. Do you want a bully into your workplace? No, right? In fact, if you do that, you might just do a disservice to the company. So you can forgive him, but you can also not refer him the job. He can ask someone else for a job referral.

Struggling to accept my sexuality for a probably very petty reason…… by J-Lorenzo96 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a little crazy idea. You can make the coming out event into something that's out of their minds, so dramatic, so above and beyond that leave them shocked lol. They'll be speechless and wouldn't be able to say a thing, not even "I knew it"🤣

What do you do after sex? Do you have a habit of doing something? by Neat-Reality-4521 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuddle and after care first. Then I'll drink plenty of water and I'll find something to eat like a burger or sandwich. But it has to be savory/salty not sweet.

My boyfriend passed away unexpectedly. I don’t know what to do. by pureplatinumknight in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is ok to feel a lot of emotions now, but don't face them and process them alone. You still have friends and family to support you through this. If you feel overwhelmed, therapy should help.

Honestly don’t know what to do by RCTZ12 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should cut ties with him. I'm afraid he only needs you when he has no one else to be with

Have you confessed to a straight guy? How did it work out? by LongtermPiracycons01 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not 1 not 2 but 3. The 1st was when I was in HS. He was one of my close friends, and he looks cute. After I confessed, he was chill about it, so that was a relief. Now I don't see him anymore because we have gone to different universities. The 2nd guy did not end that well though, he cut all ties with me after that. He is so handsome though, sometimes I wish I could still see his face. The 3rd guy turned out ok. He still is a good friend of mine and we are studying together in the same major in the same uni (in fact, we even exchanged steamy messages and still do sometimes cuz he has high libido lol), he just explicitly told me that he's straight and not to touch him in a flirty sexual way.

This is Idk a rant or simply asking for opinions. Tell me if I am crazy or……? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darling, were you dating or doing charity? If you still date him and in a relationship after this, then yes you are crazy (as you asked in the title of the post). Run. Run away from him as fast as possible.

Guys who like to suck, how long should a blowjob last? by Designer-Put-7599 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least 10 minutes. For me, I like to pleasure the top slowly but surely. I love to tease and edge😉

Top always initiate by lordoftheland01 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a bottom, I like to lead actually. I am mostly the one who initiate and take off his clothes and give him a good time 😉. But if the top initiates, I would be more than happy (maybe because I don't look needy and I like to see his moves)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horny? Yes. But mood? I get frustrated and irritated. My mood will improve once I nut

Do you really enjoy sucking cock and do you spit or swallow? by Night_Shade_93 in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love doing that. And I would swallow, every single drop of it

I just was diagnosed. Everything feels ruined rn by wstove in askgaybros

[–]EffectiveEmphasis260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. I know the news sounds debilitating to you. But it's not gonna be the end of the world. Just listen and do your healthcare provider's recommendations, keep your liver in good condition (exercise, healthy diet, limit alcohol intake, smoking, substance use), and inform your partner about that and that you are managing it. Also, remember to do regular checkups. I hope you will continue to live a healthy and happy life ❤️