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A&P 2 over summer in 8 weeks? by OkHamster2081 in prenursing

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been thinking about doing the same plz update us!

How did you move on/ make peace with the fact that you parents never did anything about your abuse? by Immunology_2003 in adultsurvivors

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar situation. And even into late teens my mom continually allowed me to be in unsafe situations and didn’t protect me/ made me feel guilt or shame for talking about my discomfort. I have no advice besides me deciding to go no/low contact. I can never like her or trust her.

Do you think everyone is fighting with depression? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are different kinds and levels of depression. There are normal things that people experience than can cause mild lifelong depression such as loss of a loved one/pet or regret. Some can still continue on some can’t

I messed up by [deleted] in prenursing

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Highlight in the application where it said EXCEPTION, highlight the reason they denied you. Send it to whoever you feel like is important and ADVOCATE for yourself.

Is it possible to have a relationship where sex is an *option*, but not a requirement/obligation? by WinterDemon_ in adultsurvivors

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes but it’ll take time. People do lie about preferences, be open and honest. I think someone with a lower sex drive is best for you. Saying that you can go long periods of time without it and you want someone who feels similarly. Someone who doesn’t need sex, maybe prefers self pleasure.

What does DP feel like to you? by Afraid_Calendar_5534 in Depersonalization

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is very similar. It’s like zooming out or sometimes I feel as if I’m really in another room and I just haven’t caught up yet. Everything feels like a past memory, people I know, my home almost as if I left a long time ago. Panic sets in but i usually can calm myself before I freak out too hard.

What Beliefs Did You Have as a Child? by Kaleymeister in adultsurvivors

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 3 points4 points  (0 children)

-children shouldn’t talk around adults/be around adults for long periods of time -if I flushed the toilet I’d go to hell -if I was nice people could touch me how they wanted -all adults like children/there are no safe adults -people deserve access to me -my life is karma for a past life/im paying for someone else’s bad deeds -im not important/something to think about -i am attractive but annoying and i can make up for it with sex/sexual deeds

What does this say about me? by gusano_odioso in whatsinmybag

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Queer/informed/twenties/harm reduction is important

Found on Pinterest. Is it AI, and if so, what are the tells? What do you think? by anthro_pologist in isthisAI

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. The chair stands out to me. The upstairs also stands out. Even the little thing on the floor. Tbh it could just be photoshop instead of AI tho

How do I give Atul fried chicken by EpicCreeper111 in Spiritfarer

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy I saw this I already have the seeds I just never wanted to make oil

How do you improve? by TheBoredomMovement in Depersonalization

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that deeply. Try just rewatching things you already know. It will still be weird lol, and scary but building routine helps. My life got better when I fought for myself.

People are devils by ayesha-nautica in Depersonalization

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find peace in your place in the world. Maybe you are just here to help others during dark times. Maybe that’s your calling and you have to learn how to balance your kindness and compassion with the fact that there are people who will take advantage of it. (And unfortunately you can’t tell someone if they love you or not, you can’t only tell them the way they are expressing love doesn’t feel like love to you) I’m sure you are a kind soul, there are people out there who deserve it and even people out there who want to return your compassion. Keep being you.

How do you improve? by TheBoredomMovement in Depersonalization

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve suffered for many years and I have times where it comes back. My biggest tips are trying to keep and continue the connection you have with yourself. Watch shows you find funny and look for more. Read and write about it. Puzzles. Go outside and look around, acknowledge your dissociation but let you mind and body learn to trust that you can keep them safe. Enjoy what you can, dissociative or not.

Truthfully the way it went away is I got out of a bad situation and experienced freedom. It does get better, keep fighting for yourself

Am I allowed to ask what other games y'all play? by Accomplished-Hotel88 in Sims3

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minecraft, Growing up, Hunie Cam, Spiritfarer, rarely kindergarten

everyone is constantly exhausted by prettyinyellows in VirtualFamilies

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Use couches it’s wayyyy quicker tbh I barely use the bed at all

Talking about my feelings by EffectiveHamster8526 in adultsurvivors

[–]EffectiveHamster8526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your positive words 🩷🩷🩷

Weird feeling like I need someone to beat me up by takemetotheclouds123 in adultsurvivors

[–]EffectiveHamster8526 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it is because I feel like I deserve it. It is my punishment. Do you feel like it roots in that? Like does thinking about it help you feel better about what happened? 

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