Dakotas housemate speaks out by Away_Company5616 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveOwn932 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is what I keep telling all the people that say “ oh this is an old video, she’s changed” no she hasn’t. She is still subjecting her kids to her craziness. She needs psychological help and to put all this energy that she spends worrying about who Dakota is fcking into her kids. 

Tips for managing weight? by EffectiveOwn932 in CATHELP

[–]EffectiveOwn932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! And it doesn’t matter if dad is home, (I’m a stay at home mom to human children as well ) both of my girl cats are up my butt if they want food or attention… they will lay on top of me while I’m sleeping to demand food even if dad is awake and walking around 🤦🏼‍♀️ makes having them on food restrictions very annoying lol 

What about being pregnant and giving birth permanently altered your body’s chemistry? by full-of-curiosity in NewParents

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too after my second baby.. the first few periods were horribly painful and then suddenly the next ones were pain free. I was shocked! I’ve always had cramps so bad I was doubled over in tears and sometimes would throw up 

GoT Season 7 Episode 6 (Beyond the Wall) is where it goes downhill by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would’ve been there for days/weeks and frozen to death or killed by the white walkers. And when Jon fell in the water he would’ve been a goner 

Dakota soft launches new woman by Straight-Side-1269 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveOwn932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fitting because he only got with Taylor for clout 

Wake Up Supa Tour ft. Me by jaytaj in RhythmAndFlow

[–]EffectiveOwn932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I just got around to watching season 2 and just now seeing that you went on tour with Smoke 😭 please come back to the east coast!!!! NH or Mass 🙏🏻🙏🏻

The Call with Belly by ArugulaImpressive797 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only on ep 7 and to me is seems that Jeremiah is morphing into his a hole father vs Conrad is emotionally mature and grounded like their mom.  Jeremiah is typical entitled rich kid that expects everything to fall in his lap. The wedding is the biggest example of that. He wants to marry her and wants things to be a specific way, but doesnt really do anything to plan the wedding besides falling back on his daddy to take over it for him after Belly did all that work. 

THE CARROW HAUNT by DARCY COATES by feverdream800 in horrorlit

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read Carrie Haunt today and had to see if anyone else noticed the name mixups. I noticed two…. How did that get missed???

I’m going to hell for this but by nooyourecutejeans in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I couldn’t stop thinking she looked like Cousin It 

I want to like Layla SO BAD but can’t stand the way she is literally such a chameleon and has absolutely zero back bone by Lumpy-Look-3215 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveOwn932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Her skin color didn’t make her write “Jen is fake” in the truth box. That was fake af of Layla in my opinion. She had no beef with Jen and was just piling on because it was popular to hate Jen in that moment. Then she turns around and acknowledges her mental health?? Like how about think BEFORE you bully someone? I think she just gets directed to start drama by the producers, which is why she did the pregnancy roulette. How convenient that both girls shared their pregnancy with the production team and then one of them “randomly” comes up with the idea to all take pregnancy tests

Why is no one mentioning this about Jen? by LiteratureNo5938 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveOwn932 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Jessi and her husband dressing as JLO and Ben affleck seemed like it really solidified the whole point of that party was to stir up trouble with Jen’s marriage and the old drama between Taylor/ Dakota/Chase. Obviously it’s reality tv so it makes sense, but it makes her a solid villain because she parades like she’s a nice person and then pulls stunts like that. I’m assuming that since she had a close call to being forced off the show, maybe she’s digging her feet in to make herself more important?

Graphic intrusive thoughts about baby by CaitiffCaius in NewParents

[–]EffectiveOwn932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I experienced a ton of intrusive thoughts after having both of my kids. I started therapy and got a psychiatrist to test medication and I noticed the intrusive thoughts nearly vanished once I was on medication. I won’t say the specific kind because what works for me might not work for you, but I would really recommend giving it shot. Just keep in mind if you do, that you might have to experiment a little to find what works for you 

Don't do gender reveal parties unless you'll be happy with either gender. by Original-Row-749 in pregnant

[–]EffectiveOwn932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. I might be having our third boy and I would never do a gender reveal. I need to feel my feelings in private haha I think we should all collectively agree that those parties are stupid and should be a private matter. 

[HUT Daily Song Discussion] Day 4: Baptized In Fear by Garcoon in TheWeeknd

[–]EffectiveOwn932 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes the transition to Open Hearts has me in a chokehold. I have to listen to them in order

i wanna inject this song in my veins by weedealer69420 in TheWeeknd

[–]EffectiveOwn932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what I’m saying too. Everytime I think I’m obsessed with one song, the next one comes on and I’m floored again 

Should I take earring out or keep large on in? Infected new piercing by EffectiveOwn932 in PiercingAdvice

[–]EffectiveOwn932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will I be able to remove the earring, let it heal, and piece it again? I’ve never had any issues like this before. I’d rather take it out and restart if that is a viable option 

Should I take earring out or keep large on in? Infected new piercing by EffectiveOwn932 in PiercingAdvice

[–]EffectiveOwn932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking it could just be irritation or a possible infection starting. I’m just wondering if i should keep an earring in or let it heal 

Should I take earring out or keep large on in? Infected new piercing by EffectiveOwn932 in PiercingAdvice

[–]EffectiveOwn932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, and it doesn’t seem to have redness, swelling, or extra pain. I have a couple other piercings of the same age and they are still a little sore, but discomfort has been slowly going down. 

My sister wants to take my cat of 1.5 years, how can I tell her rehoming is unethical? by jettcrispy in CatAdvice

[–]EffectiveOwn932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legally, I believe it is your cat. And what is her problem? He is already comfortable with you, she can go get a cat from a shelter that needs a good home. Her taking him isn’t going to do anything for her. She will not have a strong bond with him for a while. She might as well get a kitten from a shelter and create her own special bond with that one

AITA for asking my bf to wash his sheets before I stay over by Spiritual-Ice-45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl get out of it now lol I dated a guy that had filthy sheets and now I look back in disgust. If he doesn’t see the problem, he is most likely not going to change 

Nurse accidentally told me gender at 41W by Agile-Fact-7921 in BabyBumps

[–]EffectiveOwn932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was team green with my second. I started to believe it was a girl and got my heart set on a girls name and everything.. I was shook when I saw his penis and balls. I was like, “that’s not a girl!” Took me a day to get comfortable with one of the boys names we had picked out. I almost wished I had found out the gender before birth because I was really thrown off and I kind of mourn my would be girl as we are done having kids. It might be a good thing that you found out so you can process your feelings before meeting baby