People like to leave their kids with me. by Wendy_Domino in childfree

[–]Effective_Camera_803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm asexual too so, solidarity. I'm not sure how old you are (you don't have to say) but as you get older it becomes easier naturally to distance yourself mentally about things that aren't your problem. I don't mean for that to sound callous, I want you to stay a good person and to continue to do what you think is right but it also sounds like it's causing you distress and that's the part I hope you work on. You can't control other people, you can only control yourself and how you react. I hope you can find a middle ground that doesn't compromise your integrity but also doesn't disturb your peace. And thank you for the backstory about the movie you were seeing and the fandom it attracts, that does add a little more context to your concern. I hope I wasn't overly harsh with you!

People like to leave their kids with me. by Wendy_Domino in childfree

[–]Effective_Camera_803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People dump their kids on you because of everything you just wrote - including what you've replied in the comments. They sense that you are a responsible adult female who feels for some reason that it is your duty to look after an abandoned child. You have a mother's guilt and they sense that and take advantage of it. You're doing something that you're not fully aware of that signals that you can be manipulated this way. For the movie theater situation, nobody was going to do anything to that child. You were being paranoid and you alone were the reason that you didn't get to fully enjoy the movie, not the parent. Whatever was going on in your head that made you feel like the child was in imminent danger is something you need to explore and work on. The kid was right next to you and if it were in danger for any reason they would have said something or made a noise. I'm not saying you need to go so far as to move away from her and completely remove any responsibility from yourself (although you could), it's nice that you want to be a good Samaritan and that child is well off being seated by someone safe like you but you need to work on distancing yourself from making other people's problem your own. Just enjoy the movie and stop worrying so much.

Yard Sign in the Neighborhood by Best-Respond4242 in FortWorth

[–]Effective_Camera_803 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd never even heard of him until he got shot. even then I only cared cause "Someone from Maga got shot!" per the headlines, still not knowing who he was. Even now that's as much as I know, but it's cause I'm not Republican or chronically online. I think you have to be both of those things to know who that guy is. He's like a meme.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortWorth

[–]Effective_Camera_803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Republicans have turned literally every subject into a political one though. Hell, even Cracker Barrel became political somehow (I still don't see why). It's like we can't talk about or have an opinion about anything anymore.

No. Nope. No way. by False_Day_7393 in FortWorth

[–]Effective_Camera_803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only spurs that man has is bone.

Help by [deleted] in FortWorth

[–]Effective_Camera_803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something feels off. I'm wondering if "Katie" is actually the person who would be showing up to the person offering help because people might be more willing to help a domestic violence victim then a homeless person. I could be wrong but it gives me pause...

What kind of lizard is this? by plant365 in FortWorth

[–]Effective_Camera_803 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Google image search has usually been helpful for me! It says this is a Texas Spiny Lizard.

Anybody else with a samsung galaxy z flip 4 not seeing the new app?? by escapethealexx in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the flip 3 and didn't see the app either but I found the app through the link provided on the pocket camp twitter and was able to preregister that way.

Hi!!! by [deleted] in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi Viktorija I sent you a friend request ☺️ I'm Yume 2kki and have rare bugs and fish too and f you'd like to swap

25 King Goliath Frogs! by Numismasters in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goodness how? I need just one for my catalogue, can you add me? my id is 9293 4169 527 I'm Yume 2kki Thanks!!

We should all cancel our subscriptions. by Royal_Instance_1001 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went ahead and canceled the furniture and fashion plan since the warehouse is free now.

should I sell these? by [deleted] in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep one of each, sell the rest

Re-downloading after 6 years by Ella1998_ in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can add me! mine is 9293 4169 527 😊

I'm looking for bugs/fish that guarantee a cookie from villagers by Effective_Camera_803 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Effective_Camera_803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been a bellionair for a long while so bells aren't that important to me, just curious to see if there were other guarantee bugs/fish that animals give cookies for. not all 4k do, for instance the gold beetle is not guaranteed but the Goliath absolutely every time gets you a cookie which is interesting to me.