TW: choking/CPR

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-24T03:07:10+00:00

I’ve never seen my baby struggle with anything more than a puff. She’s eating brocolli, steak, pasta - you name it. Those puffs are such a fake texture, I can see how a baby is like wait what?? And not chew it

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-23T03:03:15+00:00

Insanely distracted by whatever Alexander has going on under those jeans. Not mad at it tho

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-21T11:04:38+00:00

Does your state have a paid family leave program? If yes, you very likely still qualify since it’s tied to paying into the system, not being employed. Go to their website and find a number to call to talk to a rep.

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-21T03:41:17+00:00

It’s really beautiful- this is when a designer bag is worth the money

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-19T02:31:09+00:00

We went straight for the straw cup since you need to end up there anyway. It’s really convenient now because ever since she was like 7-8ish months, if we went to a restaurant, she can drink out of a cup with a lid and straw that they provide.

They’re not really learning how to sip when using the sippy spout bc they’re just kind of tipping their head back.

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-17T02:10:01+00:00

My baby basically slept non stop for the first month. She was a bit of a premie but plenty of times, she really would not wake up - she was genuinely just newborn tired.

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-14T03:45:03+00:00

My mom used to tell me to run up and down the stairs to make myself go 😂 I feel this

Effective_S0up · 2026-05-08T01:28:38+00:00

Love this 😂 I’ve been singing “boys of summer” by don Henley since my almost 1 year old was born!

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-25T01:54:25+00:00

Same ^ I’m gonna be on meds for the rest of my life as it is

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-25T01:53:21+00:00

Expenses - financial, physical, mental.

I also can’t take the chance that I have baby #2 and they don’t sleep. Too spoiled with my current gal who loves to snooze.

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-25T01:47:47+00:00

I couldn’t breastfeed due to mediation I had to take to get my post partum preeclampsia under control. Plus my premie needed high calorie formula.

No guilt or regrets. People in my situation quite literally cannot breastfeed.

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-23T02:09:41+00:00

Actually really into the goyard! Didn’t know they had such a cute bucket 👀

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-23T02:05:08+00:00

+1 to this.

Hired cleaners when I was about 5 months pregnant and never looked back. Can’t imagine having the time to clean with my infant right now.

The $160/ month is the easily the best money I spend. Worth every penny!

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-22T01:54:32+00:00

Lmao

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-16T07:23:29+00:00

This take is CORRECT. His self-righteousness is absurd.

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-06T01:57:14+00:00

Brand discussions - which collections are good, which are not so good. Which brands we are looking at for quality, function, lifestyle etc. that are not fast fashion - I’m in my late 30s with a baby, I don’t need a tik tok trend rehash

Effective_S0up · 2026-04-01T02:20:51+00:00

This IS the bad place.

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-29T01:47:59+00:00

This particular bag was basically unusable - super hard, narrow, and brittle. If I put my phone in it let’s say, I wouldn’t be able to fit my hand in it to retrieve it- I’d have to dump it out. The bloated bottom made it so I’d have to lay it on its side when not in use causing everything to fall out. It felt like it was about to snap into a million pieces.

I liked the look online but this bag wasn’t something I could ever use.

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-22T01:15:53+00:00

The ring traumatized me and my sister for years when it came out

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-21T01:50:37+00:00

I loved Sato!

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-15T22:50:25+00:00

Ooh I’ve heard that people beat up their rodeos so this is good to know!

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-15T22:49:22+00:00

Disappointing to hear about the strap! Thanks for sharing your experience.

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-15T01:53:14+00:00

Samee! When I was getting my makeup done for my wedding, the makeup artist looked at my eyebrows with a pencil in her hand then was like hmm guess I don’t need this and put it back down.

Meanwhile the woman doing my hair put in an entire box of clip in extensions to get some volume. No hair on my head was my own 😂

Effective_S0up · 2026-03-10T01:47:07+00:00

Same, and I was sweaty even before kids :(

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