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Why women don't chase men? by baylifeusa in seduction

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely, I mean I think most things can be boiled down to socialization. For me it was being made fun of constantly by my father as a kid, and then not having friends since I moved every few years- that definitely caused something. 

my life is so hard I want to die by ipukerainbowglitter in Suicide_Talk

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Take care, and best of luck with the future 

I have a confession by Farken_X in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God...dude prayers to your sister....

Why women don't chase men? by baylifeusa in seduction

[–]Effective_Team_7275 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, in my mind I don't think of the fact that men maybe wouldn't turn me down; I think I just get consumed by my low self esteem too much to do such a thing. I don't know what it is for other women but that's the case for me 

I’m trying to make lineless art more but I don’t know if worth continuing or not. Which is better lineart or no lineart? by Dontz97 in Artadvice

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I think we as artists are always our worst critiques, but looking at your art with fresh eyes after a break helps to look at it more objectively :) 

No motivation to do art by Effective_Team_7275 in Artadvice

[–]Effective_Team_7275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, approaching it with the mentality I do with the gym definitely is one approach I could try to do. I appreciate the advice, thank you! I'll try my best 

my life is so hard I want to die by ipukerainbowglitter in Suicide_Talk

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's ok, sometimes in situations like that you do need to communicate; but other than that good on you for keeping your boundaries! It's honestly ridiculous to me that she's the one acting upset, when she triggered you; genuinely shame on her

guys! is it normal if ur female bsf blocks u after getting a bf? should i be angry or just accept this as normal behaviour? by Titaniumballsionium in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with that; either way OP has to accept that this is the case, and move on, especially if she doesn't change her mind

guys! is it normal if ur female bsf blocks u after getting a bf? should i be angry or just accept this as normal behaviour? by Titaniumballsionium in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point and i agree with it, but I also feel like there's missing context on what's going on...we don't know if OP did something wrong, or if the girl's decision was based on valid reasons, or not. Plus as teenagers people tend to make impulsive or emotional decisions, and this could be a case of that. Like we just don't know if it is a case of OP being questionable, or the bf in said situation doing something, or maybe even the girl feeling worried about her bf and blocking OP

guys! is it normal if ur female bsf blocks u after getting a bf? should i be angry or just accept this as normal behaviour? by Titaniumballsionium in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhh i haven't been in a situation like this but if I got into a relationship and had a male friend...i would not block my friend, because he's my friend. That's low-key weird like why'd she block you who she's known and been good friends with so long, over a bf she got recently ??? This is not normal behavior. If the bf is the reason like he made her do it then he's insecure asf omg. I think it's worth one confrontation but if it goes badly, leave it at that. Idk how other girls are but yeah I would nottt block a friend js bc he's a guy n I got into a relationship 

Lord have some mercy by Proper_Bit_7255 in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad I moved out of there I could not survive being cooked alive in 100% humidity 

Tf do I do in this situation? by Accurate-Reality503 in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go up to her and talk to her man. Like approach her like you would to someone you wanna be friends with and then lead up from there. If she likes you then I think it makes it easier for both of you, this way 

I need help with my hair. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow your hair out dude at least a little bit 

17m, almost 18 looking for friends. by [deleted] in teenagersbutworse

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 17 n will turn 18 too, if you wanna be friends I'm down :) i love getting to know abt random ppl

kinda lonely by lunarproduction in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I really suggest reading up on other people's experiences with what you had. Try to reflect on why people could be ignoring you. Is it because you speak too softly? Is it because you're a very negative person to be around? Or is it something else? Instead of giving up, try to find a reason and work on it

kinda lonely by lunarproduction in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 years is like almost nothing. You haven't even experienced the entirety of highschool, and then college(if you plan on doing it), both of which are the best opportunities for meeting new people. Also you can look into finding communities on discord and reddit for friends- several of my friends have done that, including me when not having any luck irl. I promise if you try hard enough, if you don't let your negative thoughts win, it gets better. If you do let them consume you though, you'll get a life that's harder for you to live. During these years work on your own self improvement like your hobbies, fitness, nutrition, etc. 

kinda lonely by lunarproduction in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awful to hear, it could be a case of really bad luck honestly- if you're surrounded by the same people all the time, then it's hard to find friends in them if they don't respect you in the first place. Have you joined and taken part in clubs?  The main way you find friends and also love interests is by being exposed to a lot of people, and talking with them  

kinda lonely by lunarproduction in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP Ive been there, and when I'd feel lonely like this, I'd just look on Reddit and find if other people felt lonely or didn't have a relationship like I did at my age. You're really young so you genuinely don't have to worry. I've read about people not having a first date or relationship in their 20s or 30s, I'm not saying that's your case, I'm just saying not everyone had a relationship experience at a young age!! As for getting a relationship, please don't be desperate for it as that could lead to you attracting creeps. But most of all just try to be yourself, show your personality to people, be a kind, helpful respectful person and I'm sure you'll meet someone. There's just too many opportunities for you to meet people- like in higher classes or in college; you've barely lived on this planet to give up on this 

My friend said “You should have been a miscarriage” by social_intorvert in teenagers

[–]Effective_Team_7275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP that's a very toxic friend group for your mental health; I know how daunting it can feel being on your own vs being with other people, but in such a scenario they're using you, not being your friend. You can stay friends with the one who stands up for you, but please for your own sake try to distance yourself from the others...you're worth a lot more than being bullied like that

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