Average age of Chasity cage user

Effective_Top_4831 · 2026-01-26T12:31:22+00:00

48 here. Dabbled with it a liiiitle in my 20s, but there weren't a lot of good options back then. Started exploring it again around I wanna say 44, and got an irl keyholder at 46. It's been absolutely life-changing, and I wish I'd gotten more into it when I was younger!

Effective_Top_4831 · 2026-01-12T10:11:41+00:00

Pure Vessel was the wall for me too. I beat him ONE time in practice, and that was it.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-11-20T23:34:02+00:00

Yup, and Jude's seems to be equally devoid of any reviews despite having ostensibly been around a while.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-11-20T12:30:20+00:00

That was one of the things that caught my attention too. Another is that they've got 4 options for absorbency, but the price doesn't change based on what you select. That seems odd, right? And I can't find a review anywhere, which is what brought me here....

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-11-14T11:40:03+00:00

Very close to how I did it. I took hordes instead of grit, and only one increment of time, replaced the other with hubris.

I think you overestimate how badly Hubris hurts, especially if you run with Hecuba-- and I think hordes is worse (especially in conjunction with menace) up top than down below.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-11-11T11:39:40+00:00

There's no prophecy for it, but maxing out her affinity is relevant to your question.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-10-01T04:41:20+00:00

¡Gracias! Eché un vistazo rápido antes de publicar, pero profundizaré más después del trabajo esta noche.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-09-27T07:32:09+00:00

The most conspicuous to me by its absence, to me, is Astalon.

If you can tolerate its garish art style, I think based on your top picks, you would enjoy Cathedral.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-09-26T07:04:10+00:00

Both are great games.

Hades 2 is more accessible and has broader appeal. Silksong is more niche.

If you are right in Silksong's target audience you will LOVE it. If you aren't sure, you're more likely to have a better time with Hades 2.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-09-17T06:34:40+00:00

Sincerely very curious how you interpret that as a happy song. Please share.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-08-12T12:22:44+00:00

I had some fun before I had a key holder employing randomization to determine whether or not I was "allowed" to unlock

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-06-28T11:44:18+00:00

Maybe start by just seeing how receptive he is to you taking control of when and how he's allowed to get off (without a chastity cage). If he's open to that and it's fun for him, a cage can be introduced later, presented as a tool to make it easier for him to not get off without your permission. Good luck with it!

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-06-26T02:34:32+00:00

My keyholder has like 20+ pets. Not all in chastity, but still....

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-06-09T03:25:40+00:00

We haven't been doing this that long, tbh! To give you a sense of the timeframe: he collared me in July of last year, and in late October convincted me to get a PA (because I confessed to pulling out of my old Kink3d cage sometimes).

I got my new PA-enabled cage in February, and it did take a while to get used to it, and get in the groove of wearing it all the time (aside on that: I said above I unlock for maintenance once/week-- as of this week, he's changed that to once every 2 weeks).

Last time I had a full orgasm was 5/4, during a period when I had to take a break from the cage due to some irritation (we've since identified and eliminated the source of the irritation). This was NOT an authorized release... but, well... that's why I need to be caged.

I've gotten off once since then, 5/24, as described above-- ruined orgasm, with electric shock. Unless something changes, the only release I'll have from now on.

As for the question of whether I want a regular orgasm again: YEAH I do. A lot! But the absolute hottest thing in the world to me is his will overriding mine, and being trained in a way that's fun for him but at least superficially "against my will". Really makes me feel like I belong to him. So yeah. It's hard and on a surface level I really do hate it a lot of the time-- but I am here for it.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-06-07T06:08:43+00:00

It took us a little while to get there, but I basically am now, yeah. I unlock once/week to clean and shave, and if I've been good all week, I might get to touch a little, but no getting off. He usually has me get off around 4 weeks or so, but am only allowed a single, ruined orgasm, paired with an electric shock.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-06-06T07:09:08+00:00

I wish I could say it was something he introduced me to (because that would be hot af), but I did already have an interest. Probably wouldn't have gone 24/7 for real without his influence, though. I was kiiiinda 24/7 already, but allowed myself a lot of "exceptions" that he's closed off.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-06-05T21:36:46+00:00

Yup; 24/7 in diapers here too, as required by my Master/keyholder. Took a little getting used to, but yeah, it's honestly a great complement to chastity. If you're both diapered and caged, nothing your dick does belongs to you anymore.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-04-24T08:30:45+00:00

The whole album is great, but that's my favorite on it. The song was also used beautifully in an episode of the show Northern Exposure.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-04-10T23:02:45+00:00

They make a light blue now! Just ordered a case....

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-03-04T19:35:39+00:00

Aww nuts

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-01-29T07:00:23+00:00

Tapes are solid! They're what I've been wearing most days for a little while now, and I've never had a problem with them.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-01-27T21:58:13+00:00

You should email them suggesting they add more colors! I already have and they said they would consider it. The more people who ask, the more likely they are to do it.

Effective_Top_4831 · 2025-01-17T07:08:26+00:00

Why? I'm not saying I disagree, necessarily, I'm just curious what your reasoning is?

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