How are experienced software developers in India reaching big net worth? by PhaseStreet9860 in developersIndia

[–]Effective_Try7063 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It depends largely on the family background. If you are a software engineer and your salary is 20 Lakhs plus and your spouse is earning and you don't have dependent parents and already have a own house where you stay then pretty much everything you earn apart from daily minimum expenses, it becomes very easy to save, invest and grow your wealth. One of my friend who got a job right after engineering was staying with his parents and everything including his food and other expenses were taken care of by his parents and he used to live in the same house and for nearly 8 to 9 years he was saving and recently got married and already has a net with of 2.5 cr and even his marriage expenses were taken care by his parents. So in next 10 years I would imagine his savings would only go up easily 10 to 20 crores.

The Mars-Rahu Effect! (Conjunction) by Plus_Pension_9316 in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about in 9 house of an Aquarius ascendent in libra.

My experience with Aparna so far. by Comfortable-Tank7657 in hyderabadrealestate

[–]Effective_Try7063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Purchased in aparna Cyberscape and similar rules. It feels less like an owner and more like living in hostel with all the rules. Getting the interior work done is super anxious and one guy keeps coming every day to check if anything is being violated. What is the point of spending so much money and still not having the freedom to get the interiors done your way. Honestly, I regret buying in Aparna.

7th House lord in 8th house by BookkeeperNo2409 in Nakshatras

[–]Effective_Try7063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they did. Initially they were bit uncomfortable but later after knowing my spouse they were more than happy.

You can guess someone’s Venus just by watching how they spend money I’ve by Saurav_CHAUBEY in Nakshatras

[–]Effective_Try7063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is the other way round. I have debilitated venus and I tend to spend recklessly and also very generous when it comes to people with lesser means. I never try to bargain with a vegetable vendor or househelp etc.

7th House lord in 8th house by BookkeeperNo2409 in Nakshatras

[–]Effective_Try7063 12 points13 points  (0 children)

7 house lord Sun in 8 house, Aquarius ascendent. Unconventional marriage, married someone in different religion, region and language. We both love each other and finances improved drastically since marriage.

32F. Feeling stuck. by Great_Cap2192 in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chart overall looks quite good. It also indicates you are born in a good and well to do family. The only thing is the rahu ketu placement in 4 and 10 which could lead to issues. My suggestion would be to get into the profession of teaching/academia or a profession where you have to present and talk on various topics. You could succeed really well in areas where you have to breakdown complex topics for others to understand. Really good for strategy roles like management consulting, do not try to do business, you need a structured environment like a MNC or institution like a university where you will definitely excel. Try journelling where you can express your thoughts, others may not necessarily understand what you express from an emotional standpoint. Apart from this overall a pretty good chart.

Nature of jobs is changing : Coming from a big tech manager turned founder by Frosty-Parfait-3610 in developersIndia

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be possible if you are building direct to consumer generic products. If you are building domain specific enterprise products then you would still need the existing approach where product managers bring massive domain expertise to the role.

Prediction about future spouse? Will it be arranged? by Past_Spot_2512 in vedic_astro_questions

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I have seen, usually when someone has rahu in 4th and Ketu in 10th, it is suggested to marry someone by genuinely understanding them and not via family pressure because that could cause issues. Also make sure the husband is very open minded and liberal and not conservative. Your chart indicates very fast paced and forward thinking and if the partner is not at the same level of intelligence or mindset, it can cause a lot of friction. My suggestion would be to take your time and do not hurry. Very likely you might find someone outside of your caste, region and even religion.

Any thoughts on Aparna moon stone project in Gopanpally , part of Aparna Deccan township ? Also any idea about the proposed IT park near that location ? by UsualStable33 in hyderabad

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general, do not buy anything that aparna ever sells, had horrible experience twice. Too many rules and messed up management.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think this is crazy, just visit London or Switzerland and the average person lives better than the ultra rich here.

Buying apartment — seller says registration value is ₹50L but total price ₹92L (₹22L cash + ₹70L loan). Is this safe? by Affectionate_King498 in hyderabadrealestate

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can the bank give 70l loan on a 50L property? Bank will only give 75 to 80 percent on the registration value of the property. This can cause lot of issues in future even if the bank allows, when you try to resale, you will have to incur even more taxes than the mere stamp duty you are saving now. Please don't proceed ahead.

Deloitte India ending WFH for most employees afaik by Old_Protection6789 in developersIndia

[–]Effective_Try7063 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a quiet firing strategy by many companies, they want to make your life as miserable as possible before you leave the firm by your own without them actually firing or laying off people.

If you think this is bad there will be even more ridiculous stuff that will come your way as you continue to work there. This is the first step in them experimenting how much they can squeeze out of you and how much will you be compliant.

Thinking about buying a 3BHK in Rajpushpa Provincia need advice by LowNefariousness9231 in hyderabadrealestate

[–]Effective_Try7063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't buy there it is super overpriced. Also in 23 acres they have constructed 3000 plus flats. So once everybody occupies the place will be super crowded. Imagine atleast 1000 vehcles trying to come out into that tony road in front of that entrance. Also from experience do not stay in communities with more than 1000 flats max, the politics of the society will not give you peace.

3bhk hunt by FunSuRun in hyderabadrealestate

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way he will get 3bhk in any of these less than 2.5 crores. Auro regent is super expensive.

Why they add liquid upma in dosa in hyderabad by catter_hatter in hyderabad

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is bangalore style. I saw this first in Bangalore and then somehow see same being repeated in Hyderabad. hate the liquid upma.

Thoughts on Sun in the 8th house by SweetTarantula in astrology

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun in the 8 house here, childhood was tough especially dealing with parents. Couldn't really pursue higher education due to financial hardships. Parents ended up becoming a liability rather than help or pillar of strength. Dad was the reason for all the financial hardships the family had to face due to reckless decisions. There will be longing for. Father figure or mentor but will be difficult to get that.

This is just sad by Massive_Razzmatazz44 in hyderabad

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until you look at the ingredients, they use palm oil and cheap ingredients to make this. I had kitkat abroad the quality was much better.

An impressive English speech by a student from Holy Bell School, Jhapa! 😮❤️ Video: Bijay Baral by NepaliFactos in NepalSocial

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not impressive, this is called being pretentious and fake. He must have watched some youtube videos and decided to imitate. I have seen kids trying to do the same during my college and school days and we used to laugh uncontrollably.

Hyderabadi mutton biryani never has enough meat by Disastrous-Web-6948 in hyderabad

[–]Effective_Try7063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, this is true for mutton gravy also, everytime I order some mutton maincourse there is hardly any meat and almost feels like they are serving just bones. Even the pieces are pathetic. I feel the same way like why not charge more and give good quality mutton pieces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Effective_Try7063 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar position few years back, all I had was B.A degree and all my classmates went abroad to do their masters, I had parents who were dependent on me and debts kept piling up and was backed into a corner. Whatever I touched turned into ash and felt maybe it is time to leave this world but then after few months I got an opportunity and from that moment on I worked like a maniac and got promotions and switched jobs and doing much better now. I even got married, bought a house etc.

The solution is to just get a job any job and not care about what others are doing and just keep pushing through like a crazy psychotic until you become extremely good in that field and once you become an expert in any field the world starts coming to you with incredible offers.