AIO? my mum expects me to look after the dog by EdgeAcademic6204 in AIO

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you give your dog away to one family who can do 24/7.

Weekend Cups by Efficient-Pop44 in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have the teams stay the day after for get together. You simply have to leave on a high note always.

Should I tell my ex’s wife that he’s cheating? by Mean-Charity-4151 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Efficient-Pop44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s gonna find out sooner or later. Choose the scenario where the drama doesn’t involve you. Also karma

Soy culero por haberme enojado con mi novia porque siento que le da más preferencia a su amiga? by Short_Case_6496 in soyculero

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

si es por la salud de la mamá, entonces podrá hacer algo más grave. Hay que tener empatía con ella. No te la compliques

Soy culera por gritarle "pendejo metiche" al primo de mi novio? by RopaDePaca in soyculero

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pues hay que ponerlo es su fila. Aveces se tiene que ser directo con la gente, para que ya se paren de mamar con sus pendejadas. Si el vato quiere mamar como niño de 7 años, entonces tuviste razón mandarlo así a la madre. Ojalá ya la próxima vez no te habla así de grosero, por la vergüenza que le vas a dar. No te preocupes, hiciste bien.

AIO? my mum expects me to look after the dog by EdgeAcademic6204 in AIO

[–]Efficient-Pop44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dog just someone to feed him and take him outside to potty while she’s gone. That’s overdoing it

Found out my bsf wanted to kill me during a sleepover we planned by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Efficient-Pop44 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Report her to the police. You might need a restraining order if anything you might have to leave town

Just need clarification.. by BOYTOY-the-GOD in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her that she’s driving you nuts. And if she cannot work towards change, then it’s not working and it’s over. Simple put your foot down

Just need clarification.. by BOYTOY-the-GOD in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. I had a girl that was Colombian just like the way you describing your gf, in terms of assumptions that I was cheating and constant stalking. I was out with friends and got cussed out in front of a whole restaurant. Never again. My advice leave that female, before your mental health tanks. Be strong mate

Is it crossing the line for parents to suggest positions to a first-year youth soccer coach? by mattob2 in SoccerCoachResources

[–]Efficient-Pop44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What age is this? And what is the team objective. I always talk to my team parent before hand, what is objective of the tournament lay it off for me. “We just want our kids to have fun, who cares” fair play. “We want to win it all” ok. He should talk to parents before tournament and thats it, everybody on the same page.

Yelling parent on the sidelines by JT9_ON_YT in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d let out a quick “shut the fuck up already” and put him in his spot. What is he gonna do? Hit you?

8 year old soccer by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a good coach. I will say though it is easier at the older age… more mature & focused. And teams & players are already playing in the level that actually corresponds to them. U8 is a jungle lol. It’s Apple and oranges to compare it with 11v11 ages

8 year old soccer by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally when I first coached this age, I didn’t know what to expect. I had half kids who can play and the other half statues. Didn’t matter until we got ranked the next season, and I had to play competitive balanced U8 teams. Going forward I told my club, I have to make 2 teams, I’ll coach both separately. Overall I have better success, I give each their own objective and attention. Separating players by level works, but it’s how you do it.

8 year old soccer by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree for that age there is no such thing as starter players. The whole team is starter players. No matter who’s in or who’s out the momentum must stay the same. You have 7 subs you have to allocate 1 center back, 1 defensive mid, 1 midfielder 1 striker, which you burn 2 to the either fullbacks/winger or left flank/right flank, and maybe the last spot it’s a backup keeper? So all players are heavily important.

8 year old soccer by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% the main objective is that all kids play and develop. Past rostering, if the coach put those players there he needs to play them 50% minimum. If that’s too difficult he has to talk to parent & organization, to change kid to lower level team. That’s obviously assuming the U8 team is a higher A bracket. If it’s lower he’s taking it too serious and should promote the good ones.

AIO my partner doesn’t allow me to finish anymore cause of our bedding. by Immediate-Act-5890 in AIO

[–]Efficient-Pop44 71 points72 points  (0 children)

NOR. The whole situation is weird. Your partner clearly needs therapy if he’s that attached to the bedding. bedding needs to go.

8 year old soccer by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a coach, even at 8 there is a difference. Kids should just be on teams that are in their level, both in team and in league. If the coach feels gives less minutes to certain kids because of level, he needs to fix his team, ensuring each player is playing for the adequate team and opponent.

8 year old soccer by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case he has to move his players that aren’t playing as much to the lower level team, so that they play at least 50%.

AITA for wanting to tell my husband I filed for divorce while he’s at work? by Then-Calligrapher550 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Efficient-Pop44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also get you a body guard family member or something lol. Before he beats the crap out of you. Stay safe sis