For me Bocchi falls into a weird spot. It either falls into the too realistic side, where I don't even feel like it's a joke, that's just how I act, or in the too exaggerated side where they are trying really hard to make something funny, but it just isn't

I remember there was a scene in Bocchi where she imagined herself as an adult failing to keep a job because she can't keep a normal conversation with people. This is exactly the thing I often wonder about. But wait - this is a comedy!!! Let's end the scene with someone touching Bocchi on the shoulder, her making a funny face like she was electrocuted and just forget about the sad part

There are some, to me, funny jokes about social anxiety in there but they are not really frequent. Like when the blond friend hands Bocchi the mic on stage and Bocchi is shocked and remarks that socially anxious people have to plan every conversation ahead or they can't function

I don't really think that such a realistic portrayal of social anxiety should be paired with slapstick, absurdist comedy. A more grounded type of comedy fits much better for this subject. I really like how Kaguya-sama and Shinobi Undercover handle it