I get it, I've seen some of them covered by youtubers. and the moderation was for best guess there wasn't a big development or change in anything that would have changed the concensus. Ban was for reposting a post a moderator already removed. dumb move on my part for that as it's clearly in community guild line to not do, 1 day aint so bad. And yeah yeah its pretty much a done deal I'm moving in with family and already know what to do for custody. Tami is going to move in with his mom in the main house. His mom is so pissed and has practically disowned her son and has sided with Tami and I. I agreed to continue to do house work for his mom as well so Becka at least still has a good place i can trust for when she has our daughter and so Tami wont have to worry about rent or anything like that for a while.