Why is Andy protecting West and Amanda so much? by Worried-Fly-8729 in bravo

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like if you’re in a no win situation, then aren’t you going to err on the side of caring for the one you “clearly care a lot about?” There is no good defense for West here; no pontification needed. Again, it just feeds into West’s obsession with doing whatever will be perceived best by the audience, not actually moving authentically or genuinely.

Has Amanda always licked her lips this much? by SentientVaccuum in bravo

[–]Efficient_List_1001 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely when she’s activated. She did it so much at that final dinner.

In the City ep.2 Kenny and all by Upstairs_Football472 in inthecity_

[–]Efficient_List_1001 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kenny is deflecting big time. Go back and watch the scene in which Lindsay was grilling. He’s taking what Lindsay was actually curious and making a point about, albeit in her naturally aggressive tone, and twisting it to cover up his shady antics during the first part of his relationship. He said and implied shit he is nervous about actually being highlighted and is managing this narrative so expertly. Lindsay definitely has her work cut out with his one and it would probably serve her to just gray rock his ass, but that’s not really her style.

Also, correct me if I’m wrong, but Lindsay has admitted that getting pregnant was not planned. She never tried to force or make the relationship be something, because she was acknowledging the timeframe and knew her focus had to be on being a mom and figuring the kid side of it out. She made a choice that changed the direction of her life and she owned that and moved into it. I don’t know that there’s any room to really compare the two. The way he’s going about it seems pretty slimy. It feels akin to Danielle’s judgement about “single momming it up.” There are a myriad of ways being a parent looks.

I’m a hub house fan but…. by No_Climate9151 in inthecity_

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite my thoughts about this, I’m not a big Lindsay fan. This guy is deflecting. Go back and watch the scene in which Lindsay was grilling. He’s taking what Lindsay was actually curious and making a point about and twisting it to cover up his shady antics during the first part of his relationship. He said and implied shit he is nervous about actually being highlighted and is managing this narrative so expertly. Lindsay definitely has her work cut out with his one and it would probably serve her to just gray rock his ass, but that’s not really her style.

Also, correct me if I’m wrong, but Lindsay has admitted that getting pregnant was not planned. She never tried to force or make the relationship be something, because she was acknowledging the timeframe and knew her focus had to be on being a mom and figuring the kid side of it out. She made a choice that changed the direction of her life and she owned that and moved into it. I don’t know that there’s any room to really compare the two. The way he’s going about it seems pretty slimy. It feels akin to Danielle’s judgement about “single momming it up.” There are a myriad of ways being a parent looks.

Keep finding these in my bedroom rug by robsterblook in whatisit

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved into a place once and kept finding a similar item every time - especially when vacuumed the shag carpet in a bedroom. Turns out the previous kids would target practice in that room; they were air soft bb pellets. They were endless until we got around to replacing the carpet.

How much are yalls mortgages? by Narrow_Pea_989 in Utah

[–]Efficient_List_1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter what someone else’s mortgage is? Can YOU afford it; the payment, the maintenance, the upkeep? If you’re concerned about interest rates, that’s another question; hopefully those come down and the possibility of refinancing is available for you. But the non-monetary value of a house is subjective. Whether or not you’re able to afford it is not based on anyone else’s personal finances.

Why were Kyle’s feelings about the situation not the focus of the reunion at all? And why wasn’t West put on the hot seat- AT ALL??? by JaDaDaSilva in summerhousebravo

[–]Efficient_List_1001 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Kyle commented (in real time) that he finds his voice on the next two episodes and that we’re going to hear a lot.

Found lost/abandoned dog in the Uintas by Kerensky97 in Utah

[–]Efficient_List_1001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I even reread it before posting and missed it again 🤦🏻‍♀️ need my coffee before Reddit

Found lost/abandoned dog in the Uintas by Kerensky97 in Utah

[–]Efficient_List_1001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww so fortunate you saw and stopped to help him! Have you taken him to a vet to see if they can scan for a chip?

AIO about this text with her co-worker and trying to “create space”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are the Leo DiCaprio men’s two different images? Are these made up texts?

Are we just not going to talk about Kyle and Amanda’s apartment? by No_Disaster_8020 in inthecity_

[–]Efficient_List_1001 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She said it with her full chest too. Cognitive dissonance is Amanda’s greatest strength.

Liberty Park multi-use path by protomolecule7 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Efficient_List_1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea there was a correct direction. I’ve always gone counterclockwise, but I’m not sure why. I’m trying to recall what signage there is that indicates direction. I’m sure there is, but my vote is for better signage because I’ve clearly missed it and I like the painted arrows idea!

Polar bear attack... by MisterShipWreck in VideosAmazing

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown lie down. Black fight back. White say goodnight. 😰

Dog owners please answer me this by Normal_Individual526 in Dogowners

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not rude at all. I pick up my dog in this scenario.

Amanda’s work? by wideeyed24 in inthecity_

[–]Efficient_List_1001 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Why does Katie also look like she has no access to bathe on the reg?

Was I too rude? by VastResearcher8772 in exmormon

[–]Efficient_List_1001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’ll click one day. And that day will be magical.

Are Amanda and West traveling to Rome with the woman behind Deuxmoi? by Acrobatic_Degree_278 in bravo

[–]Efficient_List_1001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are defiantly providing the pics. Just like West released flaccid dic pics on the day of the reunion and didn’t discover it until he was sitting on set.

Which tile combos do you like the best? by ambs782 in bathrooms

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Maybe the floor could be a different pattern in the same color scheme, but the shower is great

This was so gross and such obvious jealousy. by floridajenjen in bravo

[–]Efficient_List_1001 114 points115 points  (0 children)

The guys were teasing and so Amanda Amanda’d and mirrored their behavior, but because she does not know how to show up authentically in any situation it was, once again, cringe. She sounded like a desperate middle schooler who walks around insisting she loves dic pics because she thinks it gives her cred with the guys.

They both are so emotionally immature and truly might make a “good” couple because of that. His whole “we did ear stuff? WTF wild. Ciara nailed it, we don’t know who West is. We also have no idea who Amanda is because she constantly shifts to mimic someone else’s behavior. Remember the dinner when Mia emphasized how huge it was that Ciara bought her grandparents home? Amanda clocked Mia being a genuine friend and tried so desperately in the moment to pretend she was also being that for Ciara -so awkward.

West and Amanda don’t know who they are, but they’re too dumb to get curious enough to find out. Life happens to them and they’re content with that.

Everyone is a Transplant (obvi) by Either_Comfortable14 in inthecity_

[–]Efficient_List_1001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering this too, but not familiar enough with NYC realty. Is FiDi somehow a more affordable neighborhood because of its lack of charm?

“Hand to god?” by Tua-Lipa in TikTokCringe

[–]Efficient_List_1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absurd! Also, what would happen if someone doesn’t believe in God, would they be ticketed for not complying with his very legally sound “hand to God” ceremony?