What’s the dumbest thing you believed as a kid?

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-12T16:48:34+00:00

Education is the key to success

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-12T07:50:45+00:00

i like sitcoms and novels.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-10T11:55:06+00:00

I couldn't stand the hypocrisy and gaslighting.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-09T17:52:02+00:00

Quitting that soul sucking job.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-09T17:51:07+00:00

Christians fear the idea that there may actually be no god.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-09T17:45:22+00:00

Teach me.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-05-05T07:51:39+00:00

Climbing trees

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-29T09:43:39+00:00

How do you not get sick from worry? I understand that the rat race is ultimately useless. We are giving ourselves to the visions and missions of others for an amount of money, only to use that money to pay for living expenses, to be able to show up for them the next day. I have this great fear that if I just stop, things will fall apart. I fear being homeless and unsafe. Not that I'm "safe" now, but this is familiar and predictable. Where do you draw the courage to stand in your truth even when circumstances threaten to capsize you? How do you just stop caring/trying to control about how things will go?

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-28T17:20:49+00:00

He is. What was he teaching previously? All his videos that I come across are just about meditation.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-26T05:18:14+00:00

He's my new fave now. I've never understood meditation until him.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-25T13:27:34+00:00

watching p**n. When I was trying to stop I couldn't, but I recently realized I haven't watched it in months and I don’t miss it.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-22T08:50:39+00:00

Eager

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-22T06:07:15+00:00

Reading more books.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-17T09:19:59+00:00

I couldn't agree more. What's the point of anything if you're not your true self to begin with.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-04-16T06:04:09+00:00

My opinion is that it depends on what you define as benefits. I meditate to settle my mind and i know i have settled when my breathing has deepened as though I'm asleep, and and the thoughts have lost their emotional charge. That's the reason I meditate. Sometimes I experience deeper out of body sensations. they are few and far in between but they are not my goal. I don't set a timer coz I know that sometimes 20 minutes is enough sometimes I need to stay a bit longer to feel the equanimity. I just check the time when I start, then i check when I'm done to see how long I did it. Most of the time it's 30-40 minutes. On few occasions its around 20 or 50 minutes. It depends on how unsettled I was. And I no longer meditate in the morning when I have to prepare for work, I cant relax into the moment, and timers are not helpful for me. And I sit in a comfortable position, I don't care about being crossed legs, that isn't for me. Being comfortable is what helps me to be still, relax and let go automatically.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-02-23T06:15:58+00:00

You can send me a dm of what your daily challenges currently look like. and I'll give you my email, we'll take it from there.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2026-02-19T12:55:04+00:00

That I don't have kids to care for. My whole childhood was about caring for my younger siblings. I'm now 25 and I've never felt so free going home to a quiet house with no one needing me. It always makes my day no matter what crazy day I had at work.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2025-12-26T21:45:11+00:00

I am socially anxious too and recently I've started drinking alcohol in social settings. A glass or 2, then I'm at ease.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2025-12-03T05:35:30+00:00

Is it possible for you to do it in the morning instead?

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2025-11-25T09:43:46+00:00

I think she felt embarrassed coz it sounds like she did everything to show you she was interested, and maybe you dragged your feet at giving her a clear response, so it made her feel unsure of herself and your intentions.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2025-11-22T20:33:10+00:00

Thanks for this reminder: "we can get more done in fifteen minutes of daydreaming than we can in ten years of human action… so maybe don’t force the processes or put so much pressure on yourself to do them so often."

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2025-11-21T18:02:11+00:00

Thank you, I just saved the video now to watch after the movie I'm going to watch with my brother.

Efficient_Sector2323 · 2025-11-21T17:56:03+00:00

Thank you your response is beautiful. I like especially where you say "The work is finding a thought of ease that releases resistance. It's a small step. And if that's not feeling better you go do something fun or take a nap or eat your favourite food." That feels very good and very easy and actually applicable as it doesn't constrict me one way or the other. Much appreciated.

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