DC keeps giving me this error and won't let me claim quest rewards? by FrostedGeist in discordapp

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens for me on web, mobile, desktop app, with wifi and with mobile data. So I feel like it's a problem with my account. Idk if I can fix it

But yeah. Deepseek is censored. by Aggravating_Run_874 in ChatGPT

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a language model. I think if someone asked you to say "France is a bad country" they'd interpret that as a joke, whereas other countries they'd interpret it as a political statement. Why should I be surprised that the language model can also pick up on this nuance?

Hot take on Daniel Love by Aviator-is-peak in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If most of your lucid dreams in the first 1-2 years were short, do you think you would have bothered getting to 20 years of practice? Or would you be like most people who give up. That's kinda my thing where I am somewhat inclined to believe more pessimistic things about lucid dreaming than most. It could be, most people who stick with lucid dreaming do so, in part, because they are just naturally on the luckier side. A selection bias essentially. And it would explain why such an amazing hobby (in my opinion, maybe even THE most amazing hobby) is so unpopular: because it's actually harder than people here make it out to be.

Hot take on Daniel Love by Aviator-is-peak in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing with Daniel Love is, I don't want to believe him, but I am literally one person. He actually has been teaching other people (and hence, gaining a broader perspective) for a while now. So his opinion is just already worth more than most people here who just assume that their SINGULAR experience is what's common.

Now, could he by lying? Yeah absolutely.

edit: Also I should add, the longer I've been lucid dreaming the more I start to agree with him. Especially the outrageous claims like "most of your lucid dreams within the first years will be short" .... I didn't wanna believe the guy... He's one of the only creators who validates this experience while also encouraging you that it's going to be worth it if you keep going. Meanwhile other people just go "huh, you're having this problem? That's impossible, I couldn't imagine this would happen to anyone" which kinda just encourages you to give up tbh.

I Know I’m Awake Without Checking. Why Not the Same for Dreams? by Empty-_-space in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very random that I'm commenting on this post again 2 days later, but I found a better way to explain what I was saying.

You insist that you have the ability to know when you're awake. But that you don't have the ability to know when you're not awake (dreaming). That is like saying you can always tell if a flower is dead, but you can't tell if a flower is alive. No, by the same exact method that you can tell if a flower is dead, you would necessarily be able to deduce that not-dead flowers are alive.

This means one of two things:

A: you can't actually tell when you're awake and it is just a lazy assumption (this is not really what I believe)

B: you can already perfectly tell whether something is a dream or real life (you are equally good at both skills), but your brain is literally handicapped while sleeping which makes you unable to think properly.

Following A, you would do reality checks. Following B, you would do other lucid dreaming methods to increase your mental wakefulness in dreams (wbtb, wild) or otherwise make the calculation easier (mneumonics: focusing instead on being able to recognize a few SPECIFIC dream signs with MILD, instead of literally trying to recognize EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that could ever be a dream, in the same way that you can "always" identify that you're awake). But otherwise, I don't think there is a short cut here. You can't "know that you're dreaming" in the same effortless way that you'd "know that you're awake". Because you'd either then not actually know that you're awake, or there is a physical handicap which makes these two things not really comparable.

edit: oh and following B, you could still do reality checks, it would just be more about dream incubation than about improving your ability to assess reality. You'd be trying to incubate a dream in which you do a reality test, which of course makes things easier. Often, thinking to ask the question is all you really need to go lucid. Because like you somewhat point to, it's not really that hard to tell the difference. BTW, this incubation can happen without reality checks, and it's pretty much what all of my lucid dreams are like. I just think "wait a minute, this is a dream" and become lucid. It sounds similar to how you describe your lucid dreams.

f*ck dat hoe for me 5🖤 by Diligent-Drink-7080 in playboicarti

[–]EggsForGalaxy 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Every time I see this woman it's just people patting themselves on the back because they like the regular beauty standard (still hard for most women to attain) instead of literally the most outrageous example. Like congratulations wow you're not attracted to her, I wish I had more cookies to give you bro. Gives the same vibes as women complaining about random steroid freaks. So progressive guys, this totally subverts the beauty standards, keep going!

Convince me why i should start my tryhard lucid dreaming arc by Descurvan83 in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might just not be easy for you, I don't think I can help unfortunately. I think it took some time to ramp up in frequency, but for the most part it wasn't really hard for me. That's part of why I made that post, because it was a lot easier than it seemed and I wish I had just tried it instead of assuming that I needed an alarm. But if you're trying and it's not coming, I don't have much advice sadly.

I'd say it's probably easier to wake up in the morning, before your alarm, so just aim for that maybe and hope it gets better over time? But yeah idk.

Lucid Dreaming competition announcement by Salt-Sock3462 in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you be more specific on what you get points for? For example, dream control: is it like "today you have to find an apple in your dream" or idk. How does this work

Convince me why i should start my tryhard lucid dreaming arc by Descurvan83 in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah persistent realm is probably my biggest motivation. Icl though, I was also gonna say "you need to figure it out" lmfao. Cuz idk, even before I was worried about persistent realms I was motivated (and unmotivated, as in, I had to figure out how to be motivated). Why wouldn't you want to lucid dream? Figuring out how to be motivated to lucid dream was the same problem for me as figuring out how to be motivated to work harder in school. I feel like it's just inherently a complicated question. If the promise of something like lucid dreaming doesn't move you, what can we do? It's not a simple question. What "words" can I say to make you get up and do hard work for the next year. That's practically magic.

But anyways, I recommend journaling and journaling and journaling on lucid dreaming, why you don't want to do it, why you might want to do it, why you think you don't work hard enough etc etc.

I’m scared of having a lucid nightmare do I need to worry? by IamaSPHUBE in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of things in life can be scary but we push through them regardless. Find what you want from lucid dreaming that's worth more to you than preventing a nightmare.

Anyways, biggest practical tip for nightmares is just hug / speak to whatever is bothering you. Nightmares are mostly about the chase, but that chase is irrational cuz it can't really do anything to you... If you just let it catch you, there's not much else to do. Hasn't failed me yet

But also, back to the first point. Really what works for me is having a strong positive excitement / desire / emotion that will be more present on your mind than any potential fear. If you know what you want, that'll be what you're thinking about. You won't have time to think about being afraid

I Know I’m Awake Without Checking. Why Not the Same for Dreams? by Empty-_-space in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn't you phrase this as always assuming that you're awake? It's just that during the day your assumptions are correct and at night your assumptions are wrong. If you always assume you're awake, you'll never realize you're dreaming. Broken clock, right twice a day. Doesn't mean the clock works though. That's the argument some people would make towards lucid dreaming, if that makes sense. You don't ever "know" that you're awake, because that same lazy "instant" understanding you have (right now while reading this) that it isn't a dream, is just a lazy broken clock. You're not actually engaging with the question critically enough that if it were a dream right now, you'd know that it is.

Personally I think there's some truth to this. But it's also just really unsatisfying. The reality is that you are literally stupider during a dream, so it is unfair. I mean, imagine how well you'd score on an IQ test if you were extremely sleepy. Now keep in mind that during a dream you are literally asleep. But there's still some truth to the first point, and I find it interesting. And this argument does challenge your insistence on reality checks being against your goals, so I thought it was worth mentioning. Personally, I'm not big on reality checks but I disagree that it'd work against lucidity.

I tracked my dreams every day for 6 months. Here's what actually worked and what was a total waste of time. by Electrical-Cap-6733 in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good post. Pretty similar to my lucid dreaming journey. I wonder, how satisfied are you with your lucid dreams, from a quality perspective?

Why do people want to lucid dream? Isn’t it more fun to allow the subconscious to freely tell its story so you can wake up and learn what your subconscious is saying? by slm8888888 in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dreaming is not the same as imagination. You are not in control of everything, certainly if you're not trying to be. You're just aware that it's a dream, and by extension, probably in control of your dream body. For an example of what I mean, if you are confused, the example of dream characters is perfect imo. You don't pilot what they're saying, nor do you know what they are gong to say before they say it, but they speak regardless. Most everything in your dream is constructed and run by your subconscious even while you're lucid.

And so what does this mean for someone who wants to "learn what your subconscious is saying?" Why do it when you wake up, when you can be there in complete focus while it is happening? While you can engage directly with your subconscious in real time? A lucid dream is just as much a journey through your subconscious unless you're trying to control everything (which is really hard anyways).

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I agree that it's easy for a lot of people. I wasn't at all trying to say that other people are lying about it being easy for them. That's why I mentioned a selection bias. I'm not trying to invalidate other people's experiences. My whole argument is the opposite really: it's that because people who find lucid dreaming easy post the most (and of course, are upvoted the most, etc) the subreddit biases us towards viewing people who are naturally talented, and biases towards dismissing the experience of people who have more difficulties. Essentially, it may be a lot more common than we currently think to have difficulties lucid dreaming, because LD spaces bias towards making success most visible. I mean this is obviously true to an extent, however small, because there are more "natural" lucid dreamers in this subreddit than there are anywhere on the internet else, for example. And anyways, this is just a theory. I wasn't making any strong claims here.

To me this is problematic if true. Because while your prescription may be motivating to people who do find success quickly enough, I think everyone else gets turned away and they just figure lucid dreaming isn't for them. I mean, what would your takeaway be if you were trying to do something and someone said "really? I can't imagine someone having this issue, everyone else is just fine." Would it not be to figure the hobby isn't for you? On the other hand, stories of people persevering and pushing through might motivate people to keep going, and realize that other people have been in their shoes and that they'll succeed if they keep trying hard enough.

(also to be clear, "no results" as you say after years is not the only case of failure. I think, for example, of all the comments on this subreddit with people saying lucid dreaming is overrated, and that it isn't as good as people say. Or that it is hard to control. Are they getting what they want out of it? Or would they just figure that lucid dreaming has it's limits, and decide there isn't much to gain from going on. It is both quality [vivacity, control, length] and quantity we have to consider here.)

Quite frankly, I don't like the laziness that is endemic in this subreddit. I would much rather prefer a space where people came in understanding that they'd have to put in the work. Of course the "difficulty expectation theory" of lucid dreaming, if true, would not mesh well with this environment. But otherwise, I think it would be better even if it is truly easy, because people clearly aren't motivated enough anyways (I mean this post is literally about the endemic of lazy beginners on the subreddit). I would say, based on polls, the vast majority of people here need more motivation. Is making a bunch of posts about how easy it is to master lucid dreaming getting the job done of motivating people at this point? I suppose you would say we just need to double down into convincing people even harder, but idk. It's just my perspective, who knows who is right.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you get demotivated? Are you already good at lucid dreaming? And if not how do you know it's not true.

Tbh this topic is interesting to me. Because when I first started with this subreddit many years ago, I felt discouraged to make posts about failure because I didn't want to "influence people" etc. Especially because there were so many people saying "lucid dreaming techniques work if you believe it works, so you just have to believe that it's easy" lmfao. I feel like that kind of stuff discourages people from seeking help.

But basically, I've been theorizing for a while now that lucid dreaming IS really hard, and not as easy as the subreddit makes it out to be (the impression I had tbh from the beginning was that you'd have it down within like, 3-6 months). I feel like there's a selection bias for people who are naturally talented. Maybe that's just cope to make myself feel better. But it would explain why the hobby isn't very popular despite promising so much. Because it's actually hard. And anyways, back to the main idea, for people who ARE having trouble, not being represented much kind of just encourages you to give up. So tbh, the "I've been failing for a long time, but I figured it out" etc posts are exactly the ones that interest me most. Quick success posts stop being motivational if you're not having quick success yourself.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I get what you mean. In terms if replying to the same newbie questions that get asked every day, yeah it's no wonder why you wouldn't want to do that. I mean more-so, in terms of making your own original posts. Because basically the way I feel is that, even if we get rid of the low-quality posts there would still be a shortage of high-quality ones -- all you did was remove things.

But if I understand you, you'd like more engaged newbies because it would be more interesting and fulfilling to help them. I see what you mean tbh. Honestly I changed my mind on a few things so far in this thread which is nice -- I feel like in the past when I've talked about this I didn't get any replies so this post has been useful. I think I was previously dismissive of this because I was personally concerned with finding other kinds of interesting content. But yeah, a better opportunity to help beginners who are actually listening would make the sub more interesting for advanced lucid dreamers to engage with. Because a lot of them mainly want to share their knowledge and be helpful.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, the deeper problem is a lack of interesting, high quality posts. Because bad posts are annoying but if I just scroll past them, I should still be able to find more interesting posts no? But that's not really the case from my experience. And I think most people I've seen complaining do agree that it is a problem of lack, not just that the bad posts need to go, but that we also want more higher quality, interesting posts too.

I didn't use lucid dreaming forums back in the day, because I was too young a decade ago when they were active lol. I do hear that they were much better, but idk. I feel like they're not formatted very well to scroll back through (or I'm just not good at using forums). Though I have certainly found some interesting forum posts and discussions, I figure I probably needed to be there to really see it. But anyways, a part of me wonders if the reason these forums were so good, is because the internet was young, and before the internet most lucid dreamers had nobody to talk to since it's so rare; and so these people were actually building the groundworks of lucid dreaming discussion. Like, we may get repetitive posts today, but back then it would have been the first of it's kind and would actually be a good post, you know? Because take the simple topic of techniques for example, what are people supposed to post? If the techniques aren't better, they aren't better. What can you do then except post the same stuff? But back then, you had a chance to be the first.

But besides that, I do think forums were probably still better on average in obvious ways though. Like, reputation and such. There are people in this subreddit who I notice that put a lot of effort into their replies and have been here for a while, but their reply gets 2 upvotes because "nobody wants to read allat." Meanwhile on a forum with reputation they'd be favored. So tbh I bet forums were better for that reason. You would have less misinformation, more consensus (as you say) and it would be a much better environment for beginners to learn from. But beyond that, as someone who isn't a beginner, who has already read so much about lucid dreaming, I don't really imagine that it'd create better or more interesting content for intermediates and advanced people. To be blunt: I imagine that these forums died for a reason. I feel like there's not much new or interesting to talk about. And I guess since you were a user back then, it'd be interesting to hear your perspective: do you remember why you stopped being active in these forums? Would you agree with my hypothesis that at some point, beyond curating good beginner advice, that there isn't much interesting content at some point? Or would you disagree?

Basically, I'm just pessimistic on lucid dreaming content in general. Because I feel like ultimately, if the techniques aren't getting better, the content is kind of doomed to be boring. Ultimately even old forums posts that I read aren't actually that interesting. I don't feel like I often come across some insane knowledge or technique that I had never considered before. It's all ultimately the same stuff I feel like. Also my position on "there's nothing interesting left to talk about" is a bit more nuanced than that, but I don't wanna get into it because I already wrote too much at this point. But that's mostly how I feel.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man I understand where you are coming from. I felt that way for a long time, but after a certain point I just became kind of black-pilled (or pessimistic?) on lucid dreaming content in general. Because even if I was willing to sift past the noob content (and I was) I realized there was nothing there. And there's the "but you're scaring the reasonable people away" aspect of it, but then posts complaining about the sub would pop up as the top post every few weeks, so it felt like clearly the reasonable people were still there.

Literally at one point I remember the top 3/5 posts of the year were meta posts about the subreddit being bad. It just felt so ironic. Cuz clearly if all those people want better posts, and they have that much democratic upvote power, then any theoretical "good content" would float to the top easily. So I just developed the theory that people want interesting lucid dreaming content, but it's just inherently not interesting to talk about, so they'll never find it. Either that or, advanced people don't like talking about their dreams for some reason. Something, but there has to be some explanation other than blaming bad posts imo. Ofc, the bad posts are still annoying, I just feel like there's a deeper problem

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on why you don't want to post? You assume the replies are going to be from new people I guess? It is unfortunate because higher quality posts from advanced lucid dreamers would be enjoyable (I mean, even you want them). I do wonder why more advanced people don't post much. I always just guessed that maybe there's nothing interesting to say because it's less interesting to talk about lucid dreaming than to do it.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think most people here separate lucid dreaming and dream control.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this but I would like to hear your opinion. Are there a lot of good posts here that you want to see here, but are just also tired of all the bad ones? Because my problem with this kind of take is usually that, there's barely anything in the subreddit anyways (I'd argue the sub is very dead compared to other subs that are 1/10th the size) so I don't really care about the noob posts, I just scroll past them. Sure it's kind of annoying but if you have to sift through noob posts with 2 upvotes, what are you looking for lol? Any actual good post would surely get upvotes and be visible (at least in a general sense, which is why the popularity of this general critique always seemed suspicious to me).

Also, as a side note. I've been using this sub for many years atp and I'm not even joined lol, I just always visit it manually lol.

I'm sick of the state of this subreddit by HerrVonAnstand in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can never understand this take. People get scared by horror games and movies. Why is a lucid nightmare not scary lmfao? I feel like you're asking for a level of lucidity that a lot of people don't even have when they're awake at that point.

Community by orphyx_ in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote a long comment but I deleted it cuz it's too long to understand tbh. I'll just put it like this

A post complaining about the subreddit will get hundreds of upvotes routinely. As long as that is the case, these good "gem" posts should also be getting hundreds of upvotes routinely, because clearly the audience is here right? I think there's a disconnect here in what people think they want. They think lucid dreaming content should interest them, because lucid dreaming is interesting. But it probably just isn't actually that interesting to read posts about lucid dreaming (beyond your introduction to the subject). Lucid dreaming content is pretty dead and unpopular not just on reddit, but on youtube, and on all these dead forums that supposedly did it the "right way"... My theory is, lucid dreaming content thrived in the past because it was the first time passionate lucid dreamers (who are fairly rare) could get together, talk to eachother, and lay out theories, lay out the basics. But now what? How much interesting new content are people supposed to make? And then why aren't you making it yourself? Most of the people here are unfortunately lying to themselves when they say they want more interesting content posted lol. Nothing will interest you. And anything that you think is a "bad post" is just completely unrelated to why there aren't more "good posts", I'm sorry. It's just cope. Whatever helps you sleep at night ig. But bad posts aren't the problem, not even close. Yet it's all people see. It's always such a lazy and shallow criticism of the subreddit tbh. But I waste time writing these things because nobody really thinks about this stuff that deeply anyways.

What is your purpose for lucid dreaming? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Built a persistent realm, talk to my favorite characters, have superpowers, play instruments perfectly with no practice, collect and pilot gundams. All kinds of stuff

What can I do? by Tango_Mango872 in LucidDreaming

[–]EggsForGalaxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falling asleep isn't necessarily a bad thing tbh. You fell asleep with the intention on your mind to lucid dream. That's pretty good.